ABC of Pilates

07/09/2026

✨What Happened to the Human Being?✨

If people ask me how I feel about being back from the desert, or how my experience in the KSA was, my honest answer is: it was challenging.

Living and working in the deep middle of the desert tested me daily. There is a huge misunderstanding between what people imagine and what it is actually like to live and work there.

It challenged me, but it also gave me something unexpected: deeper inner peace, greater self-confidence, and the ability to step outside … everything … and look from the outside in.

So I left the desert excited about what could come next.

Excited to learn more. To experience other countries, cultures and studios. To take everything I have learned over 14 years of teaching Pilates and continue growing.

And then I hit another wall.

I have been sending my CV, qualifications, certificates and biography into the world. Applying for positions advertised as “we’re hiring”, sometimes hearing nothing back.

And I find myself wanting to write two words in bold red across the top of my CV:

📌PASSION. EXPERIENCE📌

Since when are these not important?

After 14 years of teaching Pilates all over, I know what I bring into a room.

But apparently, before any of that, there must be a photograph.
Sometimes I wonder if we should simply add our body measurements and weight to the application, so everyone can decide whether we are acceptable before looking at our experience.

And it doesn’t stop with the teacher.

I am tired of watching Pilates become another competition.

Another boutique studio. Another concept. Hot Pilates. Reformer Pilates. Neon lights. Pumping music. Smartwatches. Heart rates. Calories. Numbers everywhere.

And somewhere underneath all those numbers is a human being.

Remember ………….?

Joseph Pilates created Contrology around control, concentration, precision, breathing, centring and flow.

🔺The basics
🔺The body. The mind. The breath.
🔺The human being

🍀I still teach that Pilates🍀

My clients from Wilderness follow me wherever I go. They don’t need neon lights or a smartwatch. They simply get onto their mats and move.

For 55 minutes, even though we are online and miles apart, they have somewhere to breathe, move, switch off the noise and come back to themselves.

That, to me, is Pilates.

And for what is left of 2026, I have another question to answer:

🔴Do I want to build a Pilates business, or do I simply want to teach Pilates?🔴

Right now, my passion is Pilates.

I want to teach. I want to experience another country, another culture, another way of living — and share the thing I know and love.

There is nothing wrong with building a business.

But somewhere between the business model, the latest trend and the chase for the next client, we must be careful not to lose the core of Pilates.

Maybe we don’t need to reinvent Pilates.

Clean the room. Clean the equipment. Put the mat down. Take a breath.

And remember why we came here.

For the human being🧘🏻‍♀️🍀

31/08/2026

⚖️ The Weight We Carry✨

I’m on my way back from the Netherlands to Cape Town, suitcase beside me, and it got me thinking about weight.

We all know the feeling of trying to close a suitcase that has somehow become heavier than we intended. We remove a few things, rearrange them, perhaps ask ourselves, “Do I really need this?”

Pilates often asks us the same question.

In a Pilates class, we can easily assume that more resistance means more work. But that isn’t always the case. Sometimes the lighter spring setting demands more control, more stability and more muscle effort than the heavier one.

And mat Pilates can often feel harder than working on the Reformer.

📍 I often say in my classes: “Remember, the Reformer doesn’t need the exercise. Your body needs the movement.”

I learnt this lesson very clearly just before the Covid lockdown. I had already prepared myself to move my Pilates classes online, and my clients were eager to continue. At the time, I was also connected to a studio where some teachers taught mainly Reformer classes.

When lockdown came, a few of them contacted me to ask what I was doing and how I was going to continue teaching.

They followed my example and discovered something interesting: teaching Pilates without the apparatus was hard.

Suddenly there was no machine to demonstrate the movement. They had to roll up their sleeves, demonstrate, explain, observe and correct. The body — not the equipment — had to become the focus.

🍀And perhaps life is a little like that too🍀

We often believe that carrying more means we are stronger. More responsibility. More possessions. More expectations. More things to prove.

But sometimes the greatest strength comes from knowing what you can put down.

🔴 The luggage we carry through life doesn’t have to be the heaviest to have meaning.

♦️Sometimes we need to rearrange it.
♦️Sometimes we need to leave something behind.
♦️Sometimes we simply need to ask ourselves, “Do I really need to carry this?”

That is why the words Travel Light have always meant more to me than simply travelling with less luggage.

They have become a way of living.

♥️Travel light in your suitcase.
♥️Travel light in your body.
♥️Travel light in your mind.
♥️Travel light in your heart.

As I make my way back to Cape Town and into whatever comes next, I’m reminded once again that we don’t always need more.

Sometimes we need less.

And perhaps that is where we find the freedom to move.

✨ Travel light. Move freely. Live fully.

24/08/2026

⚖️ ✨Balance Isn’t About Standing Still✨

Balance is one of those things we think we understand.
We imagine someone standing perfectly still, completely centred, without moving an inch.

But after years of teaching Pilates, I’ve learnt that balance is actually the opposite.

🔺Balance is movement🔻

Our bodies are constantly making tiny adjustments to keep us upright. The feet, ankles, pelvis, spine, eyes and breath are communicating with each other all the time, making corrections we barely notice.

And this is where Pilates becomes fascinating.

Give someone a small ball to work with, place them on a Swiss ball, introduce a foam roller, or simply take a familiar movement onto the side of the body, and suddenly everything changes.

The body can no longer rely on its usual patterns.

♦️It has to listen.
♦️It has to adjust.
♦️It has to find its centre again.

And sometimes I see that little moment of surprise in a client’s face when their body realises, “Oh… this is different.”

🍀And perhaps life is a little like that too🍀

We often imagine that having balance in life means having everything figured out. The right job, the right home, the right routine, a clear direction and everything neatly in its place.

But life doesn’t really work that way.

⏰Things change.

⏰Plans change.

⏰People change.

⏰And sometimes we change.

Perhaps balance isn’t about keeping everything still. Perhaps it is about learning how to adjust when something changes, to move when we need to move, to pause when we need to pause, and to listen to what our body, mind and soul are telling us.

Pilates has taught me that balance isn’t a destination. It is an ongoing conversation between the body and the mind.

🖍️Sometimes we’re steady.

🖍️Sometimes we wobble.

🖍️Sometimes we have to step off completely, gather ourselves and begin again.

🔴 That doesn’t mean we’ve lost our balance.

It means we’re learning how to find it again.

As I stand at the beginning of another chapter, without knowing exactly where it will take me, I’m reminded of something I tell my clients:

Don’t be afraid of the wobble.

It is often the wobble that teaches you where your centre is.

Perhaps that is what balance really means.

Not standing still…

but trusting yourself enough to keep moving

Travel light 🧘🏻‍♀️🍀

18/08/2026

🪞What Do You See When You Look in the Mirror?✨

There is something interesting about teaching Pilates in front of a mirror.
At first, it seems like the perfect teaching tool. You can see your alignment, posture, pelvis and feet. You can watch the movement and make corrections.

But after years of teaching, I’ve learnt that a mirror can also become a distraction.

I’ve watched clients lift their heads because they want to see themselves, or change their alignment to get a better look at their reflection. Instead of feeling what is happening inside the body, their attention moves outside of it.

And that makes me wonder…

What are we actually looking for when we look in the mirror?

🌿 In Pilates, I often encourage my clients to close their eyes and feel the movement. Feel the weight of the body. Feel the breath. Feel where the pelvis and shoulders are resting, where the muscles are working.

Because sometimes what we feel tells us much more than what we see.

📌And perhaps life is a little like that too.

We spend so much time looking at the outside reflection — how we appear, what we’ve achieved, where we’re going and what others might think — that we forget to look deeper.

This thought has stayed with me during my six months in the desert.
It has been a strange, wonderful and deeply personal chapter of my life.

For the first time in a very long time, I found myself far away from family, friends and everything familiar.

There was simply me🧐

And perhaps, in its own unexpected way, the desert became my mirror.

🌵 I had time to look at my life. To question it. To revisit parts of myself I had neglected. To look honestly at what I want, what I don’t want, where I’ve been and where I want to go next.

It wasn’t always comfortable.

But it was necessary.

And somewhere along the way, I discovered something I didn’t realise I needed to discover:

I am stronger than I thought I was.

Not because I have all the answers. I don’t.

But because I have learnt that I can stand on my own feet, keep moving forward, adapt, learn and trust that the next step will reveal itself.

✨ This chapter is now closed.

I leave the desert with more knowledge, more experience and a deeper understanding of the work I love — but also a clearer understanding of myself.

And for that, I feel incredibly blessed and privileged.

I believe I was meant to be here.

And I believe I was meant to leave.

As I look into the next chapter, I don’t have a perfect plan.

I simply have an open heart, an open mind, years of experience, a willingness to learn and curiosity about what might be waiting around the corner.

Perhaps that’s enough🧘🏻‍♀️

Sometimes we simply need to look honestly at the person in the mirror, accept who we have become, and be brave enough to take the next step.

🪞 The reflection may show you where you are.

But it doesn’t have to decide where you’re going.

10/08/2026

✨The Exercise That Teaches Patience✨

There are moments in almost every Pilates class when I can see frustration quietly creeping in.

A client attempts an exercise, only for it not to feel quite right. They try again. And again. Sometimes they laugh. Sometimes they sigh. Occasionally they look at me and say, “I can’t do it.”

My answer is almost always the same.

“Not yet.”

I smile and reassure them: “It will come. We’re going to keep on doing this. In a month’s time, or perhaps six weeks from now, you’re going to do this effortlessly. And when you do, I’m going to remind you about today, when you told me you couldn’t do it.”
And more often than not, that is exactly what happens.

One of the greatest gifts Pilates has given me over the years has very little to do with stronger muscles or better posture.

It has taught me patience!

Our bodies don’t learn because we demand perfection. They learn because we keep showing up. Every repetition teaches the body something new. Every attempt, even the unsuccessful ones, is quietly preparing us for the moment when everything finally clicks - and then suddenly!
The movement that felt impossible a few weeks ago suddenly feels natural.

Not because we became stronger overnight, but because we were patient enough to let the process unfold.

🌿 Watching this happen in the studio often reminds me of another sport that quietly teaches the same lesson: golf.

No golfer expects to perfect their swing after a single lesson. They understand that consistency, repetition and countless small adjustments gradually shape the result. Every shot offers feedback. Every round teaches something new.

Gary Player once said:

“Patience is a virtue, but it’s a thing that I’ve found lacking in so many human beings.”

Whether we’re standing on a Pilates Reformer or on the first tee of a golf course, progress asks the same thing of us: patience, quiet persistence, and the willingness to try again.

🌿 Perhaps life isn’t so different either.

We live in a world that celebrates instant success. We expect quick answers, immediate progress and visible results. Yet the most meaningful things in life rarely happen that way.

📍Confidence is built one experience at a time.
📍Trust is earned one conversation at a time.
📍Strong relationships grow one day at a time.

And character is shaped through countless ordinary moments that no one else ever sees.

Perhaps we have become impatient with the very process that helps us grow.

I think we could all be kinder to ourselves by remembering the same thing outside the studio.

✨ Progress doesn’t ask us to be perfect.

It simply asks us to be patient enough to keep going.

Because sometimes the exercise isn’t strengthening the body…

It’s strengthening the person🧘🏻‍♀️🍀

03/08/2026

✨The Lightest Spring Can Be the Hardest Teacher✨

One of the biggest surprises for new Pilates clients often has nothing to do with the exercise itself.

It happens when I change the springs on the Reformer.

Like many people, they assume that the heaviest spring will automatically make the exercise harder. It seems logical. More resistance must mean more effort… doesn’t it?🧐

Then I remove a spring.

Or choose a lighter one.

A few repetitions later, I usually see the same look of surprise, followed by a smile and the words:

“This is so much harder!”

That moment never gets old.

What many people don’t realise is that a heavier spring often gives the body more support and stability. A lighter spring asks something completely different. It asks the body to organise itself. Suddenly, balance becomes more important. Alignment becomes more precise. The smaller stabilising muscles begin to work harder, and every movement requires greater control.

It’s a wonderful reminder that harder doesn’t always come from having more.

🍀Perhaps life works in much the same way🍀

We often believe that success comes from adding more.

📌More hours.
📌More qualifications.
📌More possessions.
📌More followers.
📌More commitments.

We become convinced that if we simply keep adding, life will somehow become richer.

Yet some of life’s greatest lessons arrive when something is taken away.

🔴 Less certainty teaches us resilience.
🔴 Less comfort teaches us courage.
🔴 Less noise helps us hear our own thoughts.
🔴 Less support often reveals just how strong we really are.

🌿 Pilates reminds me of this every day.

The body doesn’t become stronger simply because we make everything heavier.

Sometimes strength comes from learning to control what feels unstable.

From trusting ourselves when there is just a little less to hold us up.

From discovering muscles we never knew existed.

🌿 Perhaps that’s true beyond the studio too.

The seasons that challenge us the most are often the ones that shape us the most🧘🏻‍♀️

The moments when life feels a little lighter on support can become the moments when we discover a deeper strength within ourselves🧘🏻‍♀️

Maybe that’s why I love teaching Pilates.

Because every spring has something to teach us.

Not only about movement…

But about life.

✨ Sometimes the lightest spring becomes the hardest teacher✨

27/07/2026

✨The Smallest Adjustment Can Change Everything✨

One of my favourite moments in a Pilates class is when a client suddenly stops, smiles, and says, “Oh… now I can feel it!”

What’s interesting is that it rarely happens because we’ve worked harder. More often than not, it happens because we’ve made the smallest adjustment.

Sometimes it’s a gentle correction of the pelvis.

Sometimes it’s the placement of a foot.

Occasionally it’s simply asking someone to soften their shoulders or lengthen through the crown of the head.

➡️The movement hasn’t changed.

➡️The exercise hasn’t changed.

➡️The effort hasn’t even changed.

♦️But the alignment has.

And suddenly everything feels different.

🍀That is one of the most beautiful lessons Pilates continues to teach me.

Alignment isn’t just about standing taller or moving more efficiently. It’s about creating the right foundation so that every part of the body can work in harmony. When the pelvis is aligned, the spine has the support it needs. When the feet are placed well, the hips, knees and ankles begin to work together instead of against one another. One small adjustment can completely change the quality of a movement.

It has made me wonder how often this happens outside the studio.

We live in a world that encourages big changes. A new job. A new business. A new diet. A fresh start. We often believe that transformation must come from doing something dramatic.

Yet perhaps life is more like Pilates.

Perhaps we don’t always need to change everything.

Perhaps we simply need to adjust our alignment.

🌿 Align our priorities.

🌿 Align our thoughts with our values.

🌿 Align our actions with the life we hope to build.

🌿 Align our energy with what truly matters.

Sometimes the smallest shift in perspective changes everything that follows.

As a Pilates instructor, I gently “nip and tuck” bodies every day. A slight adjustment here. A subtle correction there. Then I watch as someone discovers a movement they didn’t think was possible just moments before.

I often wonder whether life asks the same of us.

Not to become someone completely different…

But to make one small adjustment.

To stand a little taller.

To breathe a little deeper.

To trust ourselves a little more.

Because sometimes the biggest breakthroughs don’t come from t aking giant leaps.

♦️ They come from finding the right alignment.

And once we do…

Everything else begins to fall into place🧘🏻‍♀️🍀

20/07/2026

✨The Strongest Player Isn’t Always the One in the Spotlight✨

When I ask new clients which muscle they think is the most important in Pilates, the answer is almost always the same:

“The core.”

It’s not a wrong answer.

But it isn’t the whole story.

One of the most remarkable muscles in the human body is the gluteus maximus. It is the largest and heaviest muscle we have, quietly working behind the scenes every day. It helps keep us upright, extends the hip when we walk, climb stairs, stand up from a chair, and provides the power behind so many of our everyday movements.

Yet it rarely gets the recognition it deserves.

That has made me think about life🧐

How often do we assume that the most visible thing is the most important?

📌 In business, we often celebrate the person standing on the stage, forgetting the team working tirelessly behind the scenes.
📌 In leadership, we admire confidence, while overlooking quiet consistency.
📌 In life, we can become so focused on what everyone else sees that we forget about the foundations supporting it all.

Pilates has taught me that the body doesn’t work in isolation. No muscle works alone. The strongest movement happens when muscles communicate, support one another, and each play their part.

Life isn’t so different.

Success is rarely built by one spectacular moment. It’s built by countless unseen moments.

🔺 The early mornings.
🔺 The difficult conversations.
🔺 The decision to keep going.
🔺 The willingness to begin again.

Perhaps that’s why I love teaching Pilates.

Every class reminds me that what appears to be the star of the movement often isn’t.

Sometimes the greatest strength comes from the quiet work happening in the background.

♦️ Maybe that’s true of our bodies.
♦️ Maybe it’s true of our lives.

And maybe it’s true of people too.

The strongest player isn’t always the one in the spotlight.

Sometimes it’s the one quietly carrying the load so everything else can flourish🍀

18/07/2026

🧘🏻‍♀️🍀

When people hear the word Pilates, they often think of exercises—and I understand why.

Exercises are the visible part of the method.

But after nearly three decades of teaching, I have come to see them differently.

The exercises are not the destination—they are the vehicle.

Every exercise is an opportunity to practice a skill:
- how to support the spine
- stabilize the pelvis
- organize the shoulders
- improve mobility
- develop strength
- coordinate movement
- become more aware of how the body works.

Those skills do not stay in the studio—they follow us into our daily lives.

They influence how we walk, bend, reach, lift, balance, and move through the world.

That is why I view Pilates as much more than a workout.

To me, it is a movement practice designed to help people remain physically capable for as long as possible.

13/07/2026

✨Why Are We So Uncomfortable Doing Nothing?✨

The final few minutes of every Pilates class are often my favourite. The exercises are done, the pace begins to slow, and I invite everyone to lie comfortably on their backs. I ask them to close their eyes, to become aware of their breathing, and for a few precious moments, to simply be still.

I gently guide them through a full body relaxation. Starting at the top of the head and slowly working down to the tips of the toes, I encourage them to soften the forehead, relax the jaw, let the shoulders melt into the mat, release unnecessary tension, and simply notice the weight of their body being supported.

🙄It is fascinating to observe what happens next👀

Some people surrender to the moment almost immediately. Their breathing becomes slower, their bodies soften, and they embrace the stillness. Others find those few quiet minutes surprisingly difficult. They fidget, adjust their clothing, open their eyes, or glance around the room. It is almost as though being still makes them uncomfortable.

Watching this week after week has often made me wonder: Why are we so uncomfortable doing nothing?🤷🏻‍♀️

Perhaps it is because we live in a world that celebrates constant activity. Our days are filled with emails, deadlines, responsibilities, notifications, conversations, and endless scrolling. We have become so accustomed to doing that simply being feels unfamiliar. Somewhere along the way, stillness became something to fill instead of something to value🧘🏻‍♀️

When life becomes overwhelming, when anxiety creeps in, or when the mind begins racing ahead, our breathing is often the first thing to change. It becomes shallow and hurried without us even noticing. Returning to one slow, intentional breath creates a pause. And sometimes that pause is all we need to respond with greater clarity instead of simply reacting.

Maybe that is why I treasure those final few minutes at the end of every class. They are not simply about stretching tired muscles or finishing a workout. They are an invitation to reconnect with ourselves before stepping back into the busyness of life.

As a Pilates instructor, I often hope my clients leave with stronger bodies, better posture, and greater confidence. But secretly, I hope they leave with something else as well. I hope they remember that it is perfectly acceptable to stop. To breathe. To be still. To do nothing for a little while🍀

Because perhaps doing nothing isn’t really doing nothing at all.

Perhaps it is exactly what our minds, bodies, and souls have been asking for all along.