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Our avoidance of conflict stands in the way of great performances.

In the latest episode of The Interview, Priya Parker argues that our inability to normalize conflict is holding us back—at home, at work, and, in my view, in sport.

The highest-performing teams don't avoid difficult conversations. They develop the ability to have them well.

Healthy conflict isn't about arguing more. It's about creating an environment where people feel safe enough to challenge ideas, surface concerns, and hold one another accountable. That's how values become real, trust grows stronger, and relationships deepen.

The good news? Like any performance skill, productive conflict can be learned.

So how do we help our teams lean into conflict?

• Develop self-awareness. The more aware we are of our emotions, triggers, and behaviors, the less likely we are to avoid uncomfortable conversations.

• Double down on purpose and values. A clear, shared purpose keeps people grounded. When everyone knows what they're working toward and what they stand for, conflict becomes about improving performance—not protecting egos.

• Build a debriefing culture. Review every meeting, practice, and performance—even if only for a few minutes. Regular reflection normalizes honest feedback before issues become major problems.

Conflict doesn't divide great teams—it refines them.

Healthy conflict = stronger relationships, better decisions, and ultimately better performance.

What is one thing your team does to make healthy conflict part of its culture?

https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/an-expert-on-conflict-says-your-relationships-are/id1624946521?i=1000785038554

I know Wemby is the headline, but what I saw in Game 7 of the Western Conference Finals was a TEAM victory.

Oklahoma City, without two key contributors, became heavily reliant on Shai Gilgeous-Alexander (a Canadian 🇨🇦 and two-time MVP). When that happens, even great teams can lose some of the collective rhythm and balance that made them successful in the first place.

Whether in sport, business, or the military, success often comes from applying pressure to your opponent. The more ways you can create that pressure, the harder you become to defend against.

The best teams understand this. While stars matter, championships are rarely won by individuals alone. The Warriors, Spurs, and even the Bulls of the 1990s all had elite talent—but they also played exceptional team basketball. Their ability to share responsibility, trust one another, and attack opponents from multiple angles made them difficult to beat.

Great players can win games.

Great teams win championships.

Let the best team win the Finals.

🏆 Coach of the Week: Cori Close, Head Coach, UCLA Bruins basketball 🏆

If you watched any of the women’s championship game, you saw more than just a dominant performance over a loaded South Carolina Gamecocks women's basketball team—you saw what belief, connection, and culture can produce at the highest level.

Yes, the Bruins executed at an elite technical level—but what stood out even more was their edge, their togetherness, and their joy. That combination proved too much to match.

A disciple of John Wooden, Close has led the program since 2011 with a clear foundation: character, discipline, and personal growth drive performance. Not just on the court—but in life.

Lauren Betts, a pivotal addition after transferring from Stanford Cardinal women's basketball, summed it up best: “I wanted to be somewhere that truly believed in me—and where I could be myself.”

This wasn’t just a championship. It was a culture on display.

Congrats to Coach Close and the Bruins.

Another tough loss for the Duke Blue Devils. And, as always, the spotlight turns quickly to the coach — in this case, Jon Scheyer.

That’s the nature of high-performance sport.

The questions come fast and loud:
Why wasn’t the best free-throw shooter available to inbound?
Why didn’t the player simply hold the ball?
Why keep passing instead of closing the game at the line?

Fair questions. Important questions.

But here’s the reality — we can only truly answer them if we do two things exceptionally well:

Debrief with honesty and discipline
Use the moment to understand how we operate under pressure

This is where growth lives.

Too often, teams and individuals rush past the moment. They move on. The best programs do the opposite. They lean in. They dissect. They learn.

In the military, debriefing isn’t optional — it’s embedded in the culture. Every mission, every time.

Why? Because performance under pressure is never accidental. It’s trained, examined, and refined.

Sport should be no different.

I’ve learned this: without disciplined debriefing, teams and coaches aren’t fully armed for the next critical moment.

Lean in. Learn. Be ready for the next one.

I attended a college basketball game this weekend (Auburn at Florida) that left me thinking deeply about NIL and the transfer portal, and their impact on college sports.

Xaivian Lee is a standout player for the Gators, but he seems stuck in the new NCCA world of money, movement, and professionalization.

https://rwconsulting.org/post/aloneingainesville

Xaivian Lee's struggles expose NIL issues The crushing blow of big NIL money and expectations

🏆 Coach of the Week: Tim Lewis, Eneos Sunflowers (Japan) Professional Basketball Team 🏆

This past weekend, the Sunflowers, led by Head Coach Tim Lewis, captured the Empress Cup—the most prestigious and coveted championship in Japanese basketball.

The run was nothing short of remarkable. Coach Lewis and his team upset both the No. 2 and top-ranked teams, winning four games in six days on their way to the title. An extraordinary accomplishment by any standard.

Coach Lewis has coached around the world, most recently with the Minnesota Timberwolves, and he is clearly making a powerful impact at ENEOS. He is building a program—and a culture—that players, staff, and supporters can be proud of.

His superpower? Positivity. And last week, that mindset translated directly into belief, resilience, and championship performance.

Congratulations to Coach Lewis and the Sunflowers on an outstanding victory. 👏🏀

What started as an idea in 2015 turned into a practice. RW Sport turned 10 in 2025!

Thank you to all the coaches, leaders, and organizations around the world who have leaned in.

I am looking forward to another decade of working with great people and important projects!

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