05/12/2023
Hi šš¼
Now that we are almost halfway through the year (HOW!!) I finally feel ready to post something for the first time in 2023.
Outside of a few IG stories Iāve been away from engaging in social media for almost 6 months. In January I felt this incredible urge to NOT be seen. I disabled my account for a few months. I withdrew from friends and family. My sole focus was and has been my jobs, making money and healing.
I know a lot of you have been wondering what has been going on. (I know this because of the messages Iāve been getting). There have been a few times I thought I felt ready to talk about everything but whenever I tried, it all felt too overwhelming so I stopped. I have felt like I needed to reach some kind of āresolutionā in my life so I can say āhey this is where I was at but now Iām through it and everything is great!ā But truthfully that hasnāt happened yet.
These past 6 months I have dove deep into:
ā¢nervous system regulation and healing my own nervous system
ā¢Microdosing šš
ā¢coffee enemas and parasite cleansing
ā¢working through the return of an eating disorder
ā¢multiple kambo ceremonies šø
ā¢paying off thousands of $$ in debt
ā¢helping my son with his own health journey
ā¢navigating my own health journey
All while working 6-7 days per week as a single mom.
Social media just hasnāt felt worth it. I had to eliminate any non-essentials from my life. I felt unworthy of this community I built. I felt like a failure in so many ways. So I have stayed hidden, again, not wanting to be seen.
But there have still been little whispers from the universe that my work in this space isnāt done. That I still have so much I can do and so much to offer. That I am worthy of showing up here and speaking even if I donāt feel āhealedā and even if I have tons of my own flaws Iām working through.
I have so much more to say and not enough space to say it. How the rest unfolds is TBD. But I want to thank those of you who have stuck around, sent me messages, told me you missed me and sent your love to me. Youāre the reason I havenāt completely given up on being in this space.
More to come. š«¶š¼
And P.S in case you were wondering yes Iām still sober.
12/06/2022
āļø5 Tips to THRIVE During a Sober Work Trip āļø Swipe šš¼
If you followed along this past weekend while I was in Vegas for my yearly corporate company retreat, I shared these (and more) in my stories!
This time of year tons of companies are getting together for end-of-year holiday parties, meetings and retreats. That almost always means there will be alcohol present.
I personally used to struggle a LOT with drinking too much on work trips. It felt like a time to let loose (on someone elseās dime š¤£) and it usually led to blackouts and embarrassing moments.
So happy to say Iāve re-written that story these last few years. Even though Iām the only one sober in my company, it doesnāt bother me at all. I had so many delicious mocktails (one place even had wellness juice shots!!) and donāt feel like I missed out on anything.
I had great conversations, plenty of laughs and was able to hit the hotel gym the next morning feeling tired, yes, but overall really good.
Save these tips for later š and let me know in the comments if this was helpful!
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10/18/2022
⨠8 Herbs & Spices that can help you detox in early sobriety āØ
Disclaimer: not medical advice, this is purely educational.
1ļøā£Cayenne: stimulates blood flow, boosts your metabolism & reduces pain & inflammation in the body.
šš¼Use it: Add a dash to turn up the spice & healing power of any dish. Also add in beverages like smoothies or hot tea.
2ļøā£Cinnamon: Research shows it can help combat diabetes & cancerous agents in the body.
šš¼Use it: Cinnamon compliments any warm dish with a sweet flavor profile. Sprinkle some on a bowl of oats or on raw apple slices.
3ļøā£Clove: This spice has the highest antioxidant abilities of ANY food. It aids your digestive system, kills pathogens & helps protect your liver.
šš¼Use it: Incorporate ground cloves into your meals throughout the week. They help intensify the flavor of curries & add a nice spice to baked treats.
4ļøā£Garlic: It can help knockout v*ruses, balance your blood sugar levels (so important in sobriety) & detox your body of heavy metals.
šš¼Use it: Add some pressed garlic into any savory dish. My family and I also eat it raw when we are sick to help us heal.
5ļøā£Ginger: Not only is it excellent for digestion, it can also help alleviate physical pain in the body.
šš¼Use it: I add it to every juice to give it a spice. You can also add fresh ginger to tea or plain warm water.
6ļøā£Parsley: THE go-to blood cleanser. Helps filter your blood, neutralizing pathogens & delivering various vitamins & minerals in the body.
šš¼Use it: A great green to add to fresh juice because it doesnāt drastically change the flavor. I also enjoy adding chopped parsley to scrambled eggs and roasted potatoes.
7ļøā£Rosemary: This fragrant evergreen has been shown to help improve memory and relieve muscle pain.
šš¼Use it: I incorporate rosemary into every soup and stew because it smells absolutely amazing in warm dishes!
8ļøā£Turmeric: Natureās tylenol. This is a natural pain reliever that can also help facilitate natural weight loss & reduce chronic stress symptoms.
šš¼Use it: I add it to eggs, potatoes, sautĆ©ed veggies and drinks like golden milk & golden matcha lattes with it.
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09/29/2022
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09/29/2022
Heres what you need to know about coffee āļøšš¼
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Before you all come at me 𤣠Iām not trying to take your precious coffee away!
But I do think itās important to be mindful of everything we are consuming - even if it doesnāt have alcohol in it!
And when I learned coffee doesnāt actually give us energy it just blocks the receptors in our brain that tell us we are tired š«š« I just knew this was info I had to share.
I personally have had such a roller coaster ride in my relationship with coffee. Iāve FINALLY figured out that I donāt have to cut it out of my life completely. But I do have to be intentional about how and when Iām consuming it and definitely take frequent breaks from it.
I personally drink half-caff coffee. My favorite is the ashwaghanda blend from . They also have (in my opinion) the best mushroom coffee alternatives that are completely caffeine free.
Whatās your relationship with coffee?
09/27/2022
This morning I am putting the finishing touches on the sleep module in my course. š¤
So I decided to turn the info into a post for you! š¤
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Hereās How Alcohol Affects Your Sleep šš¼ (Swipe)
All of the info is presented pretty concisely in the slides but hereās what you really need to know:
ā¢Alcohol works as a sedative, meaning it IS effective at helping us fall asleep/pass out.
ā¢However, as your body starts to metabolize the alcohol throughout the night it will cause more interruptions to your sleep.
ā¢Itās next to impossible to get into REM sleep with alcohol in your system.
ā¢It affects the secretion of HGH (human growth hormone) which is critical for maintaining lean body mass, bone and muscle growth, metabolism and heart function.
ā¢Drinking at night leads to less productivity the next day (hello hangxiety and hangovers) š
After reading through, let me know - was this helpful? Did you learn something new?
And if youāre still struggling to let go of alcohol as your go-to sleep aid, download my FREE sleep guide! (Link in bio š²) Itās full of 10 Tips I share with my clients and gives you a sneak peek of what to expect in my upcoming course.
09/14/2022
Hereās How to Handle Anxiety in Sobriety šš¼
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This has been a highly requested topic on my page and I have been meditating on how best to present my take on it.
Of course, because I believe in a holistic health model I broke down anxiety in terms of the physical, mental and spiritual implications.
I want to point out that me listing CBD under tips should not be confused with me saying ātake CBDā and your anxiety problem goes away. I think all of the tips prior to that need to be implemented and THEN CBD can be incorporated on an as-needed basis.
The CBD I recommend is and you can use my code COACHANDI at checkout to save some šø if you want to try it.
I would love to know - how did this land for you? What was your biggest takeaway? šš¼