The Solid Rock Farm, LLC

The Solid Rock Farm, LLC The Solid Rock Farm Dressage Training Barn Family owned and operated, we provide quality care for your horse to ensure it's health and happiness.

Our new barn includes 8 stalls, wash rack w/hot water, feed room & tack room. Full board includes daily turnout or pasture board is available with run-in sheds. We feed high quality grain and hay twice a day. We turn out into compatible groups or individual paddocks as needed. Our pastures are well maintained and fertilized to provide ample nutrition and excellent forage. Amenities include a 100x150 riding ring, and trail riding access to 25 miles of Parkway trails. Our clientele is mostly mature adults who enjoy riding dressage, eventing, hunting and trail riding. Call or email [email protected] with any questions. Owners live on premises. One hour from Lexington, 30 min. from Green Hill Park, which offers a wide variety of riding opportunities, shows and a cross country course. Gabriele has been a professional horse trainer for over 30 years. Her expertise will ensure that you can enjoy your horse worry free, whether you can come every day or once a year. We're conveniently located 10 minutes from downtown Roanke, so you can spent more time riding and less time driving! Ask about our special offer for retired horses!

Wish it worked that way…Buying the horse is the least of your worries/struggles/money problems…
09/19/2026

Wish it worked that way…
Buying the horse is the least of your worries/struggles/money problems…

Horse girl math: expert edition.

09/17/2026
This is so important!Hock pain can show up in so many different parts of the horse’s body and cause behavioral issues!Pl...
09/17/2026

This is so important!
Hock pain can show up in so many different parts of the horse’s body and cause behavioral issues!
Please check withers, back And hocks if any problems arise.
Not to mention teeth and poll..

In yesterday’s posts about behavioural issues, saddles and pain, I said I’d share a few real-life examples I’ve personally come across over the years.

So. Gather round. It’s Jackanory time.

A few years ago, I had a client with a lovely horse she mainly rode Western.

They were brilliant together. Happy horse, happy rider, absolutely no problems.

Then she decided she fancied having a go at dressage, so she called me to fit a dressage saddle.

She chose and designed a beautiful saddle. I fitted it, delivered it, she loved it, horse went beautifully, everyone was happy. They trotted off into the sunset and I was looking forward to watching their dressage career blossom.

A few weeks later, the phone rang.

There was a problem.

Her horse was sore. And lame.

But only in the dressage saddle.

In the Western saddle? Fine.

Well. Bu**er.

Obviously I went straight back out.

I checked the saddle. And checked it again. I watched the horse. I checked everything I could possibly check.

And I couldn’t find anything wrong with the saddle.

I told her I didn’t think the saddle was causing the problem.

And this is a really important bit of this story:

♥️ She trusted me.♥️

Despite the fairly compelling evidence of:

Western saddle = sound horse.
My shiny new dressage saddle = lame horse.

She didn’t immediately decide I’d sold her a dud saddle. She didn’t demand her money back. She didn’t pop onto Facebook to announce that her saddle fitter had RUINED HER HORSE. And threaten to sue.

She listened when I said, ‘I don’t think this is the saddle. Let’s get the vet.’ Believe me, even though I was sure I was right, even I questioned myself.

And I made damn sure I was there when the vet came, given the symptoms, I knew exactly what the vet was likely to think too.

(It’s the saddle.)

Except I was convinced it wasn’t.

My suspicion was actually kissing spine around the back of the ribs affected by the dressage saddle, but effectively bypassed by the Western saddle.

So the vet listened to me too.

We X-rayed the back.

Clear.

Oh.

Bu**er again.

The vet looked at me and asked:

“How sure are you that it isn’t the saddle?”

100%.

So he carried on looking.

And X-rayed the hocks.

And there it was.

Both hocks were basically rubble.

Which left one fairly massive question.

Why the hell was the horse sound in the Western saddle?

Because over time, the horse had developed a way of loping in his Western work that allowed him to avoid loading those painful hocks in the same way.

Put him into a dressage saddle, change his frame, ask him to bring his hindlegs underneath himself and push differently…

And suddenly the problem became visible.

The dressage saddle hadn’t caused the lameness.

It had exposed it.

And I think about this case a lot.

Because that client could VERY reasonably have blamed the saddle.

The vet could VERY reasonably have blamed the saddle.

On the face of it, the evidence practically had a flashing neon arrow pointing at the saddle.

But bodies are complicated. Horses compensate. They alter movement patterns. They find ways around pain.

And sometimes changing one thing doesn’t create the problem.

It simply makes a problem that was already there impossible to hide.

It’s also why the relationship I have with my clients, and with the vets, physios and other professionals around me, matters so much.

Because sometimes we need to be able to say:

“I know it looks like my bit. But I don’t think it is. Keep looking.”

And for someone to trust us enough to do exactly that.

More Jackanory real-life saddle fitting stories tomorrow.

Pop x

Ps edited to add, I am very lucky and we have excellent forward thinking vets near me but this particular vet was from Tower Equine Veterinary Surgeons so they deserve a shout out! Cos they could easily have dismissed the behaviour as a saddle fitting issue.

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So very true
09/06/2026

So very true

You are surrounded by people all day... students, parents, and horses. The barn is never empty and you are rarely alone and yet there is a specific kind of loneliness that comes with being the one responsible for all of it that most people who have not done this job will never fully understand.

It is the loneliness of being the one who holds all the information but cannot share most of it. The student who is struggling emotionally. The family going through something difficult. The horse that is not quite right and you are not sure why yet. The financial pressure that nobody else knows about. You carry all of it and you carry it alone because you are the professional and professionals do not unload on their students or their clients.

It is the loneliness of having nobody to debrief with at the end of the day. A bad lesson. A difficult conversation with a parent. A horse that scared you a little and you are still processing it. Most people go home from work and talk to someone about their day. You go home and feed horses and do it again tomorrow because there is nobody waiting at the end of your day who truly understands what the day actually cost you.

It is the loneliness of making decisions that affect everyone and having no one to make them with. When do you retire the school horse everyone loves. Whether to let a student go whose behavior has become a problem. How to handle the parent who is making your barn feel like a difficult place to be. These decisions sit with you. They keep you up at night sometimes and you make them mostly alone because the nature of being in charge is that the weight of it lands where the authority does.

It is the loneliness of caring more than most people around you realize. You invest deeply in your students - in their confidence, their progress, their relationship with horses. Most of them have no idea how much of yourself goes into what looks from the outside like a forty five minute lesson. When they leave, sometimes without a word or sometimes after years, that investment does not come back with them. You just absorb it and start again with the next person.

It is the loneliness of being surrounded by an industry that values toughness over honesty. The horse world does not make space for the admission that this is hard. That some days the weight of responsibility is genuinely crushing. That being the person in charge of everything - the horses, the students, the schedule, the income, the safety, the culture - is an isolating experience that most instructors navigate entirely without support because asking for help feels like admitting you cannot handle it. Or if you do try to find help, there is no good help to be found.

You can handle it and still be lonely. Both of those things are true at the same time. Here is what actually helps...

Find your people. Not just horse people but instructor people. People who understand what it is like to be the one at the rail making judgment calls that affect living animals and developing humans simultaneously. Online communities, instructor networks, a single colleague you can call after a hard day - the specific relief of talking to someone who does not need it explained is genuinely irreplaceable. Seek that out deliberately rather than waiting for it to appear.

Let some of it be witnessed. You do not have to share everything and you should not but the instinct to perform like everything is fine when you are not is worth examining. The people in your life who are safe to be real with deserve the real version of you that can admit the weight is sometimes heavy.

Build recovery into your week on purpose. Not as a reward for surviving but as a structural requirement for continuing. Whatever actually restores you whether it is time outside, movement, complete disconnection from the barn for a few hours, treat it with the same seriousness you treat your teaching schedule. Your program depends on you and you depend on recovery whether you have given yourself permission to believe that yet or not.

This job is one of the most meaningful things a person can do with their working life. It is also genuinely isolating in ways that do not get acknowledged nearly enough. You are not alone in feeling alone.

Do you ever feel the specific loneliness of being the person in charge of everything in your barn?

09/06/2026

So very true..
Nobody truly sees the hard physical, emotional and mental energy barn owners and trainers pour into their labor of love…

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