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09/16/2026

Do on to others as you would have them do on you. This could happen if any of us.

I’m glad to see that the Soccer community has rallied around Samir. The funds raised thus far will ease the burden and enable them to focus on getting healthy as soon as possible rather than the significant financial burdens ahead. This will be a long recovery.

Linkto the GoFundMe in the comments.

This is the type of freak accident that could happen to any of us on the pitch. If you can donate in anyway, please do. ...
09/14/2026

This is the type of freak accident that could happen to any of us on the pitch. If you can donate in anyway, please do. No amount is too small.

Here’s the detail from his GoFundMe:

Samir Alnasir is a loving husband, a devoted father of four, and a dedicated caregiver to his bedridden son, who has needed ongoing medical care since birth and is currently in need of a kidney. At 51 years old, Samir has always worked hard and put his family first. He is well known and respected in his community through his work as a soccer referee and captain. On August 27, 2026, at 7:06 pm, while refereeing a soccer game between Hamtramck and U of D Jesuit at University of Detroit Jesuit High School, Samir was struck in the back of the head by a kicked ball. He lost consciousness and collapsed on the field. This devastating accident left him with four fractured bones in his neck, a concussion, a blood clot in his brain, and nerve damage.

Samir is now on strict bed rest with a metal stabilization device while his neck heals. Doctors expect about six months of recovery followed by therapy, and during this time he is unable to work. That means his family is facing ongoing lost income along with the continuing cost of household needs and daily care for both Samir and his medically fragile son. His wife is now carrying the weight of caring for Samir, their children, and their son while trying to keep the home running. Please support Samir and his family during this incredibly difficult season. Recurring donations would provide steady help with bills, groceries, and care needs throughout his recovery, and one-time donations are also deeply appreciated. If you are unable to give, sharing this fundraiser would mean so much and help ease the burden so the family can focus on healing and caring for their son.

09/14/2026

One of the biggest challenges of video review is to not be singly, focused on one particular aspect of a play. In this case, the video review team was so focused on whether or not Enzo Fernandez made contact with the ball from an offside position, that they didn’t take a moment to consider all of the other ways that this could potentially be an offside offense. I’m sure they are absolutely devastated and will be suspended for at least a game or two for the error. It’s embarrassing for the officials and infuriating for the fans. There’s no doubt it is an extremely difficult job, but this is specifically what they are trained to do. I feel awful for them.

Regarding the Phil Foden red card, there is not a single Referee on that field, who would’ve had a good view of this contact. This is on the opposite side from the fourth official and 40 yards from the nearest assistant Referee. I just don’t see this contact as violent conduct. I feel very confident than an independent panel will look at this and feel the exact same way.

What do you think?


09/13/2026

We need more referees! Not only do I consider it outrageously fun, a great workout and rewarding mental challenge, but it also helps pay the bills. It’s not a full-time job, but it could easily be a car payment, groceries or paying for an annual family vacation every year.

Yes, people love to say that Referee should do it for the love of the game and it shouldn’t be about money. That’s nice, but it doesn’t put gas in a Referee’s car. I spent over four hours on the road this weekend traveling to different matches. Out here in California it’s probably $100 easy. Then there are the annual certifications, equipment, background checks, and simply the exceptional amount of time I need to invest to officiate and review training to stay on top of my game.

Last year we were the lowest paying league in our region. This year we are one of the top paying leagues. I hope that helps us attract and retain new officials. We are outrageously shortstaffed and need more people who want to give back to their communities and enable the next generation of soccer players to fall in love with the game.

09/13/2026

I loved the experience being a single Referee on a high-level U12 9v9 match. Yes, I would’ve been thrilled to have some assistant referees to help or to mentor, but the experience was phenomenal regardless.

When you were on your own, it really forces you to anticipate play and scan the field for potential offside offenses. These were really good teams who were capable of playing well-timed through balls and quick switches of play.

Lots of fun!!! How were your games this weekend?
heat maps and game data courtesy of

09/13/2026

What’s your call? I think this will be overturned after the independent panel reviews it in the next few days. Do you think this is violent conduct.

Wonderful first day of matches in the SOCAL Soccer League season. Today I reffed matches for a few well know SOCAL clubs...
09/13/2026

Wonderful first day of matches in the SOCAL Soccer League season. Today I reffed matches for a few well know SOCAL clubs including Claremont Stars Soccer Club Pateadores and Strikers FC Orange

Everyone did great. Good, competitive matches and no issues. 2 more matches tomorrow over near Culver City. Should be fun!

09/13/2026

How often do you wash your whistle? Seriously do you do it daily? Weekly? Monthly? An annually? Or never?

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