Elena Visionary

You are not unlucky in love. It’s your inner child who chooses for you. 💔

Think about every man you have fallen for.

You felt the chemistry, the pull, the butterflies, the feeling that this one is different.

It was not random. That feeling was familiar.

And familiar came from your inner child who perhaps have learned that love looks like chasing, earning, proving, pleasing and waiting for someone to finally choose her.

That pattern can easily be healed and rewired.

And until you do, you will keep attracting the same men and replay the same story.

Comment CHILD and let’s change that.

Your inner child is not a metaphor or therapy concept.

She is the version of you that formed before you had words for what was happening. The one who decided she was too much, not enough, unlovable, invisible and built an entire personality around surviving that belief.

She runs your life without you knowing.

She is the reason you over-give, over-achieve, over-explain. The reason love feels unsafe, rest feels guilty and being truly seen feels terrifying.

She is not broken. She is frozen in the moment nobody came.

And the only person who can go back for her now is you.

Not your mother, not your partner, not your therapist.

YOU

This is what healing the inner child actually means, not just understanding what happened to her, but going back, sitting with her, breathing with her and telling her what she needed to hear then.

You are safe now. I see you. I love you. I am not leaving.

Do this practice 6 times a day for at least 21 days. Yes research shows that’s how many times a day you need to rewire your nervous system, where your inner child resides.

Put an alarm on your clock as a reminder. And also for deeper connection, put a picture of yourself at ~8 years old as a screen saver.

Smile and give yourself some love.❤️

Save this post as a reminder.📌

There are only two people in this world you need to impress 👑

Not your parents, not your partners, not your friends, not your bosses, not your children.

It’s the 8 year-old version of you, who had big dreams and passions, who believed in magic and true love, before the world taught her not to.

And your 80 year-old version of you, the wiser one, who will not care how many likes you got, who doubted you or how perfectly you followed the rules.

❤️She will only care whether you lived bravely.
❤️Whether you loved without holding back.
❤️Whether you said the things you always meant to say. ❤️And whether you overcame fears and insecurities to make your dreams come true.

Right now you are somewhere in between, caught in pressure, in expectation, in comparison and in minutia of every day life.

But both of those versions of you are still there.

The innocent girl who once dreamed without limits.
The wise woman who already knows what truly matters in the end.

Live in a way that makes them both proud. Because they are the only two who really matter.

Save this post as reminder 📍and let me know in the comments if you agree 👇

PS If you have taken my Inner Child workshop, you already know this is exactly what we do together. I do not just guide you back to wounded inner child. I also connect you to your Higher Self - the wise, loving, all-knowing part of you that already knows what you need to do to make your dreams come true.

Comment CHILD to start your journey.