Sharing information to helping you get, keep, and protect a good family and a great legacy
08/06/2021
We can dress it up in a variety of ways, but it really just boils down to this.
No worries, it makes sense to be scared, this is an area that most people aren’t doing too well at, but if you want to be an exception you have to do exceptional things to get there. Learn how to have relationships WITHOUT the fights.
T. Donovan Patterson | coach]]
T. Donovan Patterson | coach]]
T. Donovan Patterson | coach]]
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08/01/2021
Trust the process and work on it every day 🙏🏾
Nothing is more deflating than disappointment, and you KNOW dating and relationships are filled with opportunities to be INCREDIBLY disappointed 🤮 but fear not, it’s part of the game.
Just stay focused on the end goal, honor your boundaries, and take it one date at a time while being patiently in a hurry to get what you're looking for. You got it.
T. Donovan Patterson | coach]]
T. Donovan Patterson | coach]]
T. Donovan Patterson | coach]]
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07/29/2021
Why do we think that we have to fix ourselves alone?
We all believe people can hurt us, but we turn around and think that healing happens in a dark cave far away from others.
Now you have to pick well, you have to seek WISE council. I’m currently opening up 3 spots for women aiming to find relationships without the fight, that bring peace to the world that they’ve been building for themselves. Dm “👋 “ if you’re interested
T. Donovan Patterson | coach]]
T. Donovan Patterson | coach]]
T. Donovan Patterson | coach]]
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07/26/2021
"But that's corny!🌽 "well your situationships leave you looking clownish 🤡...so let's make simple cool
The essence of communication is being able to articulate and simplify thoughts and emotions.
We don’t need to carry as much stress as we do in the “what are we phase”, why don’t you just ask?
Then you need to actually listen, THEN you need to make a decision on how you’d like to proceed given what the person communicated (and what you’ve observed)
T. Donovan Patterson | coach]]
T. Donovan Patterson | coach]]
T. Donovan Patterson | coach]]
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07/20/2021
😂 I'm simplifying, but I say this thing can be much easier than we make it. Finding great Relationships isn't easy (I think we all know that), but the process doesn't need to be complicated and confusing.
The work to know what you want is actually tricky as well. What type of man/woman do you work well with? What are your needs vs. wants? Have you worked on what you need to, to attract what you're looking for? Most people have vague answers
If you want some help In that process send me a message and let’s start a conversation 📧 📧 📧
T. Donovan Patterson]]
T. Donovan Patterson]]
T. Donovan Patterson]]
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07/17/2021
Some of us have a bad habit of abandoning ourselves for the sake of relationship. In everything there is balance, wayyy more so in relationship.
Sometimes we get into a habit of acting like a mortar and claim its for the greater good, sometimes this is necessary to certain extents, but you can’t build a longterm relationship off of you abandoning your needs and wants the majority of the time.
Don’t start, keep, or perpetuate relationships like this.
T. Donovan Patterson]]
T. Donovan Patterson]]
T. Donovan Patterson]]
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07/13/2021
Struggling with relationships doesn’t make you weak! It’s actually the thing we crave the most and fail at more than anything in our society.
Take it one day at a time. Identify what needs to happen to create a loving relationship, a family legacy, a beautiful household and inch your way closer every day.
Incredible things happen when you learn how to engage in loving relationships
T. Donovan Patterson]]
T. Donovan Patterson]]
T. Donovan Patterson]]
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07/11/2021
It’s become very popular to seek out half-in half-out relationships. “you do your thing, and I’ll do my thing” relationships.
They work well when you’re just hanging out, but you can’t build a 10, 20, or 30 year partnership framework out of two GDI’s. the goal is to find someone who you can create interdependence and synergy with.
The way to do this is by doing the work on your baggage and wounds to learn strategies and practices to facilitate this type of partnership when the ideal partner crosses your path.
It's just a lot easier said than done.
T. Donovan Patterson]]
T. Donovan Patterson]]
T. Donovan Patterson]]
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07/07/2021
The desire for intimacy is HUMAN, we just have so many hurdles in our way of getting it that we’re AFRAID to even desire one of our most basic human needs.
Maybe you haven’t had a good relationship, maybe you feel like you already lost a great one, maybe people in your circle talk down on others who openly desire to be married or attached to someone else.
Don’t ever feel ashamed for wanting one of the most powerful and enriching experience that a person can have in their life: love for the long term ❤️
T. Donovan Patterson]]
T. Donovan Patterson]]
T. Donovan Patterson]]
LOVE.N. WAR
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