08/01/2026
Let me know, when it comes to racism, which one of these lessons you were you taught as a kid?
“Be kind.”
“Treat everyone the same.”
“Words hurt people.”
The fact that these 3 sentences are the full extent of most grown folks’ anti-racism strategy points to the intentional misunderstanding of what racism actually is.
I blame the dictionary.
The definition of racism you were handed has an author. It wasn’t anyone the system was built on.
It was written by the people it was built for, and it shows.
Because it describes racism as an attitude.
Individual.
Rare.
Correctable with better manners.
And conveniently, never them.
Once racism is a feeling, every conversation about it turns into an argument over whether somebody overreacted, what needs to be forgiven and who should do the forgiving and forgetting.
Join me on Monday for How to Talk to Your Kids About Racism: From One Hard Conversation to a Natural Family Practice.
We’ll be live on Zoom, you can get your questions answered in the right then and there, and you’ll have lifetime access to the recording.
This is the first and last time I’m teaching this class and after Monday, it’s going bye-bye until I remember it exists and decide to offer it in the distant future😂
After the class is done, it’ll be arranged into an easy-to-navigate series of videos and tucked away in a course portal where you’ll be able to access it whenever you like with no end date, plus you’ll get the Raising Rebels live event recording, three fillable workbooks AND an addendum just for school teachers.
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07/30/2026
The definition of racism you were handed was authored by someone.
How much you want to bet that/those someone(s) ain’t who the system was built on?
Exactly.
It was written by the people it was built for.
And it shows because it describes racism as an attitude. Individual. Rare. Correctable with better manners. Ignorable. Plausibly deniable. And conveniently, never them.
Once racism is a feeling, every conversation about it turns into an argument over whether somebody overreacted.
And a child raised on that definition looks at who lives where, whose school has what, who gets followed, who gets believed, who gets the benefit of the doubt, who gets to grow old — and files all of it under how things are.
Nobody argues with weather.
But distribution has a design, and a design can be traced by anyone taught to look.
A child who can trace it can see it in the school they’re returning to in a matter of days, in their neighborhood in a zip code that we can look at to accurately predict life outcomes, and in their own friend group, which shapes more about them than parents feel comfortable admitting.
And a child who can see it can eventually refuse to cooperate with it, which is the only thing that has ever changed anything.
That doesn’t start with a lecture.
It starts with an accurate definition.
That’s where Monday’s class begins — in language a six-year-old can process and a fifteen-year-old can’t roll their eyes at.
Join me live on Zoom on Monday, August 3 at 2 PM PT for How to Talk to Your Kids About Racism: From One Hard Conversation to a Natural Family Practice
And then, you get to access it all through an easy-to-navigate learning portal with lifetime access.
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07/28/2026
You’ve talked to your kid about race.
You haven’t talked to them about racism.
Only one of those conversations raises someone who can recognize racism in a school policy, a playground taunt, or a pattern of behavior toward the lone Black kid in their otherwise homogenous friend group.
The distance between those two children — The one who speaks up and the one who co-signs with their silence — isn’t courage.
And the difference can cause irreparable harm or be life saving.
Join me live on Zoom on Monday, August 3 at 2 PM PT for How to Talk to Your Kids About Racism: From One Hard Conversation to a Natural Family Practice
🌱I’m teaching word-for-word scripts for the moments you don’t get to plan.
🌱A method for understanding how serious something is before you respond so you (and your kid) can take appropriate, values-aligned action.
🌱8 questions your family will use for the next decade.
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07/24/2026
The pre-apology feels polite. But it’s really just your obedience to systems that exist to ruin you and your kids.
Here’s what nobody tells you about that disclaimer: it isn’t humility, and it isn’t a confidence problem.
It’s labor you’re withdrawing from a fight — covertly, in advance, before anyone even asks you to.
Which means the solution was never “find your voice” or “feel more confident.”
You don’t need to work on your self-esteem.
You need to stop spending your precious energy apologizing for having any.
That’s harder than it sounds, because the shushing isn’t coming from outside anymore.
You’ve internalized it and a system that wants you quiet is counting on that — on you doing the silencing yourself, for free, where no one has to be the villain and you spend the rest of your life practicing self-love instead of cussin’ folks out.
So here’s what I actually teach: how to redirect energy and move your labor — your voice, your money, your time — toward the world you say you want, without burning yourself down or reiterating the very systems you’re trying to divest from.
How to be more resourced doing it, not less.
That’s the project of Resourcing a Revolution, my weekly email.
I slide into your inbox and break down one more piece of how we revolutionize our relationship to labor — our hours, our income, our impact — without replicating what we’re working to dismantle.
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07/23/2026
Just a few reasons, off the top of my head.
07/20/2026
When you don’t have your priorities in order, accountability and propaganda produce the same feeling and you end up responding the same, which is why you’re worn out and ineffective.
Accountability and propaganda demand opposite responses.
If every critique reads as “disappear,” you’ll disappear and the whatever movements you thought you were contributing to lose your labor while you spin out in “self-awareness.”
The Combahee River Collective taught us that Black women’s freedom would require ending every interlocking, overlapping, and multiplicative system of oppression, which means the measure of your response to critique is never “do I feel better,” it’s “did my labor move toward that?”
Sort the competing narratives.
Respond to the right one.
In this week’s Resourcing a Revolution email I explain the purpose the mockery serves and talk about what you can do about it, right now.
Resourcing a Revolution is the weekly interruption for folks who know that collective liberation requires more than outrage and good intentions.
I show up every week to help you think critically about power, practice accountability in community, and contribute to collective liberation without reproducing the very systems we’re trying to dismantle.
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05/09/2026
Suddenly everybody (and they mama) wants “matriarchy.”
We’re true to this, not new to this
A matrifocal society has always been available to you.
The United States just chose whiteness instead.
The blueprint for survival was always here, in plain sight.
You saw:
The Black femmes.
The Black organizers.
The Black educators.
The Black artists.
The Black aunties.
The Black mothers.
The people who have been practicing collective care and survival all along.
A matriarchal society cannot exist without:
* Integrity
* Repair
* Accountability
* Trust
* Care without control
And that means many people will have to unlearn everything patriarchy taught them about power.
Especially white women and liberal feminists.
Because you cannot build matriarchy while remaining invested in whiteness.
You cannot build collective care while avoiding accountability.
And you cannot restore democracy without repairing relationship.
This Mother’s Day, I’m thinking about the Black women who mothered movements.
Who held communities together while the state abandoned them.
Who practiced survival as sacred work.
I’m releasing a 3-part series on matriarchy on the Interrupting Business As Usual Podcast.
Episode one is available now:
“Matriarchy Won’t Work Until We Rethink Power: Care, Repair, and What Liberal Feminism Gets Wrong” featuring .
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07/20/2026
05/09/2026