Survivors of Violent Death Indianapolis

A safe place to say their name....

Instead of saying, "I know what it feels like", let's say
"I cannot imagine your heartbreak".

Instead of saying, "You're strong, you'll get through this, let's say " You'll hurt, and I'll be here.

Instead of saying, "You look like you're doing well, Let's say, "How are you holding up today?"

Instead of saying, "Healing takes time", let's say "Healing has no timeline".

Instead of saying, "Everything happens for a reason, let's say "This must feel so terribly senseless right now".

And when there are no words to say at all, you don't need to try and find some. Love speaks in silences too.
𝑈𝑙𝑙𝑖𝑒 𝐾𝑎𝑦𝑒
Aʀᴛ - Kurti Andrea
𝑠𝑒𝑟𝑖𝑛𝑑𝑖𝑝𝑖𝑡𝑦 𝑐𝑜𝑟𝑛𝑒𝑟

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This is a long story, but hopefully you’ll find some bits of wisdom and validation. Just know you aren’t alone in this grief journey.

May you always feel God’s presence in your life…you are not alone…

Like Chuck said, it’s a long read, but so worth it. I hope it helps you as you work your way through your grief and deal with family and friends who unfortunately don’t understand our journey.