09/06/2026
Here is a question a parent asked me today:
âWould my son learning martial arts help him on the wrestling team?â
The short answer isâŚ
Absolutely.
As someone who has coached both youth wrestlers and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu students for many years, Iâve seen the two complement each other extremely well.
But hereâs what Iâd tell any parent whose child is just getting started.
First, wrestling and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu are both outstanding activities. Neither is âbetter.â They simply have different goals.
Wrestling focuses on takedowns, control, escapes, and pins. Itâs fast-paced, physically demanding, and one of the toughest sports a young person can participate in.
Brazilian Jiu Jitsu also teaches takedowns and control, but it goes further by teaching submissions and a much broader range of positions and strategies. It emphasizes technique, leverage, timing, and problem-solving just as much as athleticism.
The two arts make each other better.
Many successful wrestlers train jiu jitsu during the offseason to keep their grappling skills sharp. Likewise, wrestlers who transition into jiu jitsu often find that their wrestling gives them an immediate advantage.
One thing parents should know is this:
If your child hasnât tried either activity yet, you donât yet know which one theyâll enjoy more.
Some kids thrive in the fast pace and intensity of wrestling.
Others discover they love the strategic, puzzle-solving nature of jiu jitsu.
Many end up loving both.
Another difference is that wrestling is generally seasonal through schools, while jiu jitsu is something people can train for years or even decades. Some students compete regularly. Others never compete at all and simply enjoy learning a practical skill, staying active, and building confidence.
Wrestling also offers opportunities that jiu jitsu generally doesnât, such as middle school, high school, and college competition, including scholarships.
No matter which path your child chooses, theyâll likely gain discipline, confidence, resilience, humility, work ethic, and the ability to stay calm under pressure. Those lessons last much longer than any medal or trophy.
If your child is interested in learning to grapple, Iâd encourage you to explore both. Visit practices. Ask questions. Let them experience each environment. Sometimes the best way to know what fits is to step on the mat.
And if youâd like your child to experience Brazilian Jiu Jitsu firsthand, weâd love to have them join us for a free week at SJJ Hamilton.
www.sjjhamilton.com/trial
Coach Jim
SJJ Hamilton
âBuilding confidence one technique at a time.â