09/10/2026
Whatâs your favorite sandwich?
Sounds like a simple question.
But within 90 seconds of asking the players and goalies at the đşđ¸ Atlantic Amateur Hockey Association P*e Wee Quebec camp we had cheesesteaks, PB&J, Nutella and banana, ham and cheese, pork roll egg and cheese, and a whole lot of opinions.
Thatâs mindset performance.
Every player has different preferences.
How they think. How they learn. How they communicate.
How they respond to pressure. How they enjoy the game.
How they interpret coaching, mistakes, confidence, and adversity.
The mistake is trying to feed every player the exact same sandwich.
One player needs direct feedback. Another needs space to process. One gains confidence by taking risks. Another needs clarity, structure, and a simple role to execute. Same team. Same game. Different minds.
That doesnât mean anything goes.
A cheesesteak from one place can be completely different from a cheesesteak somewhere else. Same name. The quality of the ingredients changes the experience.
Hockeyâs no different.
The quality of a playerâs thoughts, their attention, self-talk, preparation, identity, confidence, communication, and response to adversity, changes the way they experience and play the game.
Team performance isnât built by removing everyoneâs individuality. Itâs built by understanding it.
High quality thinking, shared across a group, creates something stronger than one playerâs mindset alone. But remove an ingredient, trust, communication, role clarity, confidence, ownership, respect, and the whole experience changes.
So ask yourself.
What are we doing in our system to understand how each player thinks?
Are we helping players identify the ingredients that let them play their best hockey?
Or are we expecting every mind in the room to respond to one message, one style, and one definition of confidence?
Thatâs the work
Not making everyone think the same. Building a team where different minds can bring their best ingredients to the same table.