03/05/2026
Consistency, why is it so hard?
In sales, they call it a dip.
It’s after the excitement wears off or the initial impression leaves that we are left with the everyday mundane. To grind it out until we get to the next step.
That’s where we all struggle. Sometimes it’s struggling in a hobby, a job, with our horses, gardening or maybe even our marriage or a relationship.
The excitement wanes. We unwrap the package, play with that toy for a little while and then discard it as the newness wears off.
Why is it so hard to stay consistent? I think it’s because we have to work at it.
Alot of the times it’s not something that comes easy. They say the details are in small things and I think that’s what consistency is. The loyalness to our task at hand.
It’s easy to move from one shiny object to the next. Continually chasing that elusive moment, that success or that feeling.
It’s hard to stay consistent when things don’t look like they are moving forward. It’s hard to stay consistent when things seem to just be taking their time. We want things to move fast. We want them to go to the next step.
But what does staying consistent teach us?
It teaches us to have determination.
It teaches us to have grit.
It teaches us to have tenacity.
It teaches us to have mental toughness.
It teaches us to be faithful to our task at hand or maybe to a certain person or persons.
They say in horse training, it’s not about the ending. It’s about the 1% that the horse progresses every day.
It’s about staying consistent in the training program.
That’s what we need to do about staying consistent in our lives. It’s just hard because we don’t always see the 1% every day. We just feel like things are dragging on. But if we take a moment and we step back and we look back over the course of the week, month, year, etc. we can see the big picture how far we have progressed. How far our consistency has brought us.
Maybe we still can’t see the end yet, but if we stick with the training program so to speak, there will be progress in the end.
Lately, it’s been really hard for me to stay consistent. I want change now and I want things to happen now. But I have to remember that as long as I stay faithful and consistent each day to do the things I know that I need to do that will bring me one step closer to my end goal. It’s the one percent that keeps me going.
So what are some things that help you stay consistent? Things or habits that give you the motivation to keep going each day, working and striving to reach your goals.
If you’re interested in sharing, I’d love to hear them!!