Techifitness

That ship has sailed! You missed the boat. I've moved on. 😎✌🏾

I don't know who's really trying to deal with bs, but not me! 👌🏾

Let us raise a Meh Monday up a notch or two.

They can take it 😎✌🏾

The hardest pass 👌🏾🖐🏾

I know some folks that need to hear this but history has shown they aren't ready to receive it. 😒

It's one thing for relationships to fall off because of life circumstances. Folks do get busy. Life priorities change. People can get caught up in the things they are dealing with.

It is completely different when you choose to distance yourself from the other party because they expect you to shrink so they can maintain comfort in disrespecting you in the relationship. You express how their statements, actions, or behaviors negatively impact you and their response is to deny, defend, or blame. Essentially, this is what it is and you should not only "get over it" but keep putting up with it.

It's no wonder they don't see why you're not interested in maintaining that relationship 🤦🏾‍♀️ ughhh!

No! Noone's trying again. When people show you who they are, believe them.

It's unfortunate when you simply must accept that some folks are unable to have empathy for you or your feelings. They do not hold compassion for you or your pain. They are incapable of caring about or for you.

You can tell by the way they are unwilling to hear you. They are averse to you taking up space and impatient with you expressing what you perceive as a problem to you. They will interrupt, find a distraction, act aloof, condition your statements, act confused, provide unsolicited solutions or assessments, and actually suggest never discussing the topic again without implementing their unwarranted proposed solution... anything to move on from YOU and who you are.

This acceptance feels so unfortunate because once you recognize that there is nothing you can say or do to make these folks start caring, hearing, seeing, or holding space for you, you exit quietly but can finally find the energy to start caring for yourself. 💛

Great job recognizing the pattern! 👏🏾 👏🏾

Very brave of you to bring it up, even. 🦸🏾‍♀️

But why? 🤷🏾‍♀️

I know you were hoping they would hear you this time. 👂🏾

Especially after 'exposing' the pattern. 📑

But they know what they're doing. 👀

And the pattern has exposed that they simply do not care. 🖕🏾

So respect yourself and bounce 👌🏾😎✌🏾

Distance over disrespect 💯