Supervision with Silvia Purdie

I am celebrating to have gained Full Membership of the NZ Christian Counsellors Association. I started training as a counsellor with a toddler and pregnant. Finally achieved Professional Membership - only took 24 years!
I can now add 'MNZCCA' to my name.
So if you know of someone looking for a supervisor (anywhere in the country), put them on to me!

Specialist supervision for Sustainability Professionals ...

Eco Supervision with Silvia Purdie Silvia Purdie is working at the leading edge of climate aware practice, she is passionate about helping 'people professions' from across the community sector to explore environmental aspects to their work. Eco Supervision helps to bring an environmental l

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What are the five key elements of supervision??

What are the five elements of supervision? Professional supervisor Silvia Purdie with a Short video on five key components of supervision.More at: https://www.conversationscounselling.nz/supervision.html

This article was published by the Diocese of Wellington this month:

Reflecting on Supervision — Anglican Movement Professional supervision is a significant investment of time and money. But is it working for you? The new year is an excellent time to reflect on what you need this year, and to review your supervision.

It hasn’t exactly been an easy start to 2023, and if you’re hoping for a cruisy year – dream on! There’s no more important time to set in place for yourself good social support. Silvia Purdie suggests 3 ways to sustain your work, right through the year.

We are in the community sector because we genuinely care for people. But do we let others care for us? Do you suffer from the cognitive glitch that over-estimates your own capacity to keep giving out, week after week? What are the warning signs that tell you that you need some looking after also? Here are 3 strategies for nurturing your ability to care:

1: You Got to Have Friends ( #)
Sure, you have friends, but how often to you actually see them?? They’re busy, you’re busy, months slide by without catching up. My advice is, pick three people you like a lot. Call them and tell them you need their friendship (how scary is that?) and invite them to meet up on a planned regular basis, not just ad-hoc. Together figure out what you enjoy doing together, and write that in your calendar, not just for this month but through the whole year. Why do we think that work meetings are important enough to plan and friend meetings should just magically happen at the last minute?

2: Professional Supervision
By this stage in the year, it is a Very Good Thing to establish a sustaining pattern of (at least monthly) supervision.
a) Does your work pay for supervision? (you can probably negotiate for it)
b) Is your supervisor right for you? (if not, find a new one)
c) What do you want from supervision?
Professional supervision is expensive, but the whole point is to invest in you. You should look forward to your next session, and come away feeling topped up with confidence, clarity and care.

3: Join something
And no, not just a Facebook group. An actual group of actual people doing something they enjoy. Sure, it’s old school, but NZ has loads of different groups, from knitting to tramping, African drumming to meditation. When you are tired it’s easier to fall into the sofa, but something magic happens when you do fun stuff regularly with the same bunch of people; it’s called community. And we all need that.

Silvia Purdie is a professional supervisor, online and in Upper Hutt.
www.conversationscounselling.nz
Call her on 027 242 1113 or email: [email protected]

# That’s a Shriek quote, in case you missed it, originally from the fabulous Bette Midler!