26/08/2026
"Inspiring Us" Interview series: Mr Turner
by Rhys Milmine, Prefect
What's been your journey to this point?
I mean, have you got all day? In summary, I’m Dunedin-born and bred, raised in a proud working-class state house family. My parents are celebrating their 62nd wedding anniversary this year, and I've spent nearly 95% of my life within five kilometres of where I was born. I’m loyal: one club, one life. My path wasn't conventional. After high school at King's, I spent ten years on the dole living the punk rock lifestyle, sporting an eight-inch mohawk and safety pins, completely content being poor because money wasn't my priority. Everything changed when I met my wife. She had two young children, and falling in love meant embracing parenthood. We had to figure out how to build a future where our kids could thrive. My wife worked night shifts at the fish factory so I could study every day, making incredible sacrifices while I completed a double degree in mathematics and psychology. I went to Teachers' College to support our family, bringing years of experience as a scout leader working with young people outdoors. After teaching at Otago Girls' and Bayfield, the opportunity came to return to King's High School. This school is home; my son, my brother, and my nephews all came here. Returning was a dream come true, marking 50 years of involvement with King's as a student, parent, and rugby coach.
How do you see participation shaping a student's overall high school experience and their connection to the school community?
Participation is about being part of the action. It creates a genuine sense of belonging, a feeling that this place is part of your DNA. Whether it's debating, singing, tech, or sports, finding a group of like-minded peers is the key to feeling like King's is your place. The connections you make here last a lifetime. When I turned 50, my high school friends and I bought motorbikes and rode around the South Island together. We might have taken completely different paths in life, but there's a shared core of integrity, respect, and sportsmanship that this school instils in all of us.
As a House Dean, what does true participation look like?
It means signing up and turning up without any view of a reward. In the Haka competition, for example, we step forward because we want to for each other, not for the judges. We are good winners and good losers. True participation means valuing family over winning every single time. In house volleyball, Hanover will play a six-a-side match with 20 guys swapping in so everyone gets a turn, even if the talented athletes complain that we aren't putting our best lineup out. We will always make space for every single guy to be part of the action.
What would you say to a student who feels like they haven't found their 'thing' yet?
There's no hurry. Picking a path when you're young is tough because you don't even know what most jobs actually entail. Don't rush. Relax, be yourself, and your place will find you.
Could you share a story of a student who has grown through participating?
I see it every year. Boys come in with baggage or bad past experiences in mathematics, and my job is to give them a clean slate and turn that around. The reward comes much later, like former students like bumping into me on the street to tell me how much fun they had in math class, or hearing a story from a local dentist about a boy who hated school until Year 9 turned his confidence around. Walking through town with my wife and still getting called "Sir" by people in their 30s. Those moments are pure gold.
What advice would you give to a future student or parent considering King's?
If you want a place where you will belong for the rest of your life, be part of something meaningful, and have the opportunity to be authentically yourself, come here. We don't put on a show for open nights; we offer a real, transparent view of who we are. Trust us and believe in us, because King's is home.
One word to describe King's? Home.
Best artist and greatest song of all time? The clash, London calling
Does pineapple belong on pizza? Yes
Best season of the year? Winter - frost, fires and snowboarding
Most influential person of all time? My dad or Alan Turing
Your hidden talent? ‘Mathematical artist’ - newly invented term
Cats or dogs? Both but cats (they're independent)
Your style in one word? Passionate
Your favourite movie? Star wars episode 4 A New Hope
Finish this sentence, “the way to my heart is…” My beautiful wife.