I still listen to podcasts. Just not on my walks anymore.
Somewhere along the way, I realized I’d filled every quiet moment with someone else’s voice. I forgot to leave room for my own.
Turns out, my mind had a few things to say too.
Joe Treger
I help you stop overthinking and feeling stuck
so you can make clear, confident decisions
Real inner work. Lasting change.
We don’t speak the same language.
I asked him what made him happy today.
He smiled….and said, “Yes.”
I still have no idea what he meant.
But somehow, I walked away feeling like we understood each other.
From a distance, almost everything looks perfect.
A relationship. A career. A vacation. Even someone else’s life.
Get a little closer and you’ll usually find crowds, detours, imperfections, and a story you couldn’t see from where you were standing. Funny how that’s true for travel... and just about everything else in life.
What’s something you got closer to that turned out to be completely different than you expected?
“Depression hates a moving target.”
It’s a line by Nita Sweeney that I keep coming back to.
Movement isn’t just about fitness. It’s about shaking things loose, regulating the nervous system, and getting out of our heads and back into our bodies. Whether it’s yoga, walking, hiking, swimming, dancing, or lifting doesn’t really matter.
I’m curious… what’s your go to form of movement when life gets a little heavier?
24/06/2026
I recently spent 10 days in complete silence at a meditation retreat. No phones, no talking, no books, no writing. Just me and whatever nonsense my mind decided to come up with.
You would think that after removing every distraction, there wouldn’t be much left to pay attention to. Wrong.
Every day there was a giant spider sitting outside the meditation hall. For 10 days I watched her do almost nothing. She waited. And waited. And waited some more.
Then a fly landed in the web. Within a split second she moved. No hesitation, no overthinking, no second guessing.
It made me wonder if most of us do the opposite.
We spend our lives moving before paying attention. The spider spent her days paying attention before moving.
Funny the things that stick with you after 10 days of silence.
I recently spent 10 days in silence.
No phone. No news. No books. No podcasts. No music. No conversations. Just me, my thoughts, and occasionally keeping an eye on a spider who somehow became my closest companion.
A few days later, I found myself standing on the cliffs of Nusa Penida, looking out at the ocean.
Somewhere between the spider web and the horizon, I was reminded of something simple.
The noise doesn’t disappear when we step away.
It patiently waits for us to come back.
The question is whether we choose to pick it back up.
Changing your perspective can change how you experience life…
but it doesn’t remove the responsibilities that come with it.
Same calls.
Same conversations.
Same work.
Turns out you don’t always need a meditation app.
Nature does a pretty good job interrupting the nonsense in our heads.
There’s an old saying…
“Wherever you go, there you are.”
Funny how no matter how far we travel…
we still bring ourselves along.
Maybe we’re more addicted to stimulation than we think.
Saying this as someone who once ran through an active volcano :)
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