Soulful Tribe

Go at your own pace 🫶

I have birthed my baby a thousand times already.☺️🥹

This pregnancy has been one of the most liberating journeys of my life. It has stripped away illusions and shown me soo soo much.

For so much of my life, I’ve been the one supporting others, showing up, holding space, giving my time, my energy, and my heart. But this season has made me ask a difficult question: when I am at my most vulnerable, who is truly there for me?

There is no bitterness in that question… only awareness.

Life moves quickly. It’s easy for us to become consumed by our own responsibilities and our own struggles, our own worlds. But sometimes, in the process, we forget the people who need us most.
I am guilty of this too!

This journey has taught me that it’s okay to receive. It’s okay to create boundaries. It’s okay to stop chasing the support that isn’t freely given and instead become the safe place I’ve always searched for.

Perhaps that’s one of the greatest gifts motherhood gives us before our babies even arrive is…we don’t just give birth to a child… we give birth to a stronger, wiser version of ourselves. 🥲 💪🏾

Reminiscing back to December 2024 when Ashaya-Rose made her entrance into the world ✨

It feels so surreal to think that in just a few weeks, I’ll be birthing my baby girl. 🤍

Time has flown by, yet every kick, every milestone, and every moment has been so precious. I already can’t imagine life without you, little one.

The countdown is officially on… and my heart has never felt so full. 🌸

Loving momma life in the heart chakra this month 🫶 💚

24 weeks growing our baby girl 🤍✨

And if there’s one thing this season is teaching me, it’s this…

Life is not always asking us to push harder.
Sometimes it’s asking us to soften.
To slow down.
To breathe deeper.
To reconnect with what truly matters.

Ironically, I’m currently moving through my Solar Plexus season ☀️

The energy centre connected to willpower, responsibility, doing, achieving and constantly holding everything together.

And whilst those qualities can be powerful… when they become unbalanced, they can also lead us straight into overwhelm, pressure, exhaustion and burnout.

This bits for the givers and the mommas-

So many of us have been conditioned to believe we must keep going no matter how depleted we feel.

To carry everyone else…
To ignore the whispers of our sacred body…
That we must earn rest instead of honouring it.

But pregnancy has a beautiful way of stripping life back to what’s truly important 🤍

This season is teaching me that rest is productive.
Slowing down is wise, and protecting your energy is not selfish… it’s necessary.

I’ve taken my maternity leave a little earlier than planned so I can preserve my energy and fully embrace these sacred moments with my family before baby girl arrives 💫

And maybe this is your reminder too…

You do not have to wait until burnout to choose yourself.
You do not need permission to rest.
You are allowed to pause before your body forces you to.

Take the walk.
Sit in the sunshine.
Feel the earth beneath you.
Drink the water.
Breathe deeply.

Put your hand on your heart and ask yourself…
“What do I need right now?”

Because the quality of your life is deeply connected to the quality of your inner world ✨

Love you all.. and thank you for all of your lovely messages and feedback on the times we have shared il be back soon x

Why wouldn’t the universe want me to have another baby… born into a home filled with love, connection, and harmony? 🤷🏽‍♀️

It might not always look like this… but right now, this feels like the alchemy of my life. It feels beautiful. It feels magical. ✨🪄

It’s funny how reactions change…
With your first baby, everyone is excited. 👏
With your second, it’s still lovely news. 👍
But with your third… it’s almost like panic sets in for other people.

We didn’t plan this baby… but it happened.
And I choose to see it for what it is… a gift.

I feel deeply grateful that my body has been chosen as a portal for life because I know our lifetimes don’t always permit this due to one reason or another. I appreciate that this lifetime I’ve been trusted to bring children into this world… children who will grow, feel, love, and make their own impact in ways we can’t even imagine yet.

And still… I’ve had people say:
“You don’t have to have this baby.”
“You do realise you have a choice?”
“I wouldn’t bring a baby into this world.”
“There is such a thing as abortion.”
“What are you doing having another… you’re broke…”

And honestly… that part has been disappointing.

It’s shown me that not everyone will meet your joy with the same energy you feel it.

And that’s why sometimes you have to be mindful who you share your heart with.

BUT when you are surrounded by unconditional love…
no words or negative energy can touch you. FOR REAL!

And right now… I feel held, I feel certain, and I trust this journey 💛

Celebrating 20weeks of baby making! 😇✌️