A s**t week isn’t simply evidence that you need to fu***ng try harder or don’t want it enough. - only a c**t would make you think that.
It actually gives us information.
Before deciding what happens next, I want to understand:
* Was the original plan realistic?
* Did your circumstances unexpectedly change?
* Was something creating unnecessary friction?
* Did you know how to adapt?
* Was there a clear route back after things went wrong?
Those questions lead to very different solutions.
Sometimes the plan needs simplifying.
Sometimes expectations need adjusting temporarily.
Sometimes the person needs greater accountability.
And sometimes they simply need to know that one difficult week hasn’t erased everything they’ve already done.
Automatically demanding more discipline, less food or additional exercise doesn’t solve the reason the plan stopped working. It makes it even more likely the following week will be s**t too!
Good coaching should identify the actual problem and make the next useful action clearer.
And that action should only ever be to do a little better than the week before.
Not Perfect. Just Better.
If this is the kind of support you’ve been missing and you need somebody to help you make next week better, rather than just demand that it becomes perfect,
Comment or DM me “REDEFINE”.
I’ll ask what is currently happening before suggesting whether either Academy option would genuinely be a good fit for you.
Paul Andrews Fitness
Online PT & Nutrition Coach
Exposing industry myths
Focussed on educating clients to be fit & health
I BROKE MY FU***NG HAND!!
An injury, illness or unexpected change can make your original routine completely unrealistic.
That doesn’t mean you must force the plan exactly as written.
It also doesn’t automatically mean abandoning everything until life returns to normal.
A more useful process is to ask:
* What can I still do safely?
* What needs adapting?
* What should temporarily pause?
* What support or medical guidance do I need?
* What is the smallest useful action I can protect?
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The goal may remain the same while the route changes.
That is not lowering your standards.
It is responding intelligently to the circumstances you actually have.
A plan should help you navigate disruption, not punish you for no longer matching the version of life it was originally written for.
What has knocked your routine sideways recently?
Comment below or send it privately.
Comment CLARITY, PRESSUrE or BOTH
Calorie tracking can be incredibly useful.
It can help you understand portions, recognise patterns and see where your energy intake is actually coming from.
But it should make your decisions clearer.
It shouldn’t leave you feeling as though every number must be perfect.
If eating away from home, using an incomplete food label or missing one day makes you feel that the entire plan has failed, tracking may have become another rigid rulebook.
The numbers were never going to be completely exact anyway.
Food labels, restaurant meals, portion estimates and tracking databases all contain uncertainty.
That doesn’t make tracking pointless.
It means the value comes from using reasonably consistent information to guide your decisions, not achieving mathematical perfection.
Use it when it helps.
Learn from it.
But don’t confuse imperfect data with personal failure.
Does tracking currently give you CLARITY, PRESSURE or BOTH?
Not everybody who wants to improve their training, nutrition or consistency needs the highest level of one-to-one coaching.
Some people need me personally reviewing their progress, adapting their plan, talking through difficult weeks and helping them make individual decisions.
That’s what the Inner Circle is for.
But other people mainly need:
A clear plan to follow.
Guidance when they’re unsure what to do.
Education that helps them understand the process.
Accountability to keep moving forward.
And they shouldn’t have to pay for constant one-to-one access they don’t actually need.
That’s why I’m completely rebuilding the Standard Membership.
The Academy’s new coaching platform has AI integrated into the system, allowing Standard to become a far more intelligent, useful and accessible coaching membership.
It won’t replace the human support available through the Inner Circle.
It creates another route for people who want the ReDefine approach without needing the highest level of personalised coaching.
If you’re sick of feeling like you can’t afford help and support centred around you, as an individual…
DM me STANDARD
I’ll share all the details with you.
Most people describe the problem as:
“I just need more discipline.”
But that doesn’t tell us what actually needs to change.
Look for the first moment the chain normally breaks.
It might be:
* Missing one planned workout
* Getting home late without food prepared
* Seeing an unexpected increase on the scales
* Having one unplanned meal
* Deciding the week is already ruined
* Waiting until Monday to restart
The useful question isn’t whether you went off track.
It’s what happened immediately before, and what you normally did next.
What’s the first moment your week usually starts to unravel?
Comment below or send it privately.
Three people can have exactly the same goal and require completely different coaching.
The goal tells us where somebody wants to go.
It doesn’t tell us why their previous attempts became difficult.
One person may need more structure.
Another may need greater flexibility when work becomes busy.
Someone managing a fluctuating condition may need several versions of the same plan depending on their capacity that day.
The answer isn’t automatically more discipline.
First, we need to identify the constraint.
What normally derails you first?
TIME, FOOD, ENERGY or RESTARTING?
Comment one word, or send it privately if you would rather talk by DM.
A sudden increase on the scale can feel much more significant than it actually is.
Body weight is influenced by food volume, fluids, carb intake, salt, sleep, stress, hormones and digestion, not just body fat!
That doesn’t mean genuine fat gain is impossible, if you haven’t actually been consistent!
It means one weigh-in doesn’t give you enough information to reach that conclusion.
The response that often causes more harm than good is panicking, heavily restricting your food or trying to “burn it off” also soon as fu***ng possible!
Weight fluctuations are normal so;
Return to your normal routine and monitor the trend over time.
Does an unexpected spike in weight change how you eat or train the following day?
The session you planned on a good day isn’t automatically the right session for a symptom-heavy day.
Some days I can complete the entire workout.
Other days I shorten it, reduce the upright work, extend my rests, or recognise that stopping is the more sensible decision.
That isn’t a lack of discipline.
For me, managing PoTS and continuing to train means responding to the body that actually arrived, not trying to prove something by following the plan at any cost.
The adapted session still counts.
The decision to rest can count too.
Save this for the days when changing the plan feels like failure, and share it with somebody who may need the reminder.
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