11/08/2026
romantic intent comes down to 4 things
Notice the woman in front of you. If you find her attractive don’t walk straight past while pretending you didn’t see her, make eye contact see if you can hold it for a moment, give her a genuine smile. Let her see that you’ve noticed her. You’re simply making your interest visible.
Okay, so you’ve noticed her. Now choose her.
Go over.
Don’t stand there for 20 minutes hoping she’ll somehow know you’re interested. Don’t talk yourself out of it, and don’t wait for the perfect moment.
If you’re attracted to her and the situation is appropriate, make the choice to walk over and introduce yourself, or make a genuine comment about something you’re curious about.
Okay, this is the most important. You’ve noticed her and chosen her. Now show her.
Without this, there is no romantic intent.
Men often get this wrong by staying neutral, waiting for her to lead, hiding behind being nice, or talking to her in a way that feels completely friendly.
Even when they like her, they end the interaction with, “We should do this again sometime,” in such a nonchalant way that she doesn’t feel chosen.
If you’re interested in her romantically, make it clear through your actions.
Don’t make her guess.
You’ve noticed her, chosen her, and shown her. Now say it.
If you’ve enjoyed the interaction and want to see her again, ask to exchange contact details.
Don’t hide behind, “Maybe we could do this again sometime.” Be clear.
Tell her you’ve enjoyed meeting her and ask for her number.
If you want to see her again, say it.
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