Enhance Coaching & Wellbeing

When she tells me her wins it’s never about how much she’s lost, infact it’s about what she’s gained…

Let me explain.

Firstly what an amazing transformation my client has already achieved so far, I am so proud of her!

She has had to fight with every tooth & nail to get to where she has gotten.

strength training wasn’t something she’d ever really done & strength wasn’t a word she’d associate with herself.

Until now.

She imagined what it would feel like to not let personal or work life interfere with her life - now she lives it.

She imagined what it would like to be a gym goer & say confidently she goes to the gym - now she doesn’t think twice.

She imagined what getting it right & not feeling like she failed all the time - now she lives life adding herself as a priority, not an after thought.

There are so many more wonderful things I could say but for now all I have left to say is she came to me with a Dream outcome & now after only a few months, she’s living part of that dream as her reality.

What an incredible journey I am so grateful to be a part of.

It’s not what she’s doing, it’s why she’s doing it ✨

Feel like a woman who didn’t belong in the gym?

It’s like high school all over again…

Big crowds, not sure what you’re doing, everyone else seems to have it figured out & then there’s people judging, men gawking or maybe giving you a disapproving look.

You don’t wear make-up, you’re not put together.
You wear make-up , you’re trying too hard.

You wear baggy clothes, you feel frumpy.
You wear something that shows your figure, you’re showing too much.

This was reported by every single client of mine on our new tool the Rebuild Assessment.

They felt like they just couldn’t get it right now mattered what they did, felt like the gym would never be a safe space or that they could go & feel strong.

Until they did.

They rebuilt their beliefs bit by bit using the Enhance pillars they helped build!

Hundreds of woman have walked through our doors thinking punishing themselves in the gym was the only way to change, instead they’ve found a place to belong & results that last!

If you’re a woman who wants to drop the anxiety & become more comfortable in the gym then drop the word “BELONG” into the comments or DMs & I’ll give you the same Rebuild Assessment my clients used for FREE 😍

Until it’s the clothes themselves 🤣

It’s 24 hours before the day out & I’m shopping for a theme’d outfit that I should have had organised months ago… sound familiar?

You know your “normal size” but remind yourself shops are all different it depends on which shop buy from.

You find something cute whilst also hating everything & feeling like you won’t look good in it.

Into the changing room & BANG 💥

Suddenly you have three really dark hairs sprouting from your chin, the white hair of a Disney villain & don’t even get me started on the lighting.

That was my exact experience play by play for yearsssss.

The meltdowns, the self-deprecation, the victim mentality & the spiral that leads to a 4 day takeaway consumption that could feed a family of 4 everytime.

But not this time.

The theme was out there for me, I had left it very last minute but by gosh what a laugh I had with those outfits.

An early 2000s style cat slater top & skirt that had my b***s pushed in so much my armpit t**s were hanging out.

The orange dress that was givinggggg 🤌 until I turned round & it went from Ohhhhh layyyy 😍 to no way 🙅🏼‍♀️ reallllll fast 🤣

And lastly the sack of potato’s that gave my frump some bump & tbh I was a little gutted they didn’t have in the smaller size.

All the above would normally be said in a nasty, negative way to myself but this time it was just me looking & realising the outfit wasn’t doing my favours.

It wasn’t about me.

And if I chose to make it about me then I was intentionally just trying to ruin my own day.

The bridge how I used to be & how it is now felt like something I’d never achieve but here we are. Now when my clients are going through the same, they have the roadmap to get their quicker, with less meltdowns & less changing room trauma than me 🤣🤣

Which if you ask me is what it’s all about 🤣🔥

When Rachel reached out to me she wanted what many woman want.

She wanted confidence, to feel more comfortable & strong in her body but she was determining success by the measures so many of us still use - the scales & perfectionism.

She was overly hard on herself, not getting things straight away even though it’s a very necessary part of learning was frustrating. Not seeing the physical transformation straight away despite knowing good things that last take time was demoralising.

But now through this post she can see she is exactly where she is meant to be & has got what she was searching for…

“I’m also aiming to feel stronger and more comfortable in my body, rather than focusing purely on aesthetics. That said, I’d like to tone up…Alongside physical goals, I want to build healthier habits—maintaining a regular routine, improving my energy levels, and finding a balance that feels sustainable long term. Overall, I’m looking to feel fitter, stronger, and more in tune with my body by the end of the six months.”

“I will have more confidence in myself, have a better mindset and hopefully feel stronger in my body.”

We are only 3 months in & this is your progress Rachel 🤯!

To every other woman like Rachel reading this, know you are only a few decisions & months away from completely changing your life.

And to Rachel, wow! You’re finally realising you are more than any “failure” or thing you don’t get right, you are also every hard task you complete, every time you get back up & every bit of courage it takes for you to keep going each day.

Investing in yourself is scary, putting your money on the line for something you don’t know will work is even more scary but now the scariest thing is your untapped potential. The world is your oyster, grab it!

It’s about the woman wearing it.

A few years ago I wouldn’t have felt this level of confidence in myself all day.

I’d have looked at this photo & mostly seen what I want to change.

I’d wonder if people also seen the flaws that I could see.

Did they see my smile or my insecurities more?

But now…

I only see a woman enjoying the moment.

And that’s what rebuilding gave me.

It gave my myself.

Brick by brick 🧱

Not perfection.
Not confidence every day.
Not a “goal body.”

Just more moments where I enjoy being in the body I am in. Not wishing to be in another different one.

Because the goal is never to be in the perfect body or idealise someone else’s.

This is the freedom I want for every woman who walks into Enhance.