Coaching with Debra

Coaching with Debra Helping midlife women break the stop-start cycle with their health & weight. Consistency without perfection. Coaching, community & real life tools.

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If you want to start strength training but feel like you have absolutely NO idea what you’re doing, I hope this makes it...
19/09/2026

If you want to start strength training but feel like you have absolutely NO idea what you’re doing, I hope this makes it feel a little less overwhelming.

Because one of the things I hear a lot from women is…

“I’ve got myself into the gym, but I don’t know what I should be doing now I’m in there.”

What exercises should I do?
What weight should I use?
How many times should I train?
What if I do something wrong?
And how do I know if I’m actually getting stronger?

It can all feel overwhelming, especially when you’re surrounded by people who seem to know exactly what they’re doing.

Please feel reassured, you don’t need to know everything before you start.

You need a few exercises you can learn and become familiar with, a weight that challenges you appropriately and enough consistency with those exercises to give yourself the opportunity to progress.

And this is the important bit.

Variety and constantly switching your workouts might feel more interesting, but it makes it much harder to see whether you’re actually getting stronger.

When you repeat the same exercises, you start to notice things.

The weight that felt heavy a few weeks ago feels easier.
You can do another rep.
Your technique feels better.
You feel more confident using a piece of equipment you once avoided.

THAT is progress.

And please don’t think you need to get fitter, lose weight or feel more confident before you begin.

You get confident by starting and learning as you go.

Strength training is how you become stronger and more capable 🙌💪.

I’m thinking about putting together a FREE Beginner Strength Guide for women who want to start but aren’t sure what to do.

Would that be helpful? Comment START below and let me know.

Debra x

18/09/2026

Whether you’ve been away on holiday or just missed a few workouts…

Even though it might FEEL like you have, you won’t have lost all your progress. You’re not behind and you’re certainly not back to where you were when you first started.

Getting started again can feel like a much bigger deal than it needs to be.

You don’t need to make up for what you’ve missed.

You just need to do the next workout.

And then the next.

That’s how you get back into your usual routine.

And this is exactly what I’ll be doing.

Debra x

I write this while lying in the sun on the last day of an incredible holiday. Reflecting back on past achievements, reco...
16/09/2026

I write this while lying in the sun on the last day of an incredible holiday.

Reflecting back on past achievements, recognising how far I’ve come and feeling excited about what’s still to come.

My husband and I took on our first mixed doubles event in March of this year and again in September when we knocked 6 minutes off our time, feeling happy that we’d improved.

And at 56, I’m still getting stronger, fitter and continually learning what my body is capable of.

I talk A LOT about ageing strong and capable and this is exactly what I want to show you and help you with.

It certainly doesn’t mean you have to enter a hybrid event.

Your version of getting stronger might look completely different to mine.

It might be taking the first small step in taking better care of your health, or getting started in the gym, or lifting heavier.

Running your first 5K or walking further without getting out of breath.

Getting up and down off the floor to play with your grandkids.

Or simply feeling stronger and more capable in everyday life.

Because getting older doesn’t mean it’s too late to start or you’re too old to make a noticeable difference.

Because it’s never too late!

Time is going to pass anyway so you may as well pass it taking care of your health.

It’s why I train.

Not just to be capable of doing events like this, but to be strong and capable for life.

To travel. Explore. Walk for miles. Run along the coast. Be active with my family. Try new things.

And hopefully keep doing all of it for many years to come.

Tomorrow we head home after an amazing 10 days in Montenego

I’m excited to get back to work catching up with my amazing clients, helping them to achieve their individual goals and discover just how capable they are 🤩.

And head down training for Hyrox in December.

If you’re ready to feel your strongest self and see what you’re capable of, DM me STRONG.

Debra x

Skadar Lake 💙Nature, scenery, history, swimming, homemade wine, and a local fisherman couple enjoyed with family. Swipe ...
13/09/2026

Skadar Lake 💙

Nature, scenery, history, swimming, homemade wine, and a local fisherman couple enjoyed with family.

Swipe to the end to see my award winning backwards roll 😂.

If you visit Montenegro, 💯 recommend Wandr | Balkan expert and
Golden Frog 🇲🇪 Boat Tours | Virpazar

Sunset run for no other reason than I love moving my body and where better than along the coast with incredible views🌅.T...
11/09/2026

Sunset run for no other reason than I love moving my body and where better than along the coast with incredible views🌅.

Thank you to the little local girls who captured the sunset perfectly 🙏.

11/09/2026

I was asked how long it took me to get to where I am now.

And I realised there’s a lot about me you may not know.

I’ve worked in health & fitness since I was 18 years old.

But that absolutely does NOT mean I’ve spent all those years with everything figured out.

Like so many women of my generation, I grew up surrounded by diet culture.

I had my own beliefs around food and what I thought a ‘healthy balanced diet’ looked like and there are things I believed then that I think very differently about now.

I’ve had to learn, just like you.

One of the biggest turning points for me was qualifying as a nutritionist and learning how to take the science and apply it to real people, with real lives.

Because knowing what to do and actually doing it when you have commitments, family, emotions, work and all the other pressures of life are two very different things.

And that’s why I coach women the way I do now, with compassion, understanding and a realistic approach to making changes that actually fit into your life.

🎙️ I talk more about my own journey, along with your questions on strength, nutrition, menopause, running and more, in Ep 133 of The Strong Healthy Happy Podcast: You Asked, I Answered.

Link in bio. Go take a listen and if you have a question you’d like me to answer, comment below or send me a DM.

Debra x

Budva Montenegro Boat, caves, old town, beaches, Sven Stefani exclusive island, swims, cali, run & good food.
09/09/2026

Budva Montenegro

Boat, caves, old town, beaches, Sven Stefani exclusive island, swims, cali, run & good food.

Reasons why I do and don’t run. I DON’T run to burn off what I ate or drank. Or to earn calories.Or use it as a reason t...
09/09/2026

Reasons why I do and don’t run.

I DON’T run to burn off what I ate or drank.

Or to earn calories.
Or use it as a reason to deserve or reward myself with ‘a treat’ 🍷🍩 unless it’s new kit 😂.

But I DO run because..

I LOVE it 😍
It’s the only time I’m able to be truly present with just myself & my thoughts.
Especially when I’m outside and in nature or exploring new areas.

I love the feeling when my heart rate starts increasing and I find my rhythm from the movement.

It genuinely makes me feel SO good.

And the feeling of accomplishment & self pride when you finish.

Run because you enjoy it.
Not because you think you have to. Find movement you enjoy and do it often.

My running essentials QLVR trainers and MAAREE | Sports Bras bra. Both are stylish, supportive & high performance.

Debra 🏃‍♀️

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