Leslie Happi

A month that felt like 24 hours in slow motion.
That’s what losing yourself to the ordinary of motherhood feels like.
No dramatic breakdown. Just a slow fade.
If you know you know.

we’re not staying there

Some seasons stretch you in ways you don’t understand at first. They feel uncomfortable, uncertain, and sometimes life even feels unfair.

You question everything your direction, your strength, your timing. It can feel like you’re being pulled apart, piece by piece, without knowing what you’re being shaped into.

But that’s the thing about growth… it rarely feels good while it’s happening.

These seasons are not here to break you, even if it feels that way sometimes.
They are here to refine you. To teach you patience, resilience, and trust especially when nothing seems to make sense. You are learning to let go of what no longer fits, even when it’s familiar. You are learning to stand in the unknown, even when it’s uncomfortable.

And slowly, almost quietly, something shifts. You begin to see yourself differently. Stronger. Wiser. More grounded.

So if you’re in one of those seasons right now, just know it has a purpose. You are not stuck. You are being shaped into the next version of yourself.

Trust it. Even when it’s hard

Nobody was coming to save me.
So I’m saving myself.

Single mom, 35, funding my life with one hand and building my freedom with the other.
Sharing every messy step here the real ones.
Do you relate ?

realmomlife doingitanyway

All it takes… is a decision.

I know how it feels when you’re deep in it overthinking, overwhelmed, exhausted, and not even sure how you’re supposed to turn things around. It can feel like this is your reality now… like it’s going to last forever.

But life doesn’t work that way.
Everything is seasonal. Everything is in motion. Everything… passes 🤍

This moment you’re in right now as heavy as it feels is not permanent. It’s a phase. A transition. And even if you can’t see the way out yet, it’s already shifting.

I also know that sometimes the change doesn’t come right away. Sometimes you need to sit in it long enough to become tired of being tired… until something in you gets sick and tired to be sick and tired
And the “I can’t do this no more .” Becomes the only way.

And that’s where the power shifts.

Not in having everything figured out. But in choosing, even in the middle of the mess, to take one step. One decision. One small act of courage to move differently.

So if you’re still in it right now, hear me like a friend would say it to you softly:

This is not your forever.
This is just a season.

And when you’re ready… you’ll move✨

It’s always the same pattern. get fired up about something.
Take a few steps.
Then I run straight into self-sabotage.
Doubts, unresolved grief, old patterns, inner voices... whatever that s**t might be.

I’m done with that cycle.
I’m launching this series to push myself and face what’s been holding me back out loud.
So it won’t have power over me
No more settling for less.

What you’re getting from this ? Ask no further…😝

I’Il share what I’m doing, the strategies I’m testing, tools you can try too. And of course, the real, unfiltered version of my life as a single mother figuring out along the way

Follow along and see who win the fight.

Me vs. Me series 🏃🏽‍♀️

I’m fed up seeing this pattern repeat over and over. People don’t care unless it hits their comfort.
The world’s falling apart, but for some people it’s easy to ignore until it affects their wallet.
And those are usually the same people who say that’s their problem, not mine. But don’t realize how much what they tolerate is often what created or amplified the problem in the first place.

Sometimes you hear people talk and say nothing not because you’ve got nothing to say, but simply because you can see people are too narrow-minded to get the bigger picture, or they just like to bury their head in the sand over and over again.
But our silence is often what amplifies the problem

18 days ago, I said yes to a simple challenge: 30 days of happiness.
I had no idea it would quietly turn my life upside down.

Somewhere along the way, joy stopped being a feeling and became a decision.
One that led me to make a bold, radical choice the kind that changes the course of a year… maybe more.

I won’t say too much yet.
Just this: it brought me closer to a long-held dream, one I’ve carried quietly for years.
The kind of dream that promises a deeper freedom, a truer happiness and yes, a healthy dose of discomfort too.

This journey will stretch me.
It will shake things up.
And I’m choosing it anyway.

Sometimes the most important thing we can do in life is dare.
Dare to listen. Dare to leap. Dare to honor the dream that keeps whispering from within.

If you’re curious, come along.
I’ll share more as it unfolds 🤍











CourageOverComfort

By your mid-30s, you should know this:
Love isn’t meant to exhaust you, confuse you, or keep you guessing.
Struggle is not passion.
Chaos is not chemistry.
And anxiety is not attraction.

You hold more power in your dating life than you think.
The dynamic shifts the moment you raise your standards, trust your intuition, and stop settling for what only half meets your needs.

This series is here to remind you of the things we were never taught but absolutely need to remember to date with clarity, confidence, and self-respect.

If you’re ready to rewrite your dating patterns and step into your full power, I’ve got you.
Link in bio ✨