Club Rendezvous

🫧✨ 43 YEARS OF CLUB R — AND WE’RE JUST GETTING STARTED! ✨🫧

Since 1983, Club Rendezvous has been bringing open-minded people together to MEET • PLAY • EXPLORE — and now it’s time to celebrate 43 incredible years! 🥂🍍

Join us for our 43rd Anniversary BUBBLE GLOW PARTY — a full night of neon, bubbles, music, dancing, connection and unmistakable Club R energy. 🔥

🎧 Music by DJ DST
🫧 Bubble Glow atmosphere
🎁 Anniversary door prizes
🥂 Premium drinks
✨ Glow, dance, mingle & explore
🕗 8PM – 3AM

Whether you’ve been part of Club R for years or you’re ready to experience us for the first time, come be part of 43 years of history.

🍍 43 YEARS OF PASSION • CONNECTION • UNFORGETTABLE NIGHTS

🎟️ Tickets & info: CLUBRCANADA.COM

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UNPOPULAR LIFESTYLE OPINION:
REAL INCLUSIVITY SHOULDN’T FEEL PERFORMATIVE.

Inclusivity should mean people feel welcome, respected, and comfortable being themselves.

Not singled out.

Not put on display.

Not treated like a symbol.

And not made to feel like they were included just so someone else can prove how inclusive they are.

At the same time, inclusion shouldn’t mean other people are pushed to the sidelines or made to feel like their presence matters less.

We don’t all need to be the same.

We don’t all have the same experiences.

We don’t all have the same preferences, identities, relationships, or boundaries.

That’s okay.

The goal shouldn’t be to erase those differences.

It should be to make sure those differences don’t determine who gets basic dignity, courtesy, and respect.

You don’t have to be attracted to everyone.

You don’t have to agree with everyone.

You don’t have to connect with everyone.

But everyone should be treated like they belong in the room.

Because real inclusion isn’t about checking boxes.

It isn’t about optics.

And it isn’t about making some people feel showcased while others feel forgotten.

Different people.
Different experiences.
Different preferences.
Same baseline of respect.

Maybe that’s what inclusion should look like.

Agree or disagree?

IS SAVING A FEW BUCKS WORTH THE RISK?

House parties can be fun. No argument there.

But when someone regularly hosts lifestyle events in their home and charges admission, I think there are some questions people should be asking before handing over their money.

What happens if somebody gets seriously injured?

Is the event properly insured for dozens of paying guests, or are everyone’s fingers just crossed?

What happens when somebody gets drunk, aggressive or refuses to leave?

Is there actual security—or is the homeowner expected to deal with it?

And probably the biggest question in our community:

What happens when there’s a consent violation?

Who handles the complaint?

Who removes someone?

Is there a written policy?

Is there trained staff?

Is the incident documented?

Or does it turn into, “Well, they’re our friends, so let’s just work this out…”?

Legitimate venues spend a lot of time and money dealing with insurance, occupancy, fire safety, liquor requirements, staff, security and procedures for exactly these reasons.

That doesn’t make every house party unsafe.

But once you’re regularly charging people to attend, you should probably be prepared to accept the responsibilities that come with running an event too.

Because when everything goes well, none of this seems important.

It’s the night something goes wrong that matters.

Would you feel safer at a properly operated venue—or does it make no difference to you?

I think the lifestyle community is getting a little confused with all the influencers, coaches and new labels being thrown around.

Maybe I’m old school, but I remember when it was just called the lifestyle. Swingers, open minded couples and singles, people exploring and figuring out what worked for them.

Now it seems like everyone needs a new label for everything. ENM, poly, relationship anarchy, solo poly, hierarchical, non-hierarchical, monogamish… the list just keeps growing.

I’m not saying the labels are all bad. Some of them help people explain what they’re looking for and that’s totally fair.

I just think sometimes we make this way more complicated than it needs to be.

At the end of the day, I don’t really care what someone calls themselves. What matters to me is how they treat people.

Consent, honesty, communication, boundaries and respect.

Those things mattered in the lifestyle long before Instagram coaches and influencers started explaining it to everyone, and they still matter now.

Call it swinging. Call it ENM. Call it poly. Call it whatever works for you.

Just remember a label doesn’t automatically make someone’s behaviour ethical.

How you treat people does. 🍍

A little food for thought... 🍍

The lifestyle doesn't need more influencers. It needs more people with real experience.

There is no single "right" way to do ethical non-monogamy. Every relationship is different. What matters is consent, communication, honesty, and respecting each other's boundaries.

Be cautious about anyone claiming they've figured it all out. The loudest voices online aren't always the wisest. After nearly 20 years in the lifestyle, we've learned that the healthiest relationships are usually built through experience—not Instagram reels or expensive webinars.

At Club R, we care far more about how you treat people than how many followers you have.

That said, there are some fantastic creators out there. The ones we appreciate most are the people who showcase clubs, events, and community, rather than trying to dictate how everyone else's relationships should work.

Trust your gut. Learn from your peers. Respect consent. Find the path that works for you.

And if someone tells you they've discovered the one true way to do the lifestyle... they might just be trying to sell you something. 😉

🇨🇦🍍 HAPPY CANADA DAY FROM CLUB R 🍍🇨🇦

Today is more than a holiday.

It’s a celebration of community, freedom, connection, and the people who make this country feel like home.

At Club Rendezvous, we’re proud to be part of a community that welcomes open-minded adults from all walks of life — people who show up with respect, confidence, kindness, and great energy.

So however you’re celebrating today, we hope it’s filled with laughter, good people, and unforgettable moments.

❤️🤍 Happy Canada Day from all of us at Club R.

🍍 MEET • PLAY • EXPLORE 🍍

We are still here! 🍍😂

🍍⚡ THIS WEEKEND AT CLUB R ⚡🍍

Three chances to get out, connect, laugh, dance, and experience the energy everyone has been talking about. 😈

🎵 THURSDAY — SW***ER MUSIC BINGO
Hosted by Amanda

🍍 Great music
🍍 Naughty prizes
🍍 Fun games
🍍 Amazing people

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⚡ FRIDAY — ELECTRIC DESIRE ⚡

DJ DST takes over the dance floor for a night of high-energy beats, incredible vibes, and unforgettable connections.

🔥 Dance
🔥 Socialize
🔥 Connect
🔥 Repeat

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💋 SATURDAY — LINGERIE DANCE PARTY 💋

Confidence.
Energy.
Connection.

One of our hottest Club R Signature Events™ returns for another unforgettable night.

🔥 Sexy atmosphere
🔥 Incredible crowd
🔥 Packed dance floor
🔥 Amazing energy

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⚠️ Don't wait until the last minute.

Our weekend events continue to sell out or come very close to capacity, and attendance has been growing every month.

If you're planning to join us, grab your tickets early.

🎟 Tickets & Info:
[https://bit.ly/4qiJj2G](https://bit.ly/4uA2kzs)

🔥 Club R Signature Events™ 🔥

Private • Curated • By Approval

🍍 MEET • PLAY • EXPLORE 🍍

🖤❤️💛💚💙💜

June is a reminder that strength comes in many forms.

It's Men's Mental Health Month.
It's National Pride Month.

At Club R, we believe everyone deserves a place where they feel accepted, respected, supported, and free to be themselves.

To the men carrying more than they show...
It's okay to talk.
It's okay to ask for help.
It's okay to not be okay.

To our LGBTQ+ members and friends...
We see you.
We support you.
We celebrate you.

Club R has always been about connection, community, acceptance, and creating a space where people can be authentic without judgment.

Because at the end of the day, we're more than a club.

We're a community. 🖤

🍍 Support
🍍 Respect
🍍 Inclusion
🍍 Acceptance

Happy Pride Month.
Happy Men's Mental Health Month.

With love from all of us at Club R.

🍍 MEET • PLAY • EXPLORE 🍍

🔥 ONE EPIC WEEKEND AT CLUB R 🔥

Three amazing events. One unforgettable weekend. 😈

✨ FRIDAY — FIRST TIME FRIDAY
Perfect for newcomers and first-timers looking to experience Club R in a fun, welcoming atmosphere.

🎟 Tickets Required

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🛍 SATURDAY DAY — CLUB R KINKY MARKET

Meet local vendors, creators, and community members.

🔥 Shop
🔥 Connect
🔥 Explore

✅ FREE FOR EVERYONE

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🖤 SATURDAY NIGHT — LEATHER & LACE
🔥 Club R Signature Events™ 🔥

One of our most popular events returns.

Leather. Lace. Confidence. Connection.

Expect incredible music, amazing people, and an upscale atmosphere all night long.

⚠️ Tickets are required and this event is expected to sell quickly.

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🎟 Tickets & Information:
👉 [https://bit.ly/4qiJj2G](https://bit.ly/4uA2kzs)

Private • Curated • By Approval

MEET • PLAY • EXPLORE