GROW Horsemanship

GROW Horsemanship I'm Brie Simpson, behaviour consultant, R+ trainer, and the founder of GROW Horsemanship, formerly PATH Equestrian. Please feel free to reach out ❤️

Welfare-focused equine education, discussion, and community

Endorsed Trainer with the WBA

• Behaviour consulting
• R+ lessons (in person and online)

Track-system boarding at Balancing Whispers (Caledon, Ontario) 🇨🇦 PATH was where this work began, but GROW reflects how my understanding and approach have evolved over the years. GROW stands for Guided by Research, Observation & Welfare, the three pillars that shape everything I do:

Research: keeps the work grounded in evidence and curiosity. Observation: helps us truly see the horse in front of us and respond to them as an individual. Welfare: is the foundation, making sure every choice supports the horse’s physical, emotional, and social needs. I manage Balancing Whispers, one of Canada’s largest track-system facilities, which is home to a healthy mixed herd where horses live in a manner that supports their physical, social, and emotional needs. Designed in collaboration with owner Martine Sudan, who has created a haven for welfare-focused owners and a model for progressive horse management. I’ve hosted clinics and mentorships focused on the equine pain ethogram, consent-based procedures, and welfare-based care, supporting owners, professionals, and students in applying science to real-world horse management. I’ve also mentored students from diverse academic and professional backgrounds, including veterinary and graduate students, as well as co-op placements and horse owners seeking hands-on experience in welfare-based training and management. I’m an Endorsed Trainer with the World Bitless Association, a recognition that holds deep meaning for me because it reflects years of learning, reflection, and dedication to welfare-led, evidence-based horsemanship. Very few trainers hold this recognition, and I feel deeply honoured to be part of that community. GROW Horsemanship is about creating a welfare-focused community, a place where questions are welcome, science meets empathy, and education is meant to empower, not judge.

09/20/2026

Shaping means building a behaviour through small steps, and those steps should keep progressing.

This is Enzo learning to halter. Because he is semi-feral, some of the approximations are very small, but each one is moving us closer to the finished behaviour instead of reinforcing the exact same thing over and over.

One of the more common “perceptions” people have of Positive Reinforcement is a horse being clicked and fed every few se...
09/20/2026

One of the more common “perceptions” people have of Positive Reinforcement is a horse being clicked and fed every few seconds for the same behaviour over and over.

To be fair, some people do train that way, but that’s not what shaping normally looks like.

Regardless of what method you train with, we often break behaviours down into small steps until we get to the “finished” or desired behaviour. This is what we call an “approximation”, and that means we gradually raise the criteria and shape through approximations to get to our finished behaviour.

Sometimes that progress can be tiny. Sometimes you repeat a step a few times because the horse needs more confidence or isn’t quite “there yet”. Sometimes we even go back and lower our criteria, but overall, we want to see the behaviour keep DEVELOPING.

While there may be instances where I reinforce something as small as a weight shift, a lean, or even slight engagement, I am not doing that for every single step. That level of approximation is usually reserved for specific situations.

Most horses are able to take bigger or smaller steps toward the goal depending on the behaviour, their history and how well they understand the training. ESPECIALLY horses with a solid R+ history who already understand the “game”.

When we are months or years into training, our horses understand how shaping works. They understand duration, distance, building criteria, and that we are working toward something.

If I have clicked several times and there is very little change between each repetition, and the behaviour is not progressing in any real way, I am going to stop and look at why.

Progress does not always mean the behaviour looks dramatically different. Maybe I am building duration. Maybe I am getting more distance. Maybe the response is becoming more precise, more confident, more fluent, or happening around a harder distraction. But SOMETHING should be developing.

And the approximations will not look the same for every horse. They can and should change depending on the individual horse, their history, confidence, experience, and what you are training. A good trainer needs to be flexible enough to adjust the size of those steps as they go.

Let’s use training haltering as an example because any horse person will know this behaviour.

When we are teaching a horse to halter, there are a series of things involved to get from never seeing a halter to wearing a halter. A horse that is feral or unhandled will likely take more steps than a horse that’s been handled since day one.

Before we even get to the halter, we need some behaviours to already be solid. They need to be able to stand comfortably with me in their space, they need to understand what the click means, they need to understand expectations around food and cannot be mugging or constantly throwing behaviours, and depending on the anxiety level in the horse, I will ask for a start button.

THEN we can break down the haltering itself:

• touch the halter
• bring your nose toward it
• put your nose in
• tolerate the halter being moved, making noise and being in your peripherals
• tolerate it moving around your ears
• allow me to tie it
• add in the lead rope

I’m not going to keep reinforcing “touch the halter” forever. That behaviour is just ONE approximation out of many on the way to the finished behaviour of haltering.

The same applies to all other areas. When a horse understands something, we should be looking at how to build that behaviour further through things like duration, distance, precision, movement or chaining in other behaviours.

R+ can absolutely become stagnant if the trainer never advances criteria. But once again, that’s a TRAINING issue, not a requirement of Positive Reinforcement.

People will often argue that their horse loves their job.But then complain that the same horse is constantly “trying to ...
09/19/2026

People will often argue that their horse loves their job.

But then complain that the same horse is constantly “trying to get out of work.”

They don’t want to be caught. They pin their ears when the saddle comes out. They avoid the mounting block. They slow down, stop, drift toward the gate, toss their head, swish their tail, open their mouth or become “difficult” during certain parts of the ride.

And a lot of these behaviours are incredibly normalized in riding.

We see conflict behaviours so often that many of them barely register anymore. A horse swishing its tail through an exercise, opening its mouth against the bit, repeatedly tossing its head, resisting transitions or showing tension gets written off as attitude, laziness, evasion or simply “what horses do.”

That doesn’t mean one tail swish or one moment of hesitation tells us a horse hates being ridden. Behaviour doesn’t work like that.

But when behaviours associated with conflict, tension or avoidance are happening repeatedly, especially around particular parts of riding, they are information.

And I think that’s the part we skip over when we say, “my horse loves their job.”

Maybe they do. Maybe they enjoy some parts and dislike others. Maybe something hurts. Maybe the work is confusing, frustrating or too difficult. Maybe we need more information.

But if we’re constantly describing a horse as “trying to get out of work,” it’s worth asking why we’re so certain they love doing it.

You can’t say your horse is constantly trying to avoid the work and never question whether they are actually enjoying it.

Behaviour is information. Even when it contradicts the story we prefer.

09/19/2026

Peekaboo-core water edition

There is just simply no other horse like him.

Peekaboo survived a pretty significant accident when he was younger and has some lasting effects from it. He is also, without question, one of the funniest and most ridiculous horses I have ever known.

Enjoy! 🤣

I genuinely don’t understand how we talk about horses sometimes.People will confidently say that a horse is manipulating...
09/18/2026

I genuinely don’t understand how we talk about horses sometimes.

People will confidently say that a horse is manipulating them, testing them, trying to get out of work, seeing what they can get away with, pretending to be afraid or lame, or deliberately doing something because they know it will get them the outcome they want.

That requires a pretty impressive amount of cognition, and often far more than the evidence actually supports. Horses can learn how their behaviour affects outcomes without that meaning they are deliberately deceiving or manipulating us.

But then, in another conversation, that same horse apparently can’t really understand a choice. They can’t really say “yes” or “no.” Their preference must just be conditioning. Opting out might just be avoidance. Their behaviour doesn’t necessarily tell us much about what they’re feeling. We have to be careful not to give them “too much credit,” because then we’re anthropomorphizing.

And this is the part I can’t reconcile.

If we’re willing to interpret a horse learning how to produce an outcome as manipulation, deception, testing boundaries, faking fear or lameness, or calculating what they can “get away with,” then why are we suddenly so reluctant to believe that horse can anticipate what is about to happen, have a preference about it, communicate discomfort, or make a meaningful choice?

We do this in other ways too. Horses can learn incredibly specific things about individual humans, yet we still act as though they can’t tell that we’re not horses.

We seem incredibly willing to give horses complex motives when those motives make the horse the problem.

But when their behaviour might require us to listen, change something, or admit that they may not want what we want, suddenly their cognitive abilities become very limited.

We can’t keep treating horses like brilliant little masterminds when their behaviour can be blamed on them, then suddenly questioning their cognitive abilities when their behaviour tells us something inconvenient to us.

09/18/2026

Project Enzo: Working With His Owner ❤️

These are always some of my favourite sessions.

Enzo and his owner are starting to work together, getting more comfortable with each other and building their own communication.

This is the part where I start getting little glimpses of what their future together is going to look like. 🥹

Horses don’t “play dead” to get out of work.If a horse is in such an extreme state that it appears to be “playing dead,”...
09/17/2026

Horses don’t “play dead” to get out of work.

If a horse is in such an extreme state that it appears to be “playing dead,” it’s not playing anything.

I’m tired of seeing people joke about horses lying down to avoid work, as though this is some funny little trick they’ve figured out.

How can we be so out of touch with the animal we’re handling that we look at an extreme fear response and turn it into a joke about laziness or manipulation?

It’s a prey animal that believes the threat is so severe that escape is no longer an option.

It thinks it’s going to die.

Hope that clears things up.



ETA because apparently this needs clarifying: the key line here is “if a horse is in such an extreme state…” This post is specifically about horses being pushed into extreme fear/distress and then having that response described as “playing dead.” I am obviously not saying that every horse who lies down, sleeps, rolls, rests, or learns to lie down to end work is experiencing extreme fear. Context matters.

Horse training is dangerous.And I think there is a growing group of people in the horse world who sometimes forget that....
09/16/2026

Horse training is dangerous.

And I think there is a growing group of people in the horse world who sometimes forget that.

There are things we can do to reduce our risk. Wear a helmet. Wear appropriate footwear. Learn good handling skills. Reduce unnecessary punishment. Give horses more predictability, agency and choice. Learn to recognize fear, pain and escalating arousal.

We actually have research showing that understanding how horses learn, reducing fear and confusion, avoiding unnecessary conflict and recognizing escalating arousal can help make our interactions with horses safer.

Safer. Not safe.

And I think that distinction is really important.

I see people say “my horse would never hurt me” because they have a great relationship with their horse.

Your horse may be your best friend. They can trust you. They can choose to be with you. You can train them incredibly thoughtfully.

They can still hurt you.

And they don’t have to WANT to hurt you.

Years ago Pale stepped on some kind of ground wasp or bee nest while we were out on trail.

I cannot stress how safe this horse is. I’ve done an enormous amount of liberty work with him. I’ve ridden him off property extensively. By most horse people’s definition, he is about as “bombproof” as they come.

It didn’t matter.

He was suddenly being stung over and over again and reacted so quickly that I got launched.

Pale didn’t decide to hurt me. Our relationship didn’t disappear. His training didn’t fail. He was a horse suddenly experiencing something painful and frightening and he reacted.

THAT is what I mean when I say safer does not mean safe.

Horses are large flight animals. They can panic. They can be in pain. They can become extremely aroused. They can lose their footing. They can react faster than we can. They can make mistakes.

And your horse doesn’t even have to be the one that does something.

Another horse can spook and run into yours. Another horse can move your horse into you. A horse can kick at another horse and hit you instead. Equipment can break. Someone can lose control of a horse nearby.

Some of the worst horse accidents I’ve witnessed or heard about have happened like this. The horse that actually injured someone wasn’t even the horse that started the problem.

I also think it’s easier to lose sight of this when most of your experience has been with a handful of quiet, uncomplicated horses.

Working with horses with extreme fear, serious behaviour problems, significant pain or much more complicated histories changes your perspective pretty quickly.

But “horses can be dangerous” also doesn’t mean we need to control their every movement, take away every choice or force them into submission to keep ourselves safe.

The research doesn’t support that either.

How we train affects safety. Fear, confusion, frustration and high arousal can contribute to dangerous situations. So can provoking a flight response or failing to recognize that a horse is escalating.

There has to be somewhere between “my horse would never hurt me” and “my horse is dangerous, so I need complete control.”

You can give your horse choices and still pay attention to where you’re standing. You can prioritize agency and still get the heck out of the way when you need to. You can avoid unnecessary force and still have boundaries. You can trust your horse and still wear a helmet.

I love my horses. I trust my horses.
I also know they can hurt me.

Those things aren’t incompatible.

And I think more people need to be comfortable admitting that.

Record the whole picture, not your interpretation of the picture.This is something I find myself saying a lot when peopl...
09/16/2026

Record the whole picture, not your interpretation of the picture.

This is something I find myself saying a lot when people are describing behaviour to me.

“He was being dominant” isn’t what happened. Neither is “she was being disrespectful,” “he was anxious,” or “she was testing me.”

Those are conclusions you’ve made about what happened.

What I actually want to know is what the horse did. What happened right before it, what you did, what the horse did next, who else was there, what changed in the environment, and whether this has happened before.

There’s a huge difference between telling me “my horse tried to run me over” and telling me your horse turned toward the gate, you stepped in front of him, he continued forward and you moved out of his way.

Maybe we eventually decide anxiety was involved. Maybe frustration was involved. Maybe there’s a reinforcement history there. Maybe there’s something physical we need to investigate.

But we can’t really start sorting through ANY of that if the original information has already been replaced by someone’s explanation of why they think it happened.

The same goes for video. Three seconds of the behaviour you’re concerned about is often far less useful than the boring minute before and after it.

Give me the boring stuff.

That’s usually where the useful information is.

A little September reminder from me:I have Seasonal Affective Disorder, and September is usually when it hits me the har...
09/15/2026

A little September reminder from me:

I have Seasonal Affective Disorder, and September is usually when it hits me the hardest.

This is something I’ve dealt with my entire life. I know it’s coming. I plan for it every year. And somehow, every year, it still gets me.

Right now, everything takes me longer.

Emails take longer. Training plans take longer. Messages take longer. I may occasionally need a little more flexibility with scheduling.

I’m still here. I’m still working. I’m still incredibly invested in the things I’ve committed to.

My brain is just moving through molasses right now.

So if you’re waiting on something from me, thank you for giving me a little extra patience. I promise I haven’t forgotten about you.

And if this time of year knocks you on your butt too, you’re definitely not alone. ❤️

Feat: Zoe who turns 17 next month 🥹

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