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This Blue Moon, I’m releasing what requires me to beg and calling in what nourishes me. 🌑✨ What are you releasing tonight? 🌑 BLUE MOON • 31 MAY 2026

The last Blue Moon was 19 August 2024.

Blue Moons are often associated with release and manifestation. Letting go of what no longer serves us and creating space to call in what our heart truly desires.

I’ve seen some beautiful content this week around releasing old stories and manifesting abundance, wealth, success and opportunity.

And while I absolutely believe in those things, this Blue Moon has me reflecting on a different kind of wealth.

For me, wealth is connection.

Connection with myself.
Connection with my family.
Connection with my community.
Connection with people who see me, hear me and value me.

If you’re calling in healthy relationships under this Blue Moon, whether romantic, friendship, family or business, here’s something I’ve learned in close to half a century of love:

✨ Things you should never have to beg for in a relationship:

💛Basic respect
💛Consistent effort
💛Honest communication
💛Their time and attention
💛Emotional support when you’re struggling
💛Accountability when they’ve hurt you
💛Feeling like a priority, not an afterthought
💛The bare minimum of showing up

🙌 The right people won’t make you earn what should be freely given.

Tonight, release the relationships that require you to abandon yourself.

And call in the ones where love feels safe, reciprocal, nourishing and easy.

That’s the kind of wealth I’m manifesting.

🌻 Bec. ConnectionIsWealth HealingJourney

When we heal the child within us, we become the parent our children need.

There is a moment in healing where you realise something profound.

What happened to you as a child was never your fault.
But the life you build from here… gently becomes your responsibility.

Healing childhood trauma is not about blaming the past.
It is about reclaiming the parts of yourself that had to hide in order to survive.

And something beautiful happens when we begin this work.

Your nervous system softens.
You respond instead of react.
You trust your intuition again.
You recognise triggers before they become storms.

But perhaps one of the most powerful shifts of all…

You begin showing up differently for your own children.

Not as a perfect parent.
But as a conscious one.

A parent who pauses.
A parent who listens.
A parent who can sit with big emotions instead of fearing them.

Because when we heal the child within us,
we create safer space for the children in front of us.

Healing doesn’t just change our lives.

It changes the emotional inheritance our children receive.

✨ The most powerful thing a parent can say to the younger parts of themselves is:

“I’ve got you now.”

And from that place of compassion…
we can finally say the same to our children.






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When we heal the child within us, we become the parent our children need. There is a moment in healing where you realise something profound.

What happened to you as a child was never your fault.
But the life you build from here… gently becomes your responsibility.

Healing childhood trauma is not about blaming the past.
It is about reclaiming the parts of yourself that had to hide in order to survive.

And something beautiful happens when we begin this work.

Your nervous system softens.
You respond instead of react.
You trust your intuition again.
You recognise triggers before they become storms.

But perhaps one of the most powerful shifts of all…

You begin showing up differently for your own children.

Not as a perfect parent.
But as a conscious one.

A parent who pauses.
A parent who listens.
A parent who can sit with big emotions instead of fearing them.

Because when we heal the child within us,
we create safer space for the children in front of us.

Healing doesn’t just change our lives.

It changes the emotional inheritance our children receive.

✨ The most powerful thing a parent can say to the younger parts of themselves is:

“I’ve got you now.”

And from that place of compassion…
we can finally say the same to our children.






EmotionalSafety

On one of the most powerful manifestation days that we have not experienced in close to a decade and a half for those who are manifesting the big love of your life ❤️

May you connect with someone who resonates with the essence of your being, freeing you from the need to translate the whispers of your soul into words. 🌟

Your purpose/Dharma transcends mere actions; it resides in the ripples of love, inspiration, and transformation you create in the lives of others through your deeds.

Embrace the profound beauty of impacting souls with your souls light as well as your kindness and empathy.

10 Ways to be a High Vibrational Partner

These are not limited to romantic relationships, you can show up in these way in your friendships and family relationships too h

There is magic 🪄 in the mundane.

When we do the most ordinary things we can create the most extraordinary life.

Big growth starts with little seeds, don’t underestimate the little things you do.

You are enough and you are doing better than your Inner Critic gives you credit.

Empaths will often resonate with a Love Language. ❣️

Regardless of what Love Language they may identify, Empaths love in a way that is deep and can often feel unloved and unappreciated when the world around them doesn’t quite love them as deep as they deserve.

In my experience Empaths are often forged in the fires of past trauma and this past trauma can show up in their present lives in many belief patterns one or those core beliefs is not feeling safe to receive.

So they give and give and give to a point where there is nothing left in their own cup ☕️

Here are 11 simple ways to fill an Empaths cup ☕️

If you are an Empath please comment below on what you are craving to hear from those around you?

Lean into that super power Empaths have of being super attuned to your environment and others behaviours and Feel free to spread the love ❤️ by sharing this in your life you want to hear this from or you may want to save for a time you can have an open conversation.

4/4/2024 Is a Portal Day 🌟 in the midst of an incredible eclipse 🌖 season which can feel disruptive, overwhelming and exhausting 😫 yet has a purpose of calling forward and opening opportunities 💫

We are not at the mercy of astrological events/occurrences.

In my experience astrological cycles are similar to weather we check weather forecasts to make informed decisions.

Would you plan a Summer Pool Party in the middle of winter ?❄️ Or would you take the season into account?

Most likely you would choose to plan a Summer Pool Party 🏊 in the heat of summer 🌞

As it is a portal day what can you plan/intend????