Nicky Veenvliet

Hearing is not listening.
Speaking is not communicating.

Humans listen for about seven seconds before we start formulating our own response.

We’re no longer trying to understand, we’re preparing to defend, explain, fix or prove.

And men and women often communicate differently. Women may speak to connect and process; men may listen for the problem they’re supposed to solve.

Neither is wrong, but without understanding the difference, one feels unheard while the other feels like nothing they say is right.

Real communication starts when we stop preparing our response and get curious about what the other person is actually trying to say.

Shout out if you want a copy of my communication bundle for free ♥️♥️



Day 13 Tamara Meyer Coach Tamara Meyer

“I’ve done the work so you don’t have to.”

Bulls**t.

A coach can have experience.
They can recognise the terrain.
They can help you avoid a few unnecessary faceplants.

But they cannot do your work.

Because this isn’t about following someone else’s perfectly packaged path.

It’s about having the support to find your own.
To meet your own edges.
To make your own decisions.
To remember who the fck you are.

A good coach doesn’t ask you to become them.

They help you become more of you.

Have you joined us in the drawing room yet?

The community is growing, the anticipation is growing.

Come on in for early info and access to the house once the doors open ♥️

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Last night I gave the OG members a walk through of The House of Nicky Vee🔥

The feedback is JIUCY!!!

Wanna a private viewing? Message me “VIEWING”

Born for it!

Why the f**k would be neutral and calm all the time when you can keep pushing your edges and experiencing more and more of life and what you’re capable of!?

You’re meant for more than mediocre babe!!!

Follow that feeling.

People see this confident version of me and assume I’ve always been this way.

I haven’t.

From competing, to having difficult conversations, to speaking on stages, to building a successful business…

Fear has been there every step of the way.

I just stopped letting it make the decisions.

Confidence didn’t come first.

The action did.

Ready to get past the excuses masking your fear?

Reach out. Let’s move.



Day 11 Tamara Meyer Coach Tamara Meyer

and this is why I do my challenges / resets the way I do.
These are never a simple tick and flick (I’m not capable of it)
This is about REAL awareness, REAL change, and REAL life!!

20 people started and 5 are still showing up.

THIS is why they say if it was easy everyone would do it - it’s simple, it ain’t easy but give me 30 days - meet me half way - and your life will change.

🔥♥️

Ownership
Spiritual bypassing
Social media vibes vs real life nuances

See you on the hill.



Day 10 Tamara Meyer Coach Tamara Meyer

Grateful for the s**t times.

Not because I enjoy chaos, I’m evolved, not deranged.

But because I know there’s always more happening than what I can see in the moment.

It’s part of the story.

And you get to trust the woman writing the next chapter. ♥️



Day 9 Tamara Meyer Coach Tamara Meyer