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Competitions and tension - how do you anchor your horse back to you and make it a good experience for you both?
13/09/2026

Competitions and tension - how do you anchor your horse back to you and make it a good experience for you both?

What Really Falls Apart in a Dressage Test🔥

Today I spent several hours pencilling tests at one of my favourite dressage clubs, watching horse after horse make its way around the arena.

Beside me, the judge was assessing the performance in front of her and I was busily writing down comments about needing more bend, counter-flexion, relaxing into the contact, being more forward, rushing, needing more engagement behind and losing balance.

All perfectly reasonable observations. But sitting beside her, I was watching something else as well.

I was watching varying degrees of what I think of as "pressure-cooker coping".

I was watching horses managing different levels of tension, soundness and physical capacity. I could see natural asymmetries becoming more pronounced as tension increased. I was watching riders managing their own tension, balance and decision-making while their horses tried to process an unfamiliar environment and simultaneously respond to the person on their back.

Sometimes the pressure would build until the horse hovered near that tipping point, caught between the rider trying to contain them and every cell in their body screaming to get out of there. 🫣

And yet this is exactly why I think a dressage test can be such a brilliant stress test of your training.

At home, your horse might maintain rhythm, bend correctly, transition smoothly and work into a lovely contact. Then you put the horse on a float and take it somewhere else, where there are unfamiliar horses, warm-up traffic, announcements, spectators and, in today's case, people casually walking their dogs while somebody's horse attempts to remember the finer points of a 20-metre circle.😎

The horse's attention becomes divided, arousal rises and the body changes.

Tension then does what tension is very good at - it makes a caricature of the horse that is already there.😎

The slightly stiff side becomes stiffer. The weaker hindleg becomes more obvious. The slightly fragile transition becomes rushed. A small balance problem becomes considerably larger. The horse doesn't necessarily develop a collection of exciting new problems at the competition. The pressure simply magnifies the vulnerabilities that were already there.

That means competition shows us which parts of our training and the horse's gymnastic development remain available when the pressure goes up. That is incredibly valuable information.🙏

The problem is that we can accidentally turn up the heat ourselves. 🔥

The rider feels the horse deteriorating and understandably tries to fix what is happening. The horse counter-flexes, so there is more rein. The horse loses bend, so there is more leg. The horse rushes, so there is more holding. The horse comes above the contact, so the rider works harder to put everything back where it belongs.😕

Meanwhile, the horse is essentially thinking, "I was already finding this difficult and you appear to have chosen this exact moment to become considerably more complicated".😱

Tension changes movement, the movement deteriorates, the rider applies more correction, the horse becomes more tense and the movement deteriorates further.

Welcome to the pressure cooker.🫠

Interestingly, the riders who handled these moments best didn't try to renovate the entire horse between K and A. They looked up, rode their line, kept quietly guiding and made sensible decisions. Most importantly, they gave the horse something familiar to come back to.

And this is the training underneath the performance.

You cannot prepare a horse for competition by trying to prevent tension. You prepare them by teaching them to stay connected and responsive as the pressure rises, and, just as importantly, how to find their way back to you when tension momentarily pulls them away.💚

This is something I spend an enormous amount of time developing in horses and riders. We need anchors: familiar, well-practised responses and grounding exercises that reconnect the horse to the rider, help loosen the body and allow the horse to reorganise and become available to the aids again.

Those anchors need to be trained before you need them. Competition day is not the ideal moment to introduce your horse to your brilliant new grounding exercise while they are already struggling.😕

The horse needs to know the exercises and the responses need to be reliable. Just as importantly, the rider needs to recognise tension early, understand how it changes their particular horse and know which decisions are likely to diffuse the situation rather than simply correcting whatever symptom has appeared.

That is know-how, and it is absolutely learnable. It is at the heart of my work because when you understand how to recognise tension, make good decisions and bring your horse back to you, so much of everything else starts to flow. The performance becomes the result of the training underneath it, rather than something you are desperately trying to manufacture in the moment.

So when your judge writes "needs more bend', don't automatically go home determined to manufacture more bend. Ask yourself why the bend disappeared. What happened as tension increased? Which asymmetry became exaggerated? What happened to rhythm, balance and contact? When did your horse become less available to you?🤓

Then ask the most useful question of all:

Do I know how to diffuse tension and anchor my horse back to me?🤔

Your dressage test isn't merely a report card on what happened between A and C. It is showing you how robust the training underneath your performance really is.

And that gives you something incredibly useful to train.

Don't just practice the test. You practice the travel, the arrival, the warm-up, the exposure, the ability to anchor them back to you.

Collectable Advice 291/365. SHARE this with anyone who has ever experienced the "pressure cooker coping".😆

P.S Project Reboot is all about this know-how❤

A story from Stephen Forbes of Solo Equine - words for us all to think about:Besides dressage, I love to run. For years,...
05/09/2026

A story from Stephen Forbes of Solo Equine - words for us all to think about:

Besides dressage, I love to run. For years, I ran on asphalt. Pavement is a polite surface, the grades are gentle, predictable, engineered to let you get away with a certain amount of physical ignorance.
But every time my left foot struck a downhill slope, my knee locked straight. It wasn't a catastrophic failure, just a small error, done on every downhill. With every locked footfall, the impact had nowhere to go but up, through the shin, into the hip, settling deep in the SI joint, where it would sit for the rest of the day.
I knew the ache. You live with a settling foundation long enough, you stop hearing the wood groan. I assumed it was just my body wearing out the way bodies do.
Recently though, I traded pavement for trails, and the backcountry doesn't care about your illusions. I've been doing far more downhill work than years of road miles ever asked of me. And somewhere on a rough descent yesterday, without any conscious thought, my body finally mutinied against years of my bad habit.
On a steep decline, my left knee softened and bent slightly at the landing. The ache simply vanished.
No coach shouted a cue. No manual unlocked the mystery. It took years of the same wrong repetition before the correction arrived on its own, uninvited, on a random Thursday run.
Training dressage horses for a living, I spend my days projecting an aura of calculated patience. Give the animal time. Let them find the movement. But yesterday's descent laid bare something sharper than that. I couldn't have been taught to bend that knee. I had to log the miles of wrong reps before the right one finally clicked from the inside.
I wonder how much of what I call patience in the saddle isn't generosity at all, but an acknowledgment of a heavier truth: a horse has to work through its own puzzle, fumbling through the wrong balance until its body untangles the movement on its own terms. We ask for tremendous collection, for suspension, for lateral reach, and our horses have to physically experiment with getting it wrong before the mechanics of a movment make sense to its own bones. They need the space and time to fumble.
My SI joint feels good this morning. It took years and one bent knee to get here. Walking down the barn aisle, I look at the faces looking back at me, and I have to wonder how many of them I've been rushing. 🦄

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There is a principle in quantum physics called the observer effect. It states that the act of observing a particle changes its behavior. The particle, when unobserved, exists in a state of pure potential, simultaneously everything it could be. The moment someone looks at it, it collapses into a single, definite, and frequently disappointing state.

I am that particle.
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For the past several weeks I have been riding Fhil, my six year old, large, enthusiastic, profoundly unbothered warmblood, and I have felt, in the privacy of my own arena, like Carl Hester. Not Carl Hester on a difficult day. Carl Hester on his best day.

The transitions were fluid. The connection was solid. There were moments, I am not exaggerating, where Fhil and I were simply the same creature moving through space with a shared intention, and I thought: this is it. This is what they meant. I have arrived.

I had not arrived.

I had simply not yet been observed.
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Last week Kyla came to watch me ride.

She is not a judge, but she is something so much worse, she is the person who bred Fhil. She made him. She knows exactly what he's capable of. And she came out to watch me demonstrate that I am not.

She sat on the bench.

That's all she did. She sat and watched.

And Fhil, who moments before had been a willing, swinging, genuinely lovely horse, immediately became a different animal entirely. Not because Fhil changed. Because I changed. Because somewhere between Kyla sitting down and raising her eyes to watch, Carl Hester quietly left my body and was replaced by something I can only describe as a beached whale attempting to ride a camel.

The camel was also confused.
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The connection I had spent weeks carefully crafting dissolved in approximately four seconds. My position, which had been quietly excellent, relocated itself to somewhere north of correct and south of embarrassing. My seat, which had been soft and following, remembered that it was attached to a person being watched and began to tense and tighten like that time I ate Bolivian street food.

Fhil, to his eternal credit, did his best.

He is six. He deserved better.
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Kyla said nothing for a long time.

Then she said: "You looked really good before I got here."

She meant it kindly. This is the worst kind of meant it kindly. Because what she was actually saying, what we both knew she was saying, was: I have now seen the thing you become when someone is watching, and it is not the thing you described to me when we talk about Fhil.

I mustered up one more circle.

It was not better.

I brought Fhil to the halt and we stood there together, two beings united in the shared experience of having just been observed, and I thought about quantum physics and collapsing particles and the specific cruelty of potential versus reality.

Fhil thought about lunch.
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I have since ridden Fhil four more times without an audience.

Carl Hester has returned.

He is very good. You should see him sometime.

Just don't come watch.

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