Untangle Your Purpose

What if one of the greatest acts of self-love isn't becoming someone different...

..but learning to see yourself with the same compassion and generosity that you so naturally extend to everyone else?

This week, while reflecting on my work and preparing a presentation, I found myself asking a question I hadn't expected.

Why was it so easy for me to recognise the value, worth and extraordinary gifts in the people sitting opposite me...

..yet so much harder to recognise them in myself?

That single question led me to one of the most profound lessons my own School of Love has ever taught me.

It reminded me that understanding ourselves changes something.

When we begin to understand ourselves more deeply, something quietly shifts.

We begin to recognise ourselves more clearly.

From that place, trusting ourselves becomes easier.

And the choices we make begin to feel more like our own.

In this week's blog, I share that very personal moment of learning, along with what the School of Love has continued to teach me after all these years.

If you've ever found it easier to see the goodness in everyone else than in yourself, this reflection may resonate with you.

Read the full blog here:

The Self-Love Journey: Is it really about bubble baths and weekends away? | Untangle Your Purpose Self-love.It is a phrase we hear everywhere.Bubble baths.Retreats.Time out for yourself.Positive affirmations in the mirror.And while there is absolutely nothing wrong with any of these things—and many of them can be wonderful experiences—but is this really what self-love is?My own journey sugge...

“What if the greatest contribution you could make to the world isn't becoming someone better”

..but understanding who you already are?

I recently attended a leadership programme that left me reflecting on just how powerful it is when people truly recognise and inhabit their own unique gifts.

When that happens, comparison fades.
Authenticity naturally emerges.
And the people around them are uplifted by it.

I explore this idea in my latest blog and why I believe self-understanding is the foundation for authentic leadership, meaningful relationships and a fulfilling life.

Read the blog here: https://untangleyourpurpose.com.au/what-more-could-you-contribute-to-the-world-if-you-truly-understood-yourself/

— Doone

What More Could You Contribute to the World If You Truly Understood Yourself? | Untangle Your Purpose The more we understand ourselves, the more fully we can contribute – ourselves.It’s a simple thought, yet one that has stayed with me following a recent leadership programme I attended.Every person invited had one thing in common.Each possessed natural leadership gifts revealed through the marki...

There is a moment between what happens to us and how we automatically respond.

A fleeting pause.
A flicker of time.

So subtle that most of us miss it completely.
The switch flicks.
The emotional pattern activates.
The reaction begins.

And before we know it, we are swept away by old thoughts, old feelings, and old ways of responding.

But what if this tiny pause held something extraordinary?
What if within this moment lived possibility?

The possibility to choose.
The possibility to consciously create more of what we want for our lives.

In my latest blog, I explore how recognising this moment can change the way we navigate our lives, not through a grand overhaul, but through small, intentional choices
made one moment at a time.

Read the full article here:
https://untangleyourpurpose.com.au/recognise-the-moment-and-meet-possibility/

— Doone

Recognise the Moment and Meet Possibility | Untangle Your Purpose Misalignment isn’t failure - it’s a red flag. Discover how to spot it, why it matters, and how alignment brings clarity, fulfilment, and confidence.

Facebook Post – What Happens When The Switch Flicks?
One moment you are fine.

The next, you're not.

Most of us know exactly what this feels like.

A comment.
A look.
A phone call.
A text message.
Someone disagrees with us.
Someone doesn't respond.

And suddenly something changes.

The switch flicks.

The confident version of us disappears and another version takes over.

We begin overthinking.
Doubting ourselves.
Withdrawing.
People-pleasing.
Becoming defensive.
Feeling not good enough.

The interesting thing is that most of us don't even realise it has happened.

Instead, we simply believe the thoughts, feelings, and stories that follow.

I wrote about this phenomenon in my latest blog:

What Happens When The Switch Flicks?

https://untangleyourpurpose.com.au/what-happens-when-the-switch-flicks/

You may recognise more of yourself in it than you expect.

— Doone

What Happens When The Switch Flicks? | Untangle Your Purpose Misalignment isn’t failure - it’s a red flag. Discover how to spot it, why it matters, and how alignment brings clarity, fulfilment, and confidence.

There is something I have come to understand very deeply through both my own life experience and through the work I do with clients:

The area of greatest resistance within us is never random.

What we resist most strongly is often the exact place where life is asking us to pay
attention.

Our resistance can show up in so many different ways.
Procrastination.
Avoidance.
Deflection.
Humour.
Anger.
Self-doubt.
Fear of visibility.
Fear of failure.
Feeling “not enough.”

And often these reactions happen so quickly and automatically that we do not even consciously realise what is happening within us.

But what if these patterns are not showing up to punish us?

What if they are actually carrying important information about the exact area where our growth, fulfilment, freedom, and self-understanding are waiting?

I wrote more about this in my latest blog:
https://untangleyourpurpose.com.au/your-resistance-is-your-way-forward/

Know Yourself — Trust Yourself — Be Yourself

Your Resistance Is Your Way Forward | Untangle Your Purpose Misalignment isn’t failure - it’s a red flag. Discover how to spot it, why it matters, and how alignment brings clarity, fulfilment, and confidence.

Rudi's Place

This is a shout out to all past and present Untangle Your Purpose/Doone clients in the Esk region - Hello to you all.

I will be back at Rudi's Place again this coming Wednesday, May 13 - not all available spots have been filled so I would like to offer you something --- I have been undertaking a certification course in something called the Superconscious Transformation Method and now need willing people to practice on.
This method is a beautifully gentle transformation technique that enables people to move beyond the stuck, resistance that lives in the subconscious and release it.
When our life lesson is triggered we are immediately under the spell of old emotional patterns that resurface from our subconscious. These emotional patterns take over and we quite literally become engulfed in a resistance pattern be it - procrastination/avoidance; feeling stuck; self sabotage; imposter syndrome; paralyzing fear; guilt, shame; overwhelming self doubt; unworthiness; FEAR, and the list goes on.

So as not to get too bogged down in the theory and details - I would like to offer FREE OF CHARGE - to two past clients a one hour session with me to experience the benefits of this transformation method as I am learning and practicing.

I myself have been on the receiving end of this method as we have been practicing with fellow students and I will say that layers of resistance within me, deep seated life lesson unworthiness is being gently shifted. It is like experiencing a gentle system upgrade, just like we do with all of our technological devices. We too require system upgrades and this technique offers the way.

Please contact me via text - 0402 120 388 to reserve your spot.
Times available are -
1PM - 2PM and 2Pm - 3PM this Wednesday, May 13

No charge to you, just a willingness to be present.

I look forward to hearing from two willing participants.

Blessings, Doone

This Anzac Day we pause to remember every soldier who stood between us and darkness.
Their sacrifice will never be forgotten.

This Wednesday, March 11 - Doone from Untangle Your Purpose will be back at Rudi's Place in Esk offering hand analysis sessions.

There are a few spots still available. Please text Doone on 0402 120 388 to book your place.

Hand Analysis can assist you if you have a deep desire for self-awareness and interest in discovering your true purpose in this lifetime.
Armed with a deeper understanding of who you are, your purpose and lessons in this life gives you the chance to experience more fulfillment, more joy, more love and more from your life.

We all need reminding of who we are at our core, what constitutes our unique essence, so that we can realign ourselves with this.

So many people are going through the motions of their life
completely unaware that within their hands is a map that holds the key to unlocking our relationship with ourselves.

When your physical body is out of alignment, we don't question going to see a practitioner who does some form of body work that can put our physical body back into correct alignment.

Hand Analysis is akin to helping us put our emotional/spiritual/mental body back into alignment.
Our physical body is the car we drive in our life, our spiritual/emotional body determines where we want to go and how to get there.

So if you are in need of a realignment, tune up or are just simply stuck and lost in your life. Hand Analysis offers clarity, understanding and can help you get back on the path that is yours to travel.

Wednesday, March 11 -Rudi's Place in Esk there are still spots available.

Just a side note - for those who have already experienced hand analysis - revisiting your soul psychology every now and then is highly beneficial. We are creatures of habit and often very quickly fall back into our patterns and ways of living. To be reminded of who you are every now and again is beneficial.
I know from personal experience, the parts of me that were difficult to see have taken me many years of being reminded.

It is only when we actually can see it can we begin to change it.

Blessings, Doone

The Somerset Health Expo - A BIG THANK YOU to Ruth and Emily and their family members who also gave generously of their time yesterday. The Civic Centre was filled with good vibes and uplifting energy while the rain gently fell outside. I am sure I am not alone when I say that the huge amount of work that goes into putting something like this together is greatly appreciated by all of us.

THREE CHEERS TO EVERYONE for making it such a rewarding, heartfelt day.

( and once again I forgot to take photos of my stand :(..