Counselling Your Way

We have moved into our new counselling space at 517, Main Rd Eltham.
Banksy our therapy dog in training, not only blends into the rug but gives it the paws up!

Becoming a "Glimmer spotter" is such an important part of having regulated nervous systems

Self compassion is so important!

Self-compassion is a powerful practice that can transform how we relate to ourselves. Here are six simple yet profound ways to bring more kindness and care into your life:
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1️⃣ Ask yourself, 'What do I need?': Pause for a moment and check in. Do you need rest, reassurance, movement, or connection? Listening to yourself with curiosity and care is a powerful act of self-compassion.
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2️⃣ Treat Yourself Like a Friend: Speak to yourself with the same kindness and understanding you’d offer a dear friend.
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3️⃣ Supportive Touch: A gentle hand on your heart or a comforting self-hug can soothe and ground you in moments of distress.
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4️⃣ Write a Self-Compassionate Letter: Put pen to paper and offer yourself words of comfort and encouragement, just as you would to someone you love.
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5️⃣ Remember You Aren’t Alone: It’s important to acknowledge that we all face challenges—this imperfection is what makes us human.
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6️⃣ Use a Warm Inner Tone of Voice: Try to adopt a gentle tone with yourself, especially when things go wrong. Practice patience, understanding, and warmth toward yourself.
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🌸 Have you tried any of these self-compassion practices? Share your favorite one below!
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When I think of my favourite quotes, this one from Leonard Cohen is generally close to the top of the list.

How often do we keep pushing through without paying attention?