30/09/2026
The Art of Letting Go
We hear a lot about when and how to apply the aids, but…
Any aid, no matter how well applied, is only ever as good as the release that follows it.”
The real art of riding or working with horses lies in knowing when to let go.
Classical masters called it feel or tact.
“Make it a habit to praise when the horse yields.” — Nuno Oliveira
Modern learning theory calls it reinforcement, but the principle is the same. The horse learns from the release.
“The removal of any pressure reinforces the behaviour immediately before the removal.” — Andrew McLean
An effective rider achieves consistency and partnership not by constantly applying pressure, but by clearly telling the horse when he has found the right answer.
The challenge is that even the best trainer in the world cannot tell you the exact moment to soften. They can tell you when you should have released, but as riders we must learn to feel the split second the horse yields and accepts what we are asking. Even the beginning of what we are asking!
But there is an even greater challenge, one which requires great body awareness on the part of the rider. Are you actually releasing?
A softened rein with a tight seat is not a release.
A yielding hand with a gripping leg is not a release.
A reward only works if the horse can feel it, and I would say that the biggest mistake the vast majority of riders make is confusing the horse by simply not understanding that their release is either not quick enough, or not a true release.
There is an art to letting go.
It really doesn’t matter how well you are applying the aid if you are not releasing it on time, and with the tact and awareness of what constitutes a true release.
Have you mastered The Art of Letting Go?
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