09/15/2026
Sometimes, women can be awful to women.
I’ve seen it.
I’ve lived it.
I’ve probably been on both sides. The good and the not so good.
But here’s the truth.
Most women want to help each other.
Most women get to where they’re going because someone, somewhere reached out and said, “Hey—it’s going to be OK, you can do this. I’ll help you. Come on, grab my hand. You’ve got this.”
And they did that, because someone, somewhere did the same for them.
Listen, I know this world is a mess. And sometimes, we have to put up boundaries to protect ourselves from people who just, well, aren’t our people.
But I refuse to listen to the lies that say…
Women are jealous.
Women are catty.
Women won’t help women.
Because although I’ve seen the worst, I’ve also seen the best.
And the best helped me get through some tough stuff.
I hope you’ve experienced the same.
But if you haven’t, here’s what I need you to know.
It’s going to be OK. You can do this. Keep going. You can sit with me. Even if we don’t agree. Even if you believe in purple dinosaurs and I believe in green ones. Even if you voted differently than me. Even if our kids aren’t friends. Even if, even then, even when.
I am happy for your success.
There’s room for all of us.
We don’t have to be best friends to be respectful to each other.
We don’t have to think the same way, or do the same things.
I’m not going to close my circle just because we aren’t the same.
I hope you won’t either.
And if we do that, I think, I hope, I pray—the path to where we’re going will be a little bit easier.
Women helping women. I'll always believe we're better...together.
