Certified Wayfinder Life Coach, Equus Coach Master Facilitator®, SHE RECOVERS® Coach. Are you struggling with over-drinking? I've been right where you are.
I am passionate about recovering out loud, smashing the stigma and helping women face difficult life challenges with courage, compassion and connection. I help women change their relationship with alcohol so thay can feel better and create their own amazing outlook on life. You're not alone. Sometimes life gets hard. Really hard. If you want to drink when…
**Life gets hard - you know, sh*t hits th
e fan
**Life gets fun - can’t celebrate without a drink in your hand
**You don’t want to feel every damn feeling
**The kids are driving you nuts
**Your husband is critical of you
**Your boss yells at you
**You have no peace and quiet
That's when your resolve wavers. And even if you swore you wouldn't drink today, you do. You don't know any other way to cope with life. I'm so committed to supporting women like you. I've faced alcohol abuse, cancer and have not only survived but have thrived, not inspite of these things, but because of them. I transformed my life and trained as a life coach who helps women change their relationship with alcohol so they can thrive again. Because when you are worried about your drinking, you deserve to
have a safe space to express your fears, without judgment and shame. When you work with me you'll learn effective tools to help you cope, so you don't have to drink. With Equus Coaching, when you step into a round pen with a horse, you will discover your authentic self. This work is done on the ground, no riding is involved. No horse experience required. My coaching is confidential and compassionate, allowing you a safe space for discovery. We'll work as a team to uncover what is behind your thoughts and work on your underlying beliefs and behaviors. This is the one life you've got. Are you ready to grow? Now is the time to take the first step, to explore your thoughts and beliefs about your drinking, identify the ones that are holding you back and change them so that you can create an amazing outlook for your own life. You are worth this work. About me…
When I started questioning my drinking, I desperately wanted to know that I wasn’t alone. I needed a support structure when I first began to notice that my drinking was getting out of control, but I wasn’t ready to quit drinking. If I had a coach guiding me through what I now know were limiting thoughts and beliefs about my drinking and my life, I may not have had to hit my rock bottom. Friday the 13th of March, 2009 was a really bad day, which pretty much ended with a bang. Thank God my lack of skills with a gun prevented me from killing myself. I realized that my drinking had become unpredictable. I thought my life was over and I would never have fun again. What I soon learned was I was standing at the intersection of desperation and grace. In 2015, on my 58th birthday I was diagnosed with Stage 1C ovarian cancer. During chemo, I lost my hair but I found something so much more important – my inner strength. My perspective changed and I realized that if I wanted something different in my life it was up to me to make the necessary changes. My mantra became "I didn't get sober and survive cancer to be miserable." I began training for my new career in 2017. I’m a Certified Wayfinder Life Coach through Martha Beck, Inc., a Certified Equus Coach® through Koelle Institute for Equus Coaching®, as well as a Certified Mind-Body-Eating Coach through The Institute for the Psychology of Eating. These intensive training programs have given me the tools to effectively and compassionately help women face their challenges. I partner with my clients to bring transformational change to their lives. Dragonflies represent spiritual growth through change and transformation. Those who identify with the dragonfly often possess many unique abilities, and often bring change to their immediate worlds and far beyond. I want to help women globally transform their lives by really examining their thoughts and beliefs. Many women are conditioned to believe things that are simply not true. My clients become aware of how their thoughts affect their lives. If we're not conscious of our negative thoughts, we are imprisoned by them. Let the power of the dragonfly inspire your transformation! Because of all the challenges and changes that I've been through, you can see why the dragonfly resonates with me so much. My experience with alcohol and cancer, together with the valuable training I've received, gives me the expertise, compassion and skill to guide my clients on their journey of exploration and empowerment. My mantra is, I didn't get sober and survive cancer to be miserable. I have found my voice, sometimes to my husband's chagrin! I'm a feisty Irish/Scottish woman of a certain age who has the tendency to talk like a sailor (I used to drink like one.) I’m a proud feminist who believes in equal rights for all. I wear a bracelet that states “Wake Up-Kick Ass-Repeat” which I try to live up to. Most days I do, sometimes I don’t. But that’s life—one step at a time. Progress not perfection. I love hanging out with my husband Jimmy, and our two rescued Westies, Maggie and Tommy. Are you ready to transform your life? One of the things I've learned over the years is that it's really easy to get “stuck in the f**king muck.” And, if you are able to change your thoughts, you can get out of said muck. This has happened to me time and time again. As long as I do the work and get out of my head, I'm so much better off. I can change my story. I can teach you exactly how to do this. I help women everyday overcome unhealthy beliefs, habits, behaviors and addictions by learning how to get out of their own f**king way. I can help you change your story, too. If you're struggling with over-drinking, you're not alone. For instance, research shows that alcohol use and misuse especially among women is on the rise. Drinking has become so much a part of the female code we aren’t even aware of how prevalent it is, or the damage it’s creating. So many of us hesitate to acknowledge that we struggle with alcohol because we're afraid of being judged. After working with me you will identify your personal goals and you'll be using the tools and strategies that I've taught you. You can make a DECISION to change your behavior (or not), and love the reason for doing so. You can finally stop stressing out over how to move forward in your life so that you can feel greater joy, happiness and freedom in your life every day. You are worth this work and I believe in you! Day One or One Day...it's up to you. Life Coaching…
I work with each client to identify their personal goals and explore your relationship with yourself. I will teach you my favorite tools and strategies to cope with life's challenges differently. Utilizing these tools and strategies will give you a deeper understanding of why you do what you do. You'll be able to make DECISIONS, and love the reasons why you made them. You will finally stop stressing out over how to move forward. You will feel greater confidence, joy and freedom. Equus Coaching®
This is great for someone who wants a unique experience that offers the opportunity to gain a deep understanding of how their inner dialog affects their relationships and everyday life. Horses rely on having a “connection” to other herd members and the humans around them – this connection only becomes available when the human is centered, focused, and free from the often-incessant chatter in our minds. The exercise of quieting the mind, accepting peaceful focus, and allowing an upwelling of instinct and emotion is actively, physically confirmed by the horse. Once connection is established, a world of opportunity for introspection, validation and self-acceptance opens up. It is a transformational experience and it can be great fun. Currently, these sessions are held only in Colorado, but are well worth designing your vacation around! Amazing Outlook Coaching, LLC [email protected]
(303) 437-3698 https://amazingoutlookcoaching.com/
One day with six women and horses that tell the truth.
Half Moon Ranch in Castle Rock, Colorado.
If you've been reading these posts and something keeps nudging you, that nudge is worth a conversation.
Limited spots available.
Reply here or send me a message, and we'll figure out together whether this is the right fit for you.
After midnight, the next opportunity is August 1.
When you spend this day with the horses and me, you'll walk away knowing what's been holding you back, and what to do about it, starting the moment you leave.
06/10/2026
I want to share this again because it deserves to be seen more than once.
At the end of the session, my client said, "Because of working with you and the horses today, I was finally able to admit that my emotions and behaviors were not serving me. It was transformative."
Her word, not mine. And honestly, transformative has been so overused that I almost hesitate to let it stand. But when a client says it to your face after a session, you take her at her word.
This is what happens at The BRAVE Immersion.
One day with six women and horses that tell the truth.
𝗝𝘂𝗻𝗲 𝟮𝟬 | 𝗔𝘂𝗴𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝟭 | 𝗢𝗰𝘁𝗼𝗯𝗲𝗿 𝟯
Six spots per date.
June 20 is almost full, and registration closes on Friday, the 12th, at midnight.
Half Moon Ranch | Castle Rock, CO
DM me the word BRAVE, and I'll send you everything you need to know.
06/08/2026
Something I keep coming back to, no matter how many times I see it, almost every woman I work with has already tried a lot of things. Therapy, journaling, the podcast rabbit holes, and habit stacking. And something is still not shifting the way she hoped.
Usually, it's because the thing driving the pattern lives in the body, and talking about it only goes so far.
The BRAVE Immersion is a one-day experience designed to get you out of your head and into something real. A small group of women, horses that give you feedback you can actually feel, and enough space to finally hear your own truth.
𝗝𝘂𝗻𝗲 𝟮𝟬 | 𝗔𝘂𝗴𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝟭 | 𝗢𝗰𝘁𝗼𝗯𝗲𝗿 𝟯
Six spots per date. June is almost full, and registration closes at midnight on Friday, June 12.
Half Moon Ranch | Castle Rock, CO.
DM me the word BRAVE, and I'll send you the details.
06/07/2026
Woo-Hoo! My book is in a gift shop!!
The BRAVE Recovery Method™ just landed at The Retreat Ranch in Marble Falls, Texas, and honestly, I'm tickled pink and more than a little proud. Tucked right in with Shannon Jamail, Dora Rankin, and Erin Haag — women who know what the f**k they're doing and aren't one bit shy about it.
If you find yourself at The Retreat Ranch, check it out. It's earned its spot on that table.
🐴 womenempoweredrecovery.com
06/05/2026
You'll leave this day knowing exactly what's been holding you back, and what to do about it.
You’ve been trying to figure out what’s been blocking you for a while now.
You’ve thought about it, talked about it, journaled about it. And you’re still in the same place.
The answer isn’t more thinking. It’s a mirror you can’t talk yourself out of.
That’s what this day is.
One day with six women and horses that tell the truth.
Three dates in 2026: June 20, August 1, October 3
𝙊𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙖 𝙛𝙚𝙬 𝙨𝙥𝙤𝙩𝙨 𝙡𝙚𝙛𝙩 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙅𝙪𝙣𝙚 𝟮𝟬.
Half Moon Ranch | Castle Rock, CO | Six women each date
Link in comments or DM me BRAVE for details.
06/03/2026
"Nancy's gifts as a coach are powerful and transformative."
There's that word again. I've made peace with it, because when multiple clients use the same word independently, that's not marketing language anymore. That's just the truth.
This is what a day with the horses actually feels like. A sense of calm exploration. A natural flow. Something that works at a level most people aren't expecting.
Three dates remaining in 2026: June 20, August 1, and October 3
Six women each date. The June date is filling up fast; only a few spots remain.
Half Moon Ranch | Castle Rock, Colorado.
DM me the word BRAVE and I'll send you everything you need to know.
06/01/2026
"I'd never been in an arena alone with a horse completely loose. I'm a 57-year-old woman who hadn't ridden in over 26 years.
Nancy asked what it stirred in me when Einstein kept pausing to gaze into the distance. My answer was immediate: 'I feel like he's looking at the freedom on the horizon.'
Nancy asked quietly: 'Are you looking for that kind of freedom and peace?'
I remember holding back tears.
Einstein raised his head, neighed loudly, and swept in front of me as if in answer. Yes. I was on the right path.
Equus Coaching with Nancy McKay is an experience I truly believe everyone should try at least once. It's not just about interacting with horses. It's about unlocking something profound within yourself."
~ 𝘙𝘰𝘣𝘪𝘯 𝘚𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘴, 𝘛𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘭𝘦𝘥 𝘚𝘪𝘭𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘔𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘻𝘪𝘯𝘦
If this stirred something in you, the BRAVE Immersion is June 20 in Castle Rock, Colorado. A few spots remain. Registration closes June 12 at midnight. Link in comments.
05/30/2026
A thousand-pound animal doesn't care about your coping strategies. It responds to your nervous system, your boundaries, your actual presence in the moment.
Which makes one day with them more revealing than most people expect. And more useful than another workshop where you take great notes and then go home to the same life.
When you spend the day with the horses and me, you'll walk away knowing something about yourself that you haven't been able to reach on your own, so that you can show up as that woman every day, starting the moment you leave.
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗕𝗥𝗔𝗩𝗘 𝗜𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻
𝗝𝘂𝗻𝗲 𝟮𝟬 | 𝗔𝘂𝗴𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝟭 | 𝗢𝗰𝘁𝗼𝗯𝗲𝗿 𝟯
Six spots per date.
Half Moon Ranch | Castle Rock, CO
Six spots. Link in comments.
05/29/2026
At the end of the session, my client said, "Because of working with you and the horses today, I was finally able to admit that my emotions and behaviors were not serving me. It was transformative."
Her word, not mine. And honestly, transformative has been so overused that I almost hesitate to let it stand. But when a client says it to your face after a session, you take her at her word.
This is what happens at The BRAVE Immersion.
One day with six women and horses that tell the truth.
𝗝𝘂𝗻𝗲 𝟮𝟬 | 𝗔𝘂𝗴𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝟭 | 𝗢𝗰𝘁𝗼𝗯𝗲𝗿 𝟯
Six spots per date.
Half Moon Ranch | Castle Rock, CO
DM me the word BRAVE, and I'll send you everything you need to know.
05/25/2026
You want to honor our fallen heroes?
Then defend the democracy they gave their lives to protect. They didn't fight fascism abroad just for us to roll out the welcome mat for it at home.
This Memorial Day, we honor the brave by protecting what they actually died for: democracy.
Full stop.
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