ruthsmarriage

Marriages are collapsing because there’s so much advice that lacks context and wisdom.

There are so many people speaking about relationship and marriages that are only speaking from their own perspective. Those perspectives could be from a place of hurt, privilege, trauma, or shear generic knowledge

Be careful what advice or words you are basing your marriage on. Someone may be a popular influencer or even have a way with words but not necessarily have the right wisdom for your marriage.

There are things I will say to couple A and I will not say to couple B in my private sessions; because the dynamics of couple A’s marriage is different.

Yes there are baseline common knowledge of what is good and bad that we all have but that baseline is usually the least of most relationship dynamics.

Hopefully this message reaches the people who need to hear it ❤️

📌 You don’t need to settle for an intimate marriage that feels routine, disconnected or confusing. You can learn the skills to build one that’s deeply connected, genuinely pleasurable and something you both look forward to.


🔥 Wives: Become a Baddie Wife → My Baddie in Bed
❤️ Husband and Wife: Build an Intimate & S*x Life you both crave together → The Love Playbook

Link in bio to both.

I remember very early in our marriage, I always tried to be good in bed and ended up becoming so focused on my performance that I lost touch with myself, this happens to many couples. We must understand that intimacy is not performance, it’s about being present and being able to receive and give without pressure

When you start viewing s*x as something you should experience and enjoy and not something you should perform, that reframing does a lot of good for your relationship. Our resources goes deeper:

🔥 Wives: Become a Baddie Wife → My Baddie in Bed
❤️ Husband and Wife: Build an Intimate & S*x Life you both crave together → The Love Playbook

Link in bio to both.

Infidelity doesn’t always mean a secret lover. As a marriage therapist, I’ve seen many marriages suffer not because of a human affair but because of these things I listed on the slides

Sometimes, an “affair” is just anything that steals the touch, desire, connection and intimacy that belongs to your spouse. It starts small and remains continuous

Over time, you stop being lovers and start feeling like roommates. A passionate marriage requires protecting your connection from daily distractions.

Which one is your marriage suffering from ? Let’s discuss

📌 If this is your marriage, I will strongly recommend one of our bestsellers, The 28 Days Lovers Again Challenge. It’s a daily, doable intentional program to move your from roommate zone to falling back in love.

It’s linked in bio.

Another weekend reminder❤️

Our resources are designed to help you understand desire, pleasure and enjoy your secx and intimate life. You may want to check them out…

🔥 Wives: Become a Baddie Wife → My Baddie in Bed
❤️ Husband and Wife: Build an Intimate & S*x Life you both crave together → The Love Playbook

Link in bio to both.