13/07/2026
Absolutely!!!
These are the issues. 🤦🏾♂️
Let them pay your dowry and marry you proper before they sleep with you.
You have people. You have family.
We were formerly Jewels and Pearls Ladies but we have evolved to BOYDI.
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Counselling Psychologist| Youth & Family Development Specialist| Working with students, parents, fathers, and institutions to strengthen emotional well being and future readiness. Jewels Foundation is a non profit foundation targeted at young ladies in higher institutions to reorientate their minds on the issues of life through the teaching of Gods word with Pratical examples.
13/07/2026
Absolutely!!!
These are the issues. 🤦🏾♂️
Let them pay your dowry and marry you proper before they sleep with you.
You have people. You have family.
13/07/2026
I watched the interview hosted by Ify's kitchen on YouTube where she interviewed Charles Born.
Listening to his story about his father, reinforced what we have said on this page repeatedly.
A father's role is too critical to be treated casually.
See how his father's reactions and actions still breaks him years after that experience.
It is so sad how some men treated their children poorly and so strictly that the children grow up not wanting to have anything to do with them.
There is no trophy for being a father who bullied his children, treated one child better than the other, or constantly beat them to pulp.
Be a father whose children would want his opinion on a business idea, choice of a spouse, or even location.
Be a conversational father not an oppressor!
Even if the child is not yours, father them well.
We pray that Charles continues to heal emotionally and becomes a great father to his own children in the future.
Dr. Blessing Onwuamah
Father Presence Advocate
13/07/2026
Day 13: I will celebrate my children's progress.
Encouragement helps children believe they can keep growing.
These confessions are designed to help fathers reflect, grow, heal, and intentionally strengthen their relationships with their teenagers and adult children.
Dr. Blessing Onwuamah
Father Presence Advocate
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13/07/2026
Day 12: I choose gentleness in my words.
A calm voice often reaches the heart more effectively than anger.
These confessions are designed to help fathers reflect, grow, heal, and intentionally strengthen their relationships with their teenagers and adult children.
Dr. Blessing Onwuamah
Father Presence Advocate
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How is the world at your end?
Are you watching it?
Who would you like to meet in the world cup?
11/07/2026
Day 11 Confession: I will pray consistently for my children.
Some battles are won through prayer long before they are seen in reality.
These confessions are designed to help fathers reflect, grow, heal, and intentionally strengthen their relationships with their teenagers and adult children.
Dr. Blessing Onwuamah
Father Presence Advocate
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Dear Daddy, the quality of your presence matters more than the quantity of your advice
Dear daddy,
Listen to your children..... that is how you make them feel seen.
Dear daddy,
You cannot underestimate the power of conversations.
From the little issues to the big issies.... talk to your teenagers and adult children.
Explain the why behind the situations of life.
Dr. Blessing Onwuamah
Father Presence Advocate
10/07/2026
Day 10: I release the need to always be right.
Relationships matter more than winning arguments.
These confessions are designed to help fathers reflect, grow, heal, and intentionally strengthen their relationships with their teenagers and adult children.
Dr. Blessing Onwuamah
Father Presence Advocate
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