Miracle Femi Lazarus

She said 1:1

Marriage is not a scoreboard. Your spouse hurting you is not an invitation to hurt them back.

Communicate your pain. Address the wrong. But learn to protect the privacy and dignity of your home while you do it.

O ti to

You can love God deeply and still have wounds that need tending.
Sometimes healing is simply learning that what happened to you is no longer happening to you.

Be patient with yourself.
Your body is learning what your faith has been telling you:
You are safe. You are loved. You are not alone.

Some people don’t struggle to believe the Gospel because they doubt God.

They struggle because their nervous system has spent years expecting danger, rejection, or punishment.

Grace can feel unfamiliar before it feels freeing.
Healing is often learning to receive what God has already given. ❤️

Grief doesn’t end when the funeral does.

If you’re carrying the weight of losing someone you love, I hope this reminds you that God is never impatient with your sorrow. He stays. 🤍

If you’re finding it difficult to navigate your grief, you don’t have to do it alone. I work with individuals who are grieving, offering a safe space to process loss and heal. You can book a session through the link in my bio whenever you’re ready.

God sees beyond your coping mechanisms.

He doesn’t confuse your survival strategies with your identity. He sees the person beneath the pain and patiently invites you into healing.

You are deeply known, deeply loved, and safe with Him.

Don’t stress my discernment, I’m not new here, I see you.

The way you love doesn’t end with you.

Someone is learning what love looks like by watching you, especially how you handle conflict and repair after it.

If you want to learn how to apologize in ways that heal instead of harm, The Real Art of Apology is a great place to start.

Get your copy through the link in bio.

Happy new month