23/09/2026
End Your Food Guilt At Social Events
When you go for a meal out with family with a long list of rules about what you can and can’t eat, and you spend the whole night stressed about the impact it’s going to have on the scales - one of two things usually happens.
You heavily restrict yourself, leave feeling miserable, and spend the next day in a guilt spiral anyway. Or you crack, think “I’ve had the parmo, might as well have dessert, might as well have five pints, might as well get a takeaway on the way home” - and what was a Friday night meal turns into a Friday, Saturday, and Sunday blowout.
Three days later you’re wondering why it’s been such a disastrous week. But it wasn’t the Friday night that did it. It was the all-or-nothing thinking that turned one meal out into a full weekend write-off.
The alternative is going to those social events without the guilt, enjoying them properly, having what you actually want in a reasonable amount, and coming away feeling recharged and ready to get back to it - rather than already three days behind.
For the full episode - EP021: Feel Body Confident For Your Christmas Parties And Finally Fix Your Guilt-Ridden Relationship With Food In The Next 12 Weeks - search The Lester Kitching Show on Spotify, Apple, or YouTube.
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