02/05/2024
"Living the dream?" But beneath the sun-kissed beaches of Samui, I felt lost ๐ far from the paradise I'd imagined. Endless meetings at luxurious 5-star resorts tantalising with promises for the future, yet resulting in scant action.
On the islands, it seemed most people's dream was to do as little work as possible ๐๏ธ. There were families, heavy drinkers, and bourgeois spiritual seekers who needed a week to "process" if there was no almond milk at the barista coffee shop or a full moon.
Many people here were running away, stuck in Peter Pan syndrome or overcorrecting from the rat race they'd burned out from. But I didnโt come to Thailand just to sit on a beach and wait ๐.
I came here to make a mark, to create, to contribute and to help people in the real world๐.
The island was full of maybe "next week" people with "sabi sabi" "next week" energy.
I was about "NOW" โฑ๏ธ.
Something needed to change. So I planned a week-long trip to Bangkok, I was on a mission.
David 2019
Has your life ever looked perfect from the outside but didn't that way to live it?
12/04/2024
I have no friends, no contacts, and no network.
Every promise has fallen through: my marriage, my job, my new life, GONE!
Iโm haemorrhaging money at a ridiculous rateโbetween dealing with the divorce, the visa, and having no income, I am stressed out and feeling overwhelmed. Efforts to collaborate with the resorts are fruitless, moving at a glacial pace, as their priorities are elsewhere.
Discussing my plans to move to Bangkok with other practitioners on the island was met with scepticism. But I believe there are opportunities in such a busy city; my services of coaching and helping people create more courageous, confident and connected lives are needed way more there than in this tropical paradise. ๐
Stuck in my Samui condo with no idea where to start, I followed the Google rabbit hole down every avenue I could think of.
Each call to a potential venue was a battle, met with hesitation or outright rejection. I could hear the panic in the voice of the receptionist when she heard a "farang" (foreigner) asking for information. I was permanently put on hold, told no, and hung up on multiple times. โ๏ธ๐ซ
It was BRUTAL.
It felt like a knife being stuck into my gut, this was my last hope of living in Thailand.
But each rejection just hardened my resolve. ๐ช
I would create my own connections.
I would make my own opportunities.
Through calling, messaging and speaking to as many people as I could. I arranged not one but six different workshops over a week. The plan was mad: But I could only afford one week in Bangkok and I needed to make it work.
I was putting myself under A LOT of pressure. Because I knew it was this or the end of my dream. ๐ฅ๐ฏ
David 2019
Have you ever found yourself fighting for a dream in the face of relentless setbacks?
10/04/2024
Facing the pain of everything I had hoped for being burnt to the ground was hard.
Amid the chaos of my marriage ending, navigating lawyers, seeking work, and searching for people I could trust.
If you want to find your weak points, destabilize your life and they will emerge.
Mine came screaming at me each morning. I woke up, anxious my mind racing with a million what-ifs before my eyes were even open.
But I could not let fear control me.
I trained myself to deal with the pressure of uncertainty. To not rely on people, I had listened to many false promises, but no one here wanted my dream as much as me.
I navigated the divorce process with a clear focus on integrity over being "right". I aimed to conclude our chapter with dignity, love, and compassion. Our parting on good terms stands as a testament to this, a fact that fills me with pride.
Armed with my papers, I set my sights on Thailand once again, knowing that to truly plant roots, Bangkok was calling my name. The lethargic pace of island life no longer matched my urgency, nor could I afford to wait on the "help" of others.
As I prepared to embark on this new chapter, I did not know what Bangkok had in store for me...
Circa 2019
19/09/2023
Chew Meng is a 200-hour certified yoga teacher. He is a lifelong learner on the mystical path of yoga in all its dimensions. In his role as a teacher, he inspires his students to embark on their unique odysseys of self-discovery through the physical poetry of asanas. Chew Mengโs yoga classes are vinyasa-based, harmonising a balance of challenge and satisfaction within the flow.
Chew Meng will be teaching Yoga at our next event.
10am-11am (THB 400)
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Event: SOLAR EXPERIENCE
๐๏ธ Date: Sunday, September 24, 2023
๐ Time: 10:00 AM - 2:30 PM
๐ Venue: People of Ari
๐ Activities: Yoga, Self Expression Workshop, Mindful Movement, Dance, Cacao Ceremony, Guided Meditation Journey
๐ Tickets:
SUPER EARLY BIRD (THB 700)
STANDARD (THB 1000)
Yoga (THB 400)
๐๏ธ Book now to secure your spot and be part of this extraordinary experience:๐
Don't miss out on a day of self-expression, growth, and community. We can't wait to celebrate with you! ๐๐ฟ
17/09/2023
At the last Solar, we delved into the world of improv games.
It was hilarious, but it was not just about laughter and spontaneity? They're a powerful tool for practising mindfulness, self-judgment, and social freedom! ๐งโโ๏ธโจ
Back in the day the thought of deliberately making an ass of myself in public was excrutiating, despite not being to admit it, I cared ALOT about what other people thought about me and supressed my feelings and personality in case I looked "silly".
๐ These games demand your full presence in the moment. It's a chance to let go of worries about the past and future, focusing solely on what's happening right now.
๐ญ Self-Judgment: Through improv, we learn to silence our inner critic. No judgments allowed! Embracing mistakes as part of the process teaches us self-acceptance and resilience.
๐ Social Freedom: Ever felt shy or anxious in social situations? These game encourage you to step out of your comfort zone and interact couragously with others. It's a fantastic way to boost your confidence and social skills!
So, if you're looking for a fun and meaningful way to boost your mental well-being and social connections come and join us this Sunday 24th of Ari!
๐ Ticket options:
SUPER EARLY BIRD (THB 700)
STANDARD (THB 1000)
๐๏ธ Secure your spot for this extraordinary adventure here:๐
https://forms.gle/mfbUaPdhfasdnXXG8 (LINK IN BIO)
Don't miss this day of self-expression, growth, and community. ๐
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Event: SOLAR - 1ST BIRTHDAY
๐๏ธ Date: Sunday, September 10, 2023
๐ Time: 10:00 AM - 2:30 PM
๐ Venue: People of Ari
๐ Activities: Yoga, Self Expression Workshop, Mindful Movement, Dance, Cacao Ceremony, Meditation Journey
14/03/2023
Step back in time and experience the magic of a historical Chinese building in the heart of Talat Noi. Our Solar ecstatic dance, cacao ceremony and sound healing event will take place at Baan Rim Naam a truly unique and ancient setting on the banks of the Chao Phraya river
By joining us for this transformative experience, you'll not only be exploring your inner world, but also connecting with the rich history and heritage of the location.
๐ ๐๐จ๐ฅ๐๐ซ ๐๐๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ญ๐ข๐ ๐๐๐ง๐๐
๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐๐๐ฒ, ๐8๐ญ๐ก March ๐๐ ๐๐ฆ - ๐.๐๐ ๐ฉ๐ฆ
๐๐๐๐๐ง ๐๐ข๐ฆ ๐๐๐๐ฆ
๐๐ ๐๐ฎ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐๐ฅ
๐๐๐๐๐จ ๐๐๐ซ๐๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐ฒ // ๐๐ฐ๐๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ฐ ๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ // ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ก๐ญ
๐๐๐ซ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐ข๐ซ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ก๐ญ (๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ ๐๐๐ซ๐๐ก ๐๐๐ญ๐ก)
(Advanced booking advised)
๐๐๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ข๐๐ค๐๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ ๐๏ธ ๐
(In the Bio)
18/09/2022
Solar Ecstatic Dance Sunday 25th, 10.30am-2.30pm. Yellow Lane Ari Weekend Market Entry 700 THB ๐ธ
๐๐๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ข๐๐ค๐๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ ๐๏ธ ๐
https://forms.gle/vKqgV4pLYVifvrja7
๐WORKSHOP SPOTLIGHT๐
Solar Dance ๐
Solar dance, cacao ceremony and sound healing is a celebration of music, life and culture. Bringing together elements from the underground club culture of Europe and the ecstatic dance jungle parties of Koh Phangan to Bangkok! ๐
This is a place where all are welcome with a non-judgemental attitude. We come together to celebrate life and harness the power and vibration of music, movement and connection with no need for alcohol or drugs! ๐ฆ
Learn more through facebook event:
https://www.facebook.com/events/646248153432739
Sign up here: https://linktr.ee/workshopawm