One massive pitfall ADHD brains make is by comparing themselves to their best version day… or even a neurotypical brain on their best day…..
This leads to shame, guilt and a guaranteed road to burnout
There will be days when the battery just isn’t firing and lowering the bar ON PURPOSE will gradually reduce the pressure your putting on your burnt out nervous system
Before you start the day, ask yourself, where am I today?
Good, medium, royally s**t?
Only then can you plan the day without setting yourself up to fail
NeuroSpicy Coaching UK
Neurodiverse? Burned out? Brilliant but overwhelmed? I coach spicy-brained teens finding their footing & millennial women rebuilding theirs. Zero judgement.
Maximum growth. Occasional sarcasm.
12/08/2026
I am indeed hot
I am a girl (grown ass woman)
And holy fireballs is it summer
However…….. I’m embracing the version of a hot girl my tshirt depicts (given to me by one of my absolute favs!)
So for all the new people here just a few bits about me that you may want to know whilst you follow me (or choose to unfollow whatevs!)
🌶️Neurodivergent brains arent wrong, they are different
🏳️⚧️Trans rights are human rights
🏳️🌈Who someone loves or finds hot is none of your god damn business
🇵🇸Free Palestine
⭐️The people of Israel & Jewish community ARE NOT the same thing as their government
🙌🏿Black Lives Matter
🙋🏼♀️Smash the patriarchy
🍔F*ck Fatphobia
🐻Not all men, but always men
I’m sure there are more to add but this is me.
In my 40’s people pleasing and caring what others think of me has dramatically dropped which has led me to finding my voice to call out hate, injustice and general bullsh*t
So I hope this makes you enjoy my space, and if you don’t, that’s cool, but I will just remind you this is not an airport so you don’t need to announce your departure 👋🏻
09/08/2026
This is the face of someone who is so happy right to the soul.
We brought a community together and as a collective raised over £1,000 for neurodivergent children, teens and young adults as well as family support systems
To say I’m blown away is an understatement
The total is still growing and if you would like to help us with the final push please donate here
https://pay.collctiv.com/family-fun-day-3012
However this is more than a number
It is community, and it is a celebration of all minds who are not wired in a way that is widely understood
It is an opportunity to bring joy, social connection and vital vital activities for our young people in spaces where they are only themselves.
Thank you to all the amazing stall holders, to my awesome parents, brother, sister in laws x 2, nephew, children and hubs.
This really was a team effort and without you Gemma Ball, Shani Mogan and Bex as well as all the staff from St Mary’s Church this day literally could not have happened.
And finally to all who came as well as donated, you have done something remarkable for this community.
04/08/2026
4 sleeps to go and I thought I would just let you know what amazing raffle prizes we have on offer for Saturdays fun day thanks to the incredible generosity of our community!!!
- Family Nutrition session (worth £150)
- 2 tickets to a sound bath/yoga session
- 1 hour Virtual Assistant Voucher
- £50 Amazon Voucher
- £30 Adidas Voucher
- 1 KG Organic, ethically sourced Coffee!
- Beauty Bag
- £50 Voucher for outdoor photography or headshots
- £200 Beauty treatments voucher
- One Free Boiler Service
- £50 Dog Grooming Voucher
This is to name but a few!!!!
If you would like to donate to our event, every penny goes towards providing services for our spicy young people and supporting families in our community
But this wont be a success if you don't come and join us!!!
- Local seller stalls
- Yummy cakes, brownies and sweet treats
- Fun activities
- Arts & Crafts
https://pay.collctiv.com/family-fun-day-3012
We are holding a fundraiser at St Mary’s Church in Ewell Village, Surrey
Every penny goes towards providing much needed services for the neurodivergent community, through our non-profit organisation NeuroSpicy Futures CIC
As we are in the thick of summer holidays what better way to entertain the kids for a few hours?!
We have stalls, activities, arts & crafts, food and a whole host of love
Cannot wait to see you there.
Candy
23/07/2026
I am so excited to say we have a Family Fun Day at St Marys in Ewell Village Saturday 8th August 11.-3 to raise vital funds for neurodivergent young people services in our community
We would LOVE to see you there so please add to your diaries
We are also looking for stall holders, so if you or someone you love has a small business, and wants to come and join us, just drop me a message and we will get this show on the road
We were SOOOO thankful to all local businesses who donated a raffle prize, if you did offer and haven't yet heard from me, pretty please contact me.
- Get it in your diaries
- Any stall holders message me
- Raffle prizes always open for more 😮)
21/07/2026
If we've not met properly: I'm Candy. I coach millennial women with ADHD and AuDHD who've spent decades being told they're the problem, when actually they were just running the wrong instruction manual.
Theres nothing wrong with you to begin with let me be clear.
Just your brain finally explained by someone who gets it, and a way of working WITH it instead of white-knuckling through every day.
If you get a tingly "this is me" sensation then tomorrow, Wednesday 22nd July, 8pm. I am running a masterclass. Woo hoo!
It's free, it's live, and it's called The Sky Isn't Pink.
Come find out what your whole life looks like once someone stops gaslighting you about the colour.
Grab your spot here 👉
builtbeyondtypical.com I support neurodiverse women and families under constant pressure to feel steadier and more supported without forcing rest or willpower
17/07/2026
Let me know in the comments x
From September, we're launching a space for neurodivergent 18-24 year olds to just... exist.
Bring your own thing (headphones in, sketchbook out, whatever works for you) or come do something with the group.
Lego.
Art and crafts.
Building stuff.
Sitting quietly near other people who get it.
We're at St Mary's Church, Ewell Village, and before we lock in the format we want to know what YOU actually want to be there. So would love to know:
🧩 What would make you show up on a Wednesday morning?
🎨 Art, Lego, building projects, gaming, something else entirely?
👋 Just want to know it's happening?
Register anyway, we'll keep you posted.
Register here 👉https://forms.gle/v6W76R59d2hWwtwv6
No pressure. No masks required. Just a room full of people who don't need you to explain yourself.
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