08/18/2026
๐ฑ ๐๐ฒ๐ถ๐ฟ๐ฑ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ ๐ฏ๐ ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฎ ๐๐ถ๐๐ฐ๐ต๐ ๐บ๐ผ๐บ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ฐ ๐น๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฎ๐ป ๐ฎ๐๐๐ฝ๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐น ๐น๐ถ๐ณ๐ฒ
The first one might surprise you as someone who also deconstructed fundamentalist christianity, but letโs get into it.
1. ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐๐ฐ๐ต๐ผ๐ผ๐น/๐๐ป๐๐ฐ๐ต๐ผ๐ผ๐น/๐ฑ๐ฒ๐๐ฐ๐ต๐ผ๐ผ๐น/๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐น๐ฑ๐๐ฐ๐ต๐ผ๐ผ๐น
I know that a lot of folks who were fundie christian homeschooled might be like what her? But yes, I donโt love the system in many of itโs forms and not cause I think the schools are brainwashing our kids to be trans, performing surgeries in classrooms, or offering cat litter to teens (none of those things are happening, stop it). BUT I do think that the school system is A SYSTEM that is set up in ONE way to be ONE outcome, and I think humans deserve better than that (it also is so easy for it to become a toxic place for kids and Iโm not here for that)
Having said that, I also take into consideration what each kid wants/needs in each season of life. Last year, my 13yo homeschooled (and prob learned more than at school btw) so she could get a break from the toxicity and mental health overload, this year sheโll be a 14yo going to the high school (Ryker, however, while she โCOULDโ will not be starting kindergarten at 3.5, sorry not sorry)
2. ๐ก๐ผ ๐น๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐น๐
I HATE labels, and I know as humans we want them, want to organize things into columns and categories and binaries. I cannot stand this. I do not understand the incessant need to make things feminine or masculine or what have you. I also donโt like labeling my spirituality. I know what I believe and why and itโs probably some form of nature based pagan beliefs that my family would revolt at, but idc and Iโm not gonna apologize for the way I exist and love everyone and everything around me while vibing ๐คท๐ปโ๏ธ
3. ๐ก๐ผ ๐๐๐ฏ๐๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ๐
I know all you โmedicinal herbs/plant medicineโ girlies are about to come after me, but you do you babes. Itโs not for me. I prefer to be fully present in my body, to be fully embodied is to be fully living. I have no judgment for anyone elseโs life choices and believe we are all on our own journeys, wherever that may lead. I once also smoked w**d occasionally and drank alcohol more than occasionally, but itโs not how I wanna live my life or practice embodiment now and Iโm not gonna say I do
4. ๐ฆ๐ธ๐ถ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ ๐น๐ถ๐ณ๐ฒ
I probably get this from my mom who ALWAYS took such good care of her skin, and still does to this day at nearly 70. My skincare, as with everything else in my life if possible, is so simple. I donโt wear a lot of makeup these days if at all, but I still cleanse with a simple, chemical-free cleanser and use an AMAZING tallow butter made by Caitlin (who is also my massage therapist because self-care) and a simple lip balm. Thatโs it, thatโs the whole system.
5. ๐ง๐ผ๐๐ฐ๐ต ๐ด๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ (๐ผ๐ฟ ๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ)
If Iโm any kind of specific witch, itโs a nature one. The sun, the grass, flowers, sand, ocean water (or any water), rocks and pebbles, bare feet. Get outside, it is literally my church now and you will find what you need with your feet on the ground, especially on the hard days when your kids might be overstimulating, overwhelming and entirely too much for your nervous system.
This is why I will ALWAYS come back to the work I do, because you will find YOUR things inside of an emotional embodiment or other somatic session. Letโs work together for 3 months and see what magical things YOU want to swear by and WHY so you can be the most YOU youโve ever been. You know where the link is ๐
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