Etiquette With Sammy

Last week, we hosted yet another beautiful Living the golden years Event. We gathered and had such enriching conversations, and my heart is full.

The engagement was centered around the theme “Becoming whole; Living fully, Loving deeply, Leaving a Legacy”. It called for us to reflect on the kind of lives we would like to live, how we are intentionally creating them not only for ourselves but those who will come after us.

What made the day and attendance particularly special was the wonderful mix of different generations, our true Golden Girls and those of us who are approaching that season of life. The conversations were thoughtful, honest, reflective and incredibly encouraging. Together, we explored what it means to prepare intentionally for retirement and life’s many transitions, not simply financially, but emotionally, socially and personally.

One thing became very clear: preparing for our golden years doesn’t begin when we retire. It begins while we still have time to shape the life we hope to live. So never think that you are too young or still have time.

The community we are building is for people who choose to take ownership of their future, embrace change with confidence and create fulfilling lives beyond career titles and traditional milestones.

Thank you to everyone who joined us, shared openly and reminded us that every stage of life holds purpose, opportunity and beauty.

This is only the beginning, and I look forward to welcoming many more of you into the conversation as we continue becoming whole; living fully, loving deeply and leaving a legacy.

Six years ago, I released a book.Not because I had all the answers. But because I believed that etiquette had the power to transform lives, careers, and opportunities.

Today, as I revisit Behind the Scenes No More: Thanks to Etiquette, I realize the lessons remain just as relevant.

Professional presence.
Confidence.
Communication.
Relationship building.
Personal growth.

The world has changed. The principles have not.

Perhaps it is time to bring these conversations back; this time through stories, podcasts, and short videos.

Because there are still many people waiting to step from behind the scenes and into the life they were meant to live.

Behind the Scenes No More may be ready for its next chapter. Would you listen?

Public speaking is not about impressing people.

It’s about understanding your audience, creating connection, and keeping them engaged from beginning to end.

When people feel seen, heard, and understood, they listen differently.

And that is where real influence begins.

A new date. A new season. A new conversation.

Join us for Living the Golden Years 2026 as we gather for an afternoon of reflection, connection and celebration. You don’t want to miss this one.

This year’s theme:

Becoming Whole
🌿 Living Fully
🤍 Loving Deeply
✨ Leaving a Legacy

📅 Wednesday, 1st July 2026
📍 House of Joss, Gaborone
⏰ 12:00 PM – 4:30 PM

Investment: P400 (Lunch Included)

Reservations:
📞 +267 72439872

Under the trees, we did more than brunch. We paused.
We reflected.

We wrote down thoughts we had been carrying for far too long.

We shared stories, listened deeply, and gave ourselves permission to slow down.

In a world that constantly asks us to do more, this was a gentle reminder that sometimes growth begins when we become still.

Because self-mastery begins with creating space to hear yourself think.

A beautiful afternoon of conversation, reflection, connection, and intentional living.

Today my office had a few more plants, a little more sunshine and a much needed pause.

After the success of The Luxe Bush Table, I found myself needing a moment to pause, reflect and debrief.

I have come to appreciate that when my mind feels crowded, the answer is not always to push harder. Sometimes it is to step away.

A different environment has a way of quieting the noise, helping us to process our experiences, celebrate our wins, capture lessons learned and make room for fresh ideas.

As much as we talk about decluttering our homes, desks, and calendars, we rarely talk about decluttering our minds. Yet mental clarity is often where our best decisions, creativity, and next steps begin.

Today’s agenda was simple: tea, gratitude, reflection, and a little space to think.

Some meetings are with clients. Some are with teams.
And sometimes, the most important meeting is the one you have with yourself.

Our Little Escape Under the Trees 🌳 🍃🍂

This past weekend, we stepped away from the noise of the city and gathered beneath the trees for an afternoon of connection, reflection, good food, beautiful conversations and meaningful moments.

As summer slowly took its bow and winter quietly arrived, we took a moment to pause and sit with ourselves. Through our Dear Spring letters, we paused long enough to acknowledge how far we have come. We reflected on the season we were leaving behind, celebrated lessons learned, released what no longer served us, and made space for the season ahead.

There was laughter shared between old friends and new ones. There were conversations that reminded us that we are not walking life’s journey alone. There was music, delicious food, thoughtful exchanges and the simple joy of being fully present.

One of the highlights of the day was celebrating one of our own the creative director behind who recently made her debut at the Fashion Without Borders Fashion Show in Johannesburg, South Africa. Her courage, creativity and achievement reminded us that when one woman rises, we all celebrate with her.

The Luxe Bush Table was never just about brunch.

It was about creating space. Space to pause. Space to reflect. Space to connect. Space to celebrate one another.

A gentle reminder that some of life’s most meaningful moments happen when we slow down enough to truly be present.

Until the next table. 🌿🍂🍃

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A beautiful morning spent celebrating International Tea Day at Grand Palm Hotel. ☕️🤎

Good tea, meaningful conversations, elegant company, and scrumptious treats shared among fellow tea lovers ….truly one of those gentle reminders that life’s sweetest moments are often found in simple gatherings and warm connections.

There is something timeless about tea culture… the slowing down, the conversations, the laughter, the etiquette, and the sense of togetherness it brings.

Ofcourse… tea somehow always tastes better when shared. ☕❤️☕️

Midweek check-in.

Some days entrepreneurship feels exciting and purposeful… and other days it feels like replying to emails while running on caffeine, faith, and sheer discipline.

But we keep going.

We keep showing up even on the days we don’t fully feel like it.
We keep choosing the dream.
We keep finding little pockets of joy in between the pressure, the planning, the uncertainty, the deadlines, and the growth.

One thing I’m learning is that success is rarely built in big glamorous moments. Most times, it is quietly built on ordinary Wednesdays… through consistency, resilience, and staying focused when nobody is clapping yet.

So here’s your reminder:
Rest when needed. Regroup when necessary. But don’t lose sight of your vision. Do not lose the dream 💖

Keep going. Your future is watching you in real time.

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As my country Botswana pauses today to mourn the passing of our beloved third President Dr Festus Mogae, may this day carry a little more gentleness, grace and gratitude for all of us.

To those taking advantage of the holiday and resting, may you truly rest. To those working, may your day be productive, peaceful and fulfilling as you close off the week. And to all of us navigating these moments together, may we continue to lead our lives either compassion, dignity and purpose; that’s the legacy Rre Mogae left for us 🙏

Sometimes even a quiet cup of coffee or tea becomes a reminder to slow down, reflect and appreciate the gift of another day. Wishing everyone a restful and meaningful weekend.