Blase Grinner Mens Coach

Dance like no one’s watching. ❤️
In that moment there was a room full of people, yet I couldn’t tell you who was beside us

Just her arms wrapped around me, and a song neither of us can probably even remember the name of now.

That’s what real connection looks like in a marriage.

NOT TICKING A BOX.
NOT THINKING ABOUT TOMORROW.

It’s the unguarded, unposed moment where you forget anyone’s watching because you’re actually being present with the person in front of you.

So many marriages lose that somewhere along the way.

Caught up in what it looks like from the outside, the image, the roles, what people might think, that we forget to just close our eyes and BE THERE, in the moment

Mate, don’t wait for a wedding dance floor to remember what that feels like.

Find it in your own lounge room tonight.

Tradies, here’s 5 signs the job’s quietly wrecking your marriage.

👉🏼 You’ve got mates all day on site, and still go home to nobody who actually knows what’s going on in your head.

👉🏼 Your body’s breaking down and you’ve decided that’s normal, but it’s costing you your energy, your patience, the man she fell in love with.

👉🏼 You’re running fumes, and by the time you’re home there’s nothing left for your wife or your kids.

👉🏼 “Hard worker” became your whole identity, and your family gets whatever’s left over after the job’s taken the best of you.

👉🏼 Site culture says don’t talk about it, so it doesn’t come out, until it “bleeds everywhere”, at home, on the people who least deserve it.

If the job’s costing you your marriage, and you’re not sure how to turn it around, take the survey (link in bio: Mindfit, Is this for me?)

Takes 1 minute, and it’ll point you in the right direction👇🏼

This photo is four men in construction who decided their marriage and their mindset mattered as much as their career.

A site manager. A civil construction business owner. A landscaping foreman.

And me, ten years as a civil supervisor before I built this.

We’re looking for four more, because 👇🏼

I know there’s a depth to you, that isn’t able to being met/nourished in any circle you’re part of

Not at work
Not “exactly” with your mates

Yet, deep down you crave to be fully understood, pushed & challenged.

If you’re a supervisor, foreman, or you own your own construction business, and you’re crushing it on the tools but losing on the home front, 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐒 𝐈𝐒 𝐅𝐎𝐑 𝐘𝐎𝐔!

If alcohol or p🍆rn has become the way you switch off instead of actually dealing with the 💩 you’re sweeping under the rug, 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐒 𝐈𝐒 𝐅𝐎𝐑 𝐘𝐎𝐔!

If you want to look your wife in the eye again with real connection, not just co-existing, 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐒 𝐈𝐒 𝐅𝐎𝐑 𝐘𝐎𝐔!

If you want to be the role model your kids actually need, not just the bloke who provides, 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐒 𝐈𝐒 𝐅𝐎𝐑 𝐘𝐎𝐔!

We built a brotherhood, where we ACTUALLY get you!

Manly men, holding each other accountable, on the tools and at home.

Only 4 spots.

DM me “CREW” and let’s see if you’re a fit