02/09/2026
We communicate a lot through words. Yet… Words are symbols, just as our bodies make symbols, every moment of the day. It’s all language, vehicles for communicating meaning.
We can easily be caught in the dance of making symbols to impress: to convey power, desirability, or forms of being ‘special’. To stand out enough to be admired, yet not enough to be deemed egoic.
Yet the beauty of words, of bodies, of sound and any communication, is its capacity to convey a truth, through expression. As i have learned from an indigenous elder: to speak from the heart, to the heart.
A guiding contemplation I’ve carried with me the past few years: ‘An I speaking to impress, or to express?’
Our words matter. Our body language matters. Our intention matters. The energy we cultivate and carry through the world is what creates the change. Our choices ripple out in ways beyond what can be measured.
That one word of kindness, that one gesture of care… you never know how it might shift the reality of another - or yourself.
This is where one can write something witty, intelligent, poetic or prayerful. I can still feel the conditioning and desire to be impressive, yet I know now that is just empty gift wrap. I’m not interested in gift wrap.
I’m interested in being real, and kind, within all of the light and shadow of being alive and human, in connection with the world. To live it through my body, and actions, not just in words.
So a prompt for you, when you next talk, write, move, respond: are you speaking to impress, or express? 🪞✨
📸 Steve thank you for helping me see myself more truthfully, in all different lights and shadows 🫀