We’ve been taught to think our way into the life we want.
Change your thoughts.
Change your beliefs.
Change your reality.
But what happens when your mind is saying YES and every cell in your body is saying absolutely fu***ng not?
That gap matters.
Because you can convince yourself you want the business model.
The relationship.
The bigger goal.
The opportunity.
The version of success you’ve been chasing for years.
You can journal about it, affirm it, visualise it and create a very convincing argument for why you should want it.
But your body has its own language.
And this is where turn-on becomes so much more interesting than the s*xualised version we’ve reduced it to.
Turn-on is information.
It’s aliveness.
Attention.
Sensation.
Desire.
Energy moving towards something.
It’s Mind made alive in the body.
And when what you think you want and what you actually feel come back into relationship?
You stop fighting yourself.
You stop needing to drag yourself towards things that look right but feel dead.
You stop confusing somebody else’s desire with your own.
And you start recognising the current of your own YES.
Not because every decision needs to feel pleasurable or easy.
But because you know the difference between discomfort that asks you to expand...
and something that simply isn’t fu***ng yours.
THAT discernment is part of the work we do inside The Erotic Do******ix.
Not becoming s*xier.
Not performing pleasure.
Not learning how to be permanently “turned on.”
Learning to recognise, trust and work with the erotic current that is already yours.
I have two spaces becoming available inside Sacred Erotic Domme Training.
If something in your body just went ohhhhh…
Maybe start there.
DM me EROTICA and we can talk. x
Renee Mayne
🔥 Wildfire in human form. Helping women build lives they're wildly turned on by. Erotic Intelligence. Soulful business. Unapologetic power. https://linktr.ee/renee
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26/08/2026
I don't need your self-doubt to make my business profitable.
And I will NEVER make you feel like s**t about yourself so you'll buy from me.
Maybe that costs me sales.
Good.
Fifteen years ago, I created policies around how I would market, sell and lead.
No manufacturing fear.
No deliberately poking at someone's “not enoughness” so I can swoop in with the solution.
No positioning myself as the enlightened guru at the top of the mountain while you're the poor fu**er trying to catch up.
It's ick.
And it's a really s**tty foundation for any relationship.
I've lived and worked by the Universal Law of Service for 20 years.
I'm not above you.
I'm not below you.
I'm on the path with you.
I haven't “arrived.”
Truthfully, I don't believe there is a fu***ng destination.
I speak about taboo things.
I have strong opinions.
I'll challenge ideas and industry dogma all day long.
But I will NEVER build my platform by belittling someone else who's trying, finding themselves or doing their thing differently to me.
And if you work with me?
I want to know you.
I've paid for coaching where I had absolutely NO interaction with the actual coach beyond watching their prerecorded training.
Each to their own.
But that's not my jam.
If you're my client and I don't know your name...
Mate.
We're not vibing.
I care deeply about the women I work with.
I want to know what's happening.
I want to celebrate the wins and call bulls**t when bulls**t needs calling.
I want to be ALL IN for the work we've agreed to do together.
Not because that's the “right” business model.
Because it's mine.
These little choices matter.
They're how we stop building businesses from somebody else's rules and start deciding what WE stand for.
So I'm curious:
What are the hell YESes and absolute F**K NOs in your business?
You don’t need another fu***ng thing to work on.
Especially not yourself.
Women are so ridiculously hard on themselves.
I see it all the time.
The moment we feel exhausted, disconnected, unsure or like something isn’t quite clicking, we turn ourselves into another fu***ng project.
Journal more.
Ask better questions.
More affirmations.
Meditate more.
Exercise more.
Heal more.
More.
Always more.
And there is nothing wrong with more.
BUT.
What I see inside my client work is that the next right thing is rarely another thing to DO.
It’s usually the thing we’ve been trying to go over, under and around.
Our aliveness.
The embodiment of your erotic current.
Your yum.
Because regulation isn’t the destination.
Aliveness is.
There is a state beyond constantly managing yourself back to “safe.”
A state where you can feel fear AND move.
Uncertainty AND desire.
Discomfort AND pleasure.
Where you don’t have to get rid of one experience before you’re allowed to have another.
This is what I call the third nervous system state.
And your erotic current is an entry point.
Now, just for the record, erotic comes from Eros.
When the mind marries love we both pleasure.
THAT is the essence of the erotic current.
Not s*x.
Life force.
The current that switches you back on and brings you into relationship with what’s actually alive inside you.
So if you’re exhausted, disconnected and unsure of your next move...
Maybe the answer isn’t another fu***ng thing to work on.
Maybe it’s time to come alive.
25/08/2026
There’s so much conversation about how hard it is when our kids leave home because we’ll miss them.
Of course we fu***ng will.
But I think there’s another grief we don’t name enough.
For years, there has always been someone else to consider before we even get to the question, “What do I want?”
So when the space finally appears, freedom can feel strangely confronting.
Not because there’s something wrong with you.
Because you’re meeting a woman you haven’t had this much space to know before.
And I don’t think our job is to “find ourselves again.”
I think we get to discover who the f**k we are now.
That feels much more exciting to me.
What are you discovering you want in this era?
23/08/2026
THREE THINGS I WISH SOMEONE HAD TOLD ME WHEN I STARTED BUILDING MY BUSINESS.
I would do a lot of things differently, and funnily enough, if I had to start over, this is what I would absolutely do!
22/08/2026
It's been an intense week for women around Australia, and my heart goes out to every woman who has experienced abuse and assault in any form.
I did Channel a message for those who are feeling it, if you'd like me to send it to you, just let me know.
If I could turn back time, this is what I would have told myself and if it helps one person by sharing this... I am happy.
Every like, comment, share or save helps messages like this reach the people who need it, so I encourage you to do whatever you can and feel, because you never know who needs it and every step counts # # #
And Big Sky Daddy is punishing us.
Like, our evolution only comes from the fruits of our labour that is joyous and we’re good little girls who obey Daddy.
As coaches, teachers and leaders in this space, we have a duty of care to set people up with magical realism,
We don’t set people up to fail,
To make them believe they are losing at life and spirit when s**t doesn’t go their way,
At the same time as guiding them into the truth that they can, in fact, take control of their lives. flourish and melt into the yum.
This is where the scale of consciousness fails us,
It’s not wrong, it’s incomplete.
We do have the power to allow everything to co-exist, and it’s when we deem them as bad or wrong that we “lower our vibration.”
Allowing and trusting every entry point that is whatever is real and alive inside of us,
Knowing that is the perfect entry point into magick realism in this moment.
Let’s talk about the unspoken, a lot of women don’t want their kids to leave home. Why? This gets to be an era of your choosing, you get to decide and first, we need to be honest about why we’re holding onto our little family as we know it.
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