Carla Da Costa

Close out a chapter in the final months of 2026.

Whether internally and emotionally.
Or practically.

4 spots now left remaining with me for this special container inspired by a transformative feminine activation I just completed with 50 women beside me.

If you knew what I have had to move through over the last 9 months you would be shook.

My level of personal/professional healing and learning has been profound.

And always here to lead and inspire my clients alongside.

DM “Sisterhood” to enquire about the 4 spots left remaining and to explore could this be right for you? 🙌🏼

Seeing an ex who is moving on and seems to have it all together can cut deep — but appearances can be misleading.

In my latest post I explore why visible stability after divorce doesn’t always equal real growth, and how the messier path can be the transformative path . Read the full piece: https://wix.to/VY442q1

When Your Ex Looks Like They’re Doing Better Than You After Divorce. Growth after Divorce. Does it look like your ex is doing better than you after divorce? Discover why personal growth after divorce can look messy, uncertain and ungrounded — and why you may not be falling behind at all.

Comment “BLOGPOST” below to read the full article.

Your growth can look ungrounded and messy to people who haven’t really changed in 10, 15 or 20 years.

And your exes life is certainly no longer your measuring stick.

But what does it really mean?
And why is this happening?

Happy Father’s Day … 🤷🏼‍♀️

The hardest respect to win back, is the loss of it from your children when they eventually see through you.

xx

When a client reaches this inner point everything begins to work out favourably for them.

Some of my clients have experienced some of the most horrible, abusive and toxic experiences from the hands of someone who “loved” them.

Your experience can be shifted into something wonderful for you.

Please DM me to enquire about my group and 1:1 professional coaching services.
This is not therapy or counselling.

It’s not about going back in time. There’s nothing to undo.

It’s taking what you’ve been through and weaving it into a new feminine version of you.

Comment RETURN below to join us from this Sunday for my newest 9 day activation.

$77 AUD
9 days.
Daily 20 min voice activations.
Private Telegram channel.
Starts Aug 30th - Sep 8th.

A lot of women tell me they’re trying to get out of their masculine energy.

But here’s the part I think we need to talk about more:

For many women, the marriage didn’t put her there.

She entered the relationship already energetically leading it and carrying it. Some women, quietly manipulating it even to keep it together.

And very often, the relationship simply organised itself around her capacity to carry.

She became the driver.

The more she did, the less her partner needed to do.

The more she took responsibility for the relationship, the easier it became for somebody else not to.

Until eventually she wasn’t just in the relationship.

She was keeping the relationship alive.

And then divorce or heartbreak can reinforce the pattern even further.

So when women tell me they want to “come out of their masculine,” I don’t think the answer is becoming less ambitious, less independent, less successful or less powerful.

God, no.

Keep that side.
Just not in love.
In love you need to bring a whole other side.

Keep the woman who knows how to lead herself.

The woman who receives, who lets her guard down, who’s vulnerable.

Who trusts her intuition.

Who allows herself pleasure.

Who desires.

Who rests.

Who lets herself be supported.

Who doesn’t measure her value by how much she can hold together.

🌿 This is exactly what we’re exploring inside The Feminine Return.

A 9-day activation for the woman who is ready to make room for these parts of herself again.

We begin August 30th.
Investment is $77 AUD.

Comment RETURN below and I’ll send you the details.

You don’t need to lose your strength.
It’s about awakening another side of yourself.