Carla Da Costa

Divorce changes your circumstances. It doesn’t change your future.

You do.

Your marriage ending won’t automatically make you more confident.

It won’t automatically bring healthier relationships.

It won’t automatically create wealth, purpose, or peace.

Those are built one decision at a time.

The boundaries you set.

The standards you refuse to lower.

The people you allow into your life.

The work you choose to build.

The risks you’re willing to take.

The way you speak to yourself when no one else is listening.

Every one of those choices compounds.

Five years from now, your life won’t be defined by the fact that you got divorced.

It will be defined by who you decided to become afterwards.
That’s the real turning point.

If you’re ready to stop reacting to what happened, playing blind and start intentionally creating what comes next,
comment CREATE below.

Most women rebuild after divorce - we have to!

Some completely reinvent their lives - now that’s a choice!

The difference isn’t luck.

It isn’t timing.

It’s a decision.

Time doesn’t reinvent you.
Intentional change does.

Some women join me inside my coaching program AfterGlow before they’ve left their marriage.

Some join six months after it’s ended.

Some join five or even ten years after their marriage ended because they’ve realised time has not reinvented them or their life.

If your life and love choice’s still don’t feel like the life you imagined…

If you’re tired of rebuilding and you’re ready to reinvent…

✨ Comment “AFTERGLOW” below or send me a DM with the word AFTERGLOW and I’ll send you further details.

Love to have you inside my foundational coaching program for women.

Stop protecting your current financial reality. Start creating your next one.

👇 Comment WEALTH below and I’ll send you the details on how I can support you.

You need to get more excited.
Not hesitant or fearful.

One of the biggest patterns I’ve noticed after working with people rebuilding their lives after separation is this…

We become so focused on protecting what we have left that we stop asking ourselves a much more important question.

How do I become someone who knows how to create more?

More income.

More opportunities.

More confidence.

More wealth.

More choice.

Protecting what you have isn’t wrong.

But if protection becomes your only strategy, it can quietly become the very thing that limits your future.

The people who create extraordinary financial lives don’t simply become better at holding onto money.

They become better at creating it.

Because every financial ceiling requires an identity upgrade.

Every new financial level asks you to become someone different.

Not someone luckier.

Someone who thinks differently.

Leads differently.

Backs themselves differently.

That’s what this conversation is really about.

✨ Comment WEALTH below and I’ll send you the details on how I can support you.

Same mindset = Same bank balance.

Five years from now.

👇 Comment WEALTH below and I’ll send you the details for my new 9-day activation, Become the Woman Who Builds Wealth. We start July 7th.

Most women spend years trying to earn more money.

Or trying to feel safer and more secure with the money they already have.

Very few spend that same time becoming the woman capable of creating and holding wealth.

The truth is...

Your financial future isn’t determined by what you know.

It’s determined by your financial identity.

The way you think.

The decisions you make.

The risks you’re willing to take.

The standards you hold.

And whether you’re prepared to become someone different.

Because you can’t create a different financial future while thinking like the woman who created your current one.

That’s exactly what we’ll be changing inside Become the Woman Who Builds Wealth.

✨ Comment WEALTH below and I’ll personally send you the details.

I’ve watched women leave their marriages with significant financial settlements and still live with financial hesitation and scarcity.

I’ve watched other women leave with debt—or start again with very little—and go on to build extraordinary wealth.

I’ve watched clients receive pay rises, inherit money and build successful businesses, yet still never truly feel financially safe.

Money comes in.
Then it goes out.

Or it never seems to come in at all.

The difference wasn’t these women’s circumstances.
It was their identity.
Their mindset.
Their relationship with money.
Their willingness to back themselves.

The woman who builds wealth thinks differently.
She makes different decisions.
She invests differently.
She leads herself differently.

And over time...

She creates a completely different financial future ✨

I no longer believe wealth begins with money. Because I don’t see it in my clients.

🔥Wealth begins with the woman 🔥

Over the last decade, I’ve rebuilt my own life.

A marriage ending.
Financial rebuild.
Building a business.

Twice 🤯

Learning to trust and back myself.
Creating a life I genuinely love.
Not needing a man to make big financial decisions or to use/manipulate.

And somewhere along the way I realised...

The greatest investment I ever made wasn’t in property.
Or business.
Or the stock market.

➡️ The longevity was in becoming the woman capable of creating wealth over a lifetime. That s**t lasts.

That’s why I’ve created “Become the Woman Who Builds Wealth

A nine-day activation for women who are ready to upgrade their financial identity and begin leading their financial lives differently.

WE START JULY 7TH.

Because when the woman changes...
Everything changes.

✨ Doors are now open.

If you’re ready to become the woman who creates wealth from the inside out, I’d love to have you with us.

Comment WEALTH below or send me a DM and I’ll send you the details.

28•6•2026
The day where the last 12 months of being in a chrysalis so I could rebuild, realign, come out wiser and better for it all came to a “feeling” end. It’s here 🦋

A chrysalis is the protective casing that surrounds a butterfly during metamorphosis. It’s where the caterpillar completely dissolves first before it is fundamentally transformed with wings.

When you see me back working at my dining table sometime in July, know it’s me fully “on” and emerged out of this time.

In the 12 months.

* I’ve dealt with terrible health issues due to stress and repressed emotions I didn’t realise I was carrying. A wake up call. It’s finally resolved itself through treatment, diet, energetic healing, colon hydrotherapy. I’m just navigating some things with my daughter’s life situation now that trigger it at times. But my energy is back. Vitality feels good. Thank you to Stacey relationshipwithin_ for that last final cleanse. Bec from the Earth Lab.

* I leave this twelve months the strongest and fittest I’ve ever been. Emerging out of this chrysalis with muscles I didn’t know I had. A gym space and crew I’ll be sad to leave.

* My business has been reborn. And with hindsight it’s been an internal ego fight to evolve and be more vulnerable than it was a systems problem. Me against me and myself and “we” haven’t always agreed 😆 I sit with a MRR that I’ve built up since February where I can now say that my business has stacked and STABILISED back to a monthly income that it was at before this all fell down around me. I’ve rebuilt back my business in months that previously had taken me years to get to this place. I’ve proven to myself I’m a stay’er. For many it would have been easier to walk away but I couldn’t walk away. Thank you to Ellie Swift | Mastermind + Online Program Coach for helping last year with the beginnings of finding my new voice. To Steph Gorton (Frey) | Business Coach 🔥 and Timothy Frey at Success School for putting fuel and fire back into the business ignition.

The fight of my life personally and professionally to regroup so I could fly again has occurred over this last 12 months that only a handful truly know about. Thank you to that handful.

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Did you see yourself in these thoughts? 💭

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Did you see your thinking in here? 💭

Join me inside my post—separation recover and rebuild coaching program “AfterGlow” for women or within one of my 1:1 private coaching offerings.

DM me “NOW” for a free 15 minute consultation to chat.