04/09/2026
Are you the strong one too?
The one who holds it together while someone in your team falls apart?
The one who absorbes the overwhelming amount of „what’s next“ so the team or the college doesn’t have to carry it alone?
If you spent years supporting and guiding others through thick and thin you know what I’m talking about…
It’s getting a bit too much no?!
And maybe, even now —
you don’t think of yourself as someone who can’t carry this heavy load ?
Because you’re always the one who guides others…
Because you are an amazing leader… it used to give you energy to create solutions, guide others to achieve goals etc.?!
But things are changing.
Yesterday a client in his 50s said to me: „can no one do their job anymore?“
That summed it up.
That’s what’s I hear a lot 😞
If you have spent years being strong for others and have never quite given yourself permission
to acknowledge what it cost YOU to carry that weight - then this post is inviting you to reflect.
Just reflect for a moment: what do you need right to lessen your load?
Have a good weekend,
Claudia