Jill Stanton

CALLING ALL BADDIES AND WANNABE BADDIES 📢

This one is for you 💋

Being “low-maintenance” should not mean being endlessly available for low effort.

You can be warm, open, flexible, understanding, and feminine…

AND ALSO expect intention from a man.

You can enjoy a man’s attention without giving him access to your time, body, softness, and emotional world before he has actually shown you he knows how to value it.

Because when you keep accepting vague plans, inconsistent communication, and bare-minimum effort just so you can seem low maintenance…

You’re not being easy to love.

You’re making it easy for the wrong man to coast.

And you are not here to be convenient.

You are here to be pursued, valued, respected, and poured into.

Besides, a high-caliber man is not turned off by a woman with standards.

He is turned on by a woman who knows access to her means something. 💋

If you’re ready to stop settling for low-effort dynamics, then hit the L I N K on my profile and watch The Pursued Woman for only $1 today.

Because you are too hot, brilliant, and successful to keep rewarding a man who doesn’t pursue and pour into you.

Remember that 🤍

No high caliber woman tolerates games, and no high caliber man plays them 💋

1️⃣ **Stop making it so easy for him to see you that he never has to actually plan.****
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Like constantly saying, “I’m pretty flexible,” or “whatever works for you,” or sliding into whatever window he casually offers.

That can look chill, but it also removes the opportunity for him to be intentional.

2️⃣ **Stop responding to vague energy with more warmth than it has earned.****
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If his text is low-effort, unclear, or lazy, don’t meet it with your full sparkle, depth, and availability just because you’re excited he reached out.

3️⃣ **Stop turning one good moment into a whole fantasy.****
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He planned one date, sent one thoughtful text, opened up one time, and suddenly your brain is building a future.

Let him show you who he really is before you start planning out your entire future with this dude.

4️⃣ **Stop filling in his gaps with your imagination.****
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If he hasn’t clearly shown consistency, intention, emotional maturity, or leadership, don’t use his potential, his job, his confidence, or the way he looked at you to create a version of him he hasn’t actually earned.

Keep your discernment and your standards high, chicks.

5️⃣ **Stop trying to “keep the momentum going” when he lets it drop.****
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If he slows down, gets vague, or stops moving the connection forward, don’t immediately jump in to revive it.

Let the pause show you whether he has the desire and intention to keep pursuing you.

Did I forget any? Tell me in the comments!

Everything you want exists, so for the love of God please be picky and ask for what you truly want 💋

I swear, I’m doing the Lord’s work with this one…

Fellas, listen to me right now:

If you have a high-caliber woman on your hands…

Please know that she wants to get fcking handled by you.

And not in some messy, reckless, performative kinda way that feels forced (and therefore unattractive)...

In a grounded, attuned, “I know how to make you melt” kinda way.

Because when a woman spends all day making decisions, leading the team, running the business, raising the kids, carrying the emotional labor, being the one everyone comes to…

The very last thing she wants behind closed doors is yet another thing she has to initiate or manage.

She wants to feel your hunger.

Your presence.

Your praise.

Your hand on the back of her neck (or *cough* her throat *cough*).

Your “come here” energy.

She wants to be wanted without feeling unsafe.

Led without being controlled.

Handled without being used.

And when a powerful woman trusts the man in front of her enough to surrender?

Pfffft…you don’t even know how good it’s about to get 🥵

Here’s the text 🥁🥁🥁

“I really liked how I felt around you tonight. You made it so easy to relax and enjoy myself… and that doesn’t happen with everyone. Thank you again for a beautiful night.”

And listen…

You’re not using this text to act like a Stage 5 Clinger.

You’re using it to let him know that his presence and effort didn’t go unnoticed…while still exuding magnetism.

Because a high-caliber man wants to know he pleased you.

So, copy and paste this text, fire it off the next time you’re out on a date and watch how he responds.

Want more written-for-you magnetic texts to make a high-caliber man pursue you?

✅Hit the link on my profile for 33 Texts to get 33 magnetic word-for-word texts you can send today.

Repeat after me 📢 High caliber women are NOT a match for most of the men out there.

And honestly? Thank GOD 🙌

Because when you’re successful, emotionally intelligent, hot, deep, discerning, and actually have a vision for your life… you are operating in a whole other realm than 95% of these motherf**kers.

That doesn’t mean there are “no good men.”

It just means your energy is filtering out the ones who don’t have the range to actually meet, pursue, and pour into you.

And fewer men will feel aligned with your standards and values.

That’s not a bad thing.

That’s a REALLY GOOD THING because you were never meant to be easy access for men who can’t hold the frame.

If you want to learn the personal magnetism techniques that call in a high-caliber man who actually aligns with your standards, values, and vision…

✅ Hit the link on my profile for The Pursued Woman to get The Pursued Woman training for $1.

Because a high caliber man isn’t intimidated by your frequency…he’s magnetized by it.

Here’s the text 🥁🥁🥁

“Mmmm there was something about the other night that I haven’t been able to stop thinking about…”

That’s the whole text 🤭 and why I love it is because you open a loop and he starts to lean in.

It’s flirty, feminine, and just mysterious enough to make him wonder exactly what you mean.

Want more written-for-you magnetic texts to make a high-caliber man pursue you?

✅Hit the link on my profile for 33 Texts to get 33 magnetic word-for-word texts you can send today.

If he’s passive, inconsistent, or low-effort and you’re still giving him warmth, access, attention, your body, your patience, and your “I understand” energy…

Then hear me when I tell you this:

When you allow this behavior, you are showing a man that he can give you crumbs and still get rewarded with your presence + attention.

But here’s the thing…

That’s not how The Pursued Woman behaves.

She doesn’t play games.

Because she doesn’t need to.

She simply stops entertaining men who can’t rise to the level of her self-worth.

And if they self-select out? Then….good!

That’s the filter working to repel the low effort, passive ones from ever coming into your field.

That isn’t a loss…that’s a HUGE win!

And the sooner you realize that? The sooner the right ones start being magnetized in.

Want that?

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men pursue + pour into you